Text: Purple Jade Butterfly
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It can be doubled when I come out, and the sadness is even worse. Recently, I always think of him inadvertently when I dream or do something. In the morning, I decided to write this article as a way to put my thoughts on him.
My uncle is born in his 60s. He hasn't lived a good life in this life, but he always said that he didn't have much hardship, and his sister and younger brother did all the hard work.
Uncle is a talented and capable person (at least I think he is), he likes to read, because the bookcase at home is full of books on family economics. Because of the conditions, I failed to complete my studies and later accumulated a lot of cultural knowledge through my own efforts.
Uncle also started a business when he was young. In the early 1990s, he set up a soy sauce vinegar factory, but unfortunately it closed down for various reasons such as poor management. In elementary school, I felt that my uncle was a very good person. Now I want to set up a factory. It is a very big project just to get loans, build a factory, and recruit people.
Many people admire his ability and boldness.It's just bad luck. Later, because of the blow of his entrepreneurial failure, he followed others to work northward, and left his hometown like this for a few years. At that time, I think it should be the darkest time in his life.
The failure of entrepreneurship, the will must be depressed, and no one can lightly ignore the ups and downs of life. When I saw him again many years later, I felt that my uncle had a lot of vicissitudes, but In my heart, he is still the stalwart, talented uncle.
Uncle is a warm and warm person. Whether he is to relatives or strangers, he is always meek and meek to others. It is hard to imagine that he is such a northern man. Normal northern men are Very strict (such as my dad), but the uncle did not.
I remember once, I saw him bid farewell to a friend who had only known each other for a few days. He waited for others to leave before he walked home from the door. He said to me, this Doing is a kind of respect for others.
The uncle must be righteous. In the eyes of outsiders, even if he does what he asks for, he will do everything at home. Help others first. Once, a person in our village had a vehicle impounded due to a violation of regulations. I heard from nowhere that the uncle knew a person from the city management, so he went to him. Without saying anything, he went to find an acquaintance. It came out, but he paid for the cigarettes.
One year during the " double grab " period,The wheat harvest was just over, the rice was planted, and the fields were ready. My father went out because of an emergency, and my mother watched the sinking water level from morning to night alone. Her mouth was irritated with blisters. .
In desperation, my mother called the uncle. Early the next morning, my uncle brought six of his acquaintances to my house. From pulling out seedlings, transporting, planting seedlings, planting, and planting all five and a half acres of rice at night when it was getting dark. When my mother asked to have dinner at home, the elder uncle said that he would not accept anything, but took someone to leave quickly. He said that his own rice would be planted the next day.
Later, my mother heard that my uncle went back that night, and then she paid everybody who talked about it at the restaurant. , It will be difficult to self-brake tears.
After graduating from university, my uncle and I worked in the same city. He helped me find my internship because the uncle always said that he does not have a daughter. He usually treats me as a daughter. In jokes, he always said that when he was 66 years old, he would eat meat cut by his daughters. In fact, I really want to tell him that even if he has no daughters, the 66-year-old will definitely eat less meat than others.
But who would have thought that my uncle would not wait until this day... In the years that followed, my uncle had a stable job and always introduced his work to his fellow villagers, but only others could find him, he Never refuse, always do my best to help, come and help others arrange everything for food and accommodation.
The family always persuades him not to talk about so many things, but he always refuses to listen, because it is something that allows him to shine, and he wants to pass his enthusiasm and warmth to him. everyone.
Uncle is a filial person. In addition to filial piety to his parents, I often hear him talking on the phone with his mother. The relationship between siblings and brothers is even more sibling, because it is the first time I know my mother’s birthday. What my uncle told me is that many things may not be great. They are reflected in the details of life. He has affected the people around us and made our entire family full of gratitude and love.
Suddenly one day, I heard that my uncle had cancer. When I heard the news, I suddenly felt like a thunderstorm. I watched him become thinner and thinner. I remembered giving him a video once. He was skinny and skinny. He was originally over 180 in height. He was a very fat person and he was only 110 kilograms thin. I couldn't stand it when I saw it. I hung up the phone and started crying bitterly.
Later, I also failed to see my uncle for the last time. In November last year, he left us forever and couldn’t accept it. I felt like he was still by my side. He bought it at home that day. three yellow chicken, I suddenly thought that the first three yellow chicken I ate was bought for me by my uncle. The first time he took me on the subway, and the first time to see the World Expo, we also went together. Yes, there are many more...
Dear uncle,I hope you live well in heaven and stay away from pain forever!
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