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001, Liu Guoliang 5 years old. He was leading the team to participate in the Qingdao Open at that time. He never expected that he would become a "big media" accidentally!
On this day, he invited his good brother Guo Bin to visit the team. When the two passed by the stadium, they saw a female player from afar. Because the female player "dishes with hair", she looked sloppy. Guo Bin turned to ask Liu Guoliang: Are you female players like this on weekdays? Why does it feel a little "scary"?
After seeing who the female team member was clearly seen, Liu Guoliang smiled subtly and said to Guo Bin: Since you think she is "scary", then I might as well introduce you two to get to know each other well.
When the female team member approached, Liu Guoliang laughed and said: Wang Nan, let me introduce you to you. This person is my good brother Guo Bin. He just said that you are a bit "scary". After hearing this, Wang Nan asked in confusion: Where is I scared?
After learning that the girl in front of me was Olympic champion Wang Nan, Guo Bin said nothing. Seeing Guo Bin who suddenly became deeper, Liu Guoliang was puzzled in his heart: Guo Bin is considered a person who has seen the world, and he will never say anything when he sees Wang Nan.
More than a year later, when Liu Guoliang mentioned this scene again, he still felt resentful. He said: At that time, I saw Guo Bin not saying a word, and I thought he was embarrassed to see Wang Nan. Who knew that this guy had "minds" behind him!
As the party involved, Guo Bin recalled this scene in the interview, which was also very impressive.
He joked: When I saw Wang Nan, my first reaction was that this was different from that in TV. Wang Nan on TV felt quite energetic, but when I saw it in private, it felt like that!
After hearing this, Wang Nan not only did not get angry, but instead laughed: Why, I feel like I was cheated, right?
Although in the interview, Guo Bin recalled that when he first met Wang Nan, he seemed to have a bad feeling, but after seeing Wang Nan for the first time, he quickly took positive actions!
The first "assist" found by Guo Bin was not Liu Guoliang, but Liu Guoliang's brother, Liu Guodong .
It turned out that Guo Bin wanted to invite Wang Nan out for dinner at that time, but he was embarrassed and asked Liu Guoliang to talk to him, and felt even more embarrassed, so he asked Liu Guodong to call Wang Nan out.
As a result, Liu Guodong went to look for it several times, but Wang Nan didn't come out. Finally, Guo Bin discussed a plan with Liu Guodong, which was to let Liu Guodong sit in Wang Nan's dormitory first, and then Guo Bin pretended to go and find Liu Guodong, so that he would have the chance to meet Wang Nan for the second time.
After meeting Wang Nan for the second time, Guo Bin still didn't say a word and didn't say much when he saw him twice, which instead attracted Wang Nan's attention.
In the interview, Wang Nan talked about this passage. She said: I saw Guo Bin not speaking at the time, and I thought he was introverted because when everyone was chatting, he sat wherever he said nothing.
But then Wang Nan found out that Guo Bin is not that simple!
A few more days later, Wang Nan's game was about to end, and Guo Bin asked Liu Guoliang to invite Wang Nan for barbecue. When he heard that everyone was going, Wang Nan agreed.
But after arriving at the hotel, Wang Nan found that only Guo Bin was waiting at the door, and Liu Guoliang and the others did not come. At this time, Wang Nan felt a little strange. Before she could ask where the others were going, Wang Nan came even more surprised.
After Guo Bin arranged for Wang Nan to sit down, the first sentence was: Wang Nan, do you have a boyfriend? If you don't have one, let's make do with each other.
When Wang Nan heard Guo Bin's words, his first reaction was that he felt that this person was "ill", but for the sake of face, Wang Nan just replied: You are quite confident.
More than a year later, Wang Nan still felt incredible when he remembered Guo Bin's scene. Later, she realized that Guo Bin has always been confident and bold in the people and things she likes.
It has been 21 years since Guo Bin and Wang Nan met. Even though they have been "old husband and wife" who have been married for 17 years in the eyes of ordinary people, Guo Bin and Wang Nan have never changed.
Even the "big matchmaker" Liu Guoliang, when he mentioned the love between Wang Nan and Guo Bin, he was very moved. He called the love between these two people not only a contemporary story, but also a legend! Because Guo Bin and Wang Nan have experienced too many things!
In the end, what did Wang Nan and Guo Bin experience together? How did they keep their marriage fresh after 21 years in love? Today, let’s go to Guo Bin and Wang Nan to see the couple’s daily marriage.
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Liu Guoliang once commented on Guo Bin: Before meeting Wang Nan, this person knew nothing about table tennis. After meeting Wang Nan, he chased him all over the world to watch Wang Nan’s game.
In the interview, Wang Nan talked about two impressive past events.
The first thing was that Wang Nan finished the game and found a large group of fans waiting outside. Seeing everyone rushing to sign, Wang Nan was afraid of causing chaos and wanted to leave quickly. At this time, he suddenly heard someone honking the horn in the car in front. When he saw that the driver was Guo Bin, Guo Bin told Wang Nan that he happened to meet him by passing by.
Later someone told Wang Nan that Guo Bin did not "coincidence". He was secretly watching Wang Nan's game. When the game was about to end, he ran to drive all the way, for fear of missing out with Wang Nan.
The second item is that Wang Nan was playing a game in a small county town at that time. The county town was relatively remote and it was not easy for ordinary people to find it. But Guo Bin asked Wang Nan on the phone, do you want to see me today? Wang Nan said he wanted to see him, but he couldn't see him! Unexpectedly, Guo Bin had already stood quietly outside Wang Nan's room.
Whenever I think of this, Wang Nan said that he felt like Guo Bin was pretending to be positioned on me. I never told him where I was, but he could always find it.
Perhaps it was with this enthusiastic and positive spirit that Guo Bin and Wang Nan quickly confirmed their relationship, but after they really fell in love, Guo Bin realized that it was not that easy to fall in love with athletes.
Because Wang Nan was the main force of the national team at that time, she devoted almost all her energy to training and had no time at all. She fell in love like an ordinary girl. After seeing Wang Nan's daily life, Guo Bin admired this girl who dedicated her body and mind to the country even more.
Guo Bin said that he didn’t understand the hard work of athletes before, but after he really came into contact with them, he realized that they were far greater than ordinary people imagined.
In the second year of love, Guo Bin experienced the first trough in Wang Nan's life.
In 2002, Wang Nan was "expected" at the Asian Games in Busan. After returning to China, he encountered doubts and pressure from all parties. Seeing Wang Nan in a low mood, Guo Bin could only accompany him silently. He agreed with the people around him that as long as Wang Nan came over, no one would mention the competition.
During that time, Guo Bin took Wang Nan to relax and thought of ways to make Wang Nan happy. This was the first time Guo Bin discovered that athletes seemed strong, but in fact they would be very hurt inside.
In the fourth year of love, Wang Nan once again suffered a major setback in the competition.
At the 2005 Shanghai World Table Tennis Championships, Wang Nan lost another "defeated". This defeat not only seriously hit Wang Nan's confidence, but also made her doubt about her playing career.
Just as Wang Nan walked out of the stadium with a disappointed look on his face, he never expected that there were fans waiting with roses in their hands. When they saw the roses in everyone's hands, Wang Nan was very surprised. It was not until Wang Nan was taken to the room full of roses by the reporter that Wang Nan realized that this was Guo Bin's arrangement.
That year, Guo Bin used "10,001" roses to resolve the pain in Wang Nan's heart. He said: I just hope Wang Nan knows that no matter at any time, she is "one in a thousand" in my heart.
Perhaps in the eyes of ordinary people, Guo Bin has done his best to romance Wang Nan, but in Wang Nan's heart, what Guo Bin has put in is not only his thoughts, but also full of responsibility and responsibility.
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On October 10, 2005, Guo Bin and Wang Nan got their marriage certificate, but before they could feel the joy of their newlyweds, God gave Wang Nan another "slap". She suddenly fainted during daily training and was sent to the hospital and was found to have thyroid cancer .
Faced with this result, Wang Nan's parents were worried, and they felt guilty about Guo Bin's new son-in-law, and their mother-in-law even said bluntly: "If I had known that Wang Nan had this disease, I would not have asked her to get a marriage certificate with you, so as not to delay you later."
But unexpectedly, after hearing this, Guo Bin's first reaction was: "Mom, if I had known that Wang Nan was sick, I would have married her long ago. I blamed me for not taking good care of it."
After Wang Nan's operation, Guo Bin was with him all day long. During that time, Wang Nan said that she needed Guo Bin's help even when she got up. She was embarrassed to bother Guo Bin, but she didn't expect Guo Bin to be anxious and called me your man. If you don't bother me, who would you bother!
Later, when Wang Nan recalled these days, he would be grateful to Guo Bin from the bottom of his heart and said bluntly: Guo Bin said that no matter what happens in the future, he will definitely help me with it. He did it.
After physical recovery, Guo Bin originally planned to retire Wang Nan, but for the sake of national honor, Wang Nan decided to continue to fight in 2008, and she wanted to win glory for the country at the Olympics at her doorstep.
Faced with Wang Nan's decision, Guo Bin learned that the opposition was fruitless, so he gave his all to support him. When Wang Nan was preparing for the game, Guo Bin followed behind, thinking of ways to supplement Wang Nan's nutrition and take care of Wang Nan's body.
In Guo Bin's words, if I could go up and hit her, I would have gone up long ago.
Although Wang Nan failed to win the gold medal in the end, in Guo Bin's opinion, this is already the best. He said that Wang Nan had undergone three major operations and could still fight like this. I think she is worth it! I'm proud of her!
After this Olympics, Wang Nan finally decided to retire. Although he was reluctant to leave the field, Wang Nan also knew that it was time to go his own way.
When everyone was worried that Wang Nan would be uncomfortable leaving the arena, they never expected that Wang Nan, who returned to his daily life, once again made everyone look at him with admiration.
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On September 27, 2008, Guo Bin and Wang Nan held a grand wedding. This wedding not only invited the national team champions to support the scene, but also CCTV also reported it.
At the wedding, Wang Nan announced proudly in front of many relatives and friends: "My parents-in-law said that when they enter the house, I will be the top leader and Guo Bin will be the second leader."
. When Guo Bin saw Wang Nan with a smile on his face, he was full of pride and shouted, "I will obey you for the rest of your life."
After marriage, although Wang Nan was considered to marry into a wealthy family in the eyes of the public, no one expected that Wang Nan would live such a down-to-earth life.
Generally speaking, women who marry into wealthy families compete for food and clothing, and want to announce how happy they are in the world, but Wang Nan does not. She does not dye her hair and does not wear high heels. She usually wears sportswear. She said that life is what she lives by herself, and comfort is the most important thing.
not only does not have famous brands, but people often see Wang Nan taking Guo Bin to the vegetable market together and picking clothes on street stalls. They see two people "sweeping goods" with big black plastic bags. Perhaps except for Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang , other wealthy families really don't have this kind of this.
In addition to being simple and simple inside, what Guo Bin admires is Wang Nan's pattern and kindness.
Wang Nan is from Northeast China, but she also likes her in-laws Weihai from the bottom of her heart. She often posts her favorite "Shandong Pancake Rolled Scallions" in her daily life, and says that she has deeply liked this bite since she met Guo Bin.
Seeing that Wang Nan likes Shandong’s food so much, Guo Bin would probably be happy from the bottom of his heart. After all, only one woman can accept her husband’s family from the bottom of her heart and follow the customs and not feel that she is marrying far away.
In addition, Wang Nan is a good daughter-in-law in terms of filial piety to the elderly.
Guo Bin once said that once his mother was hospitalized, Wang Nan cried in an anxious mood. He was very moved at the time and expressed his opinion on the spot: Wang Nan, if your mother is sick in the future, I will treat you like this.
After the two of them realized that although Guo Bin's words sounded sincere, they were also quite "embarrassing".
For women who marry far away, they will fall into a "dilemma" during the Chinese New Year. One end is the family of the mother-in-law and the other end is the family of the mother-in-law. However, during the Chinese New Year, Wang Nan will accompany Guo Bin to her family first. She follows the customs and chats with the villagers in Guo Bin's hometown in full swing, without any airs of an Olympic champion.
Seeing Wang Nan like this, we may understand why Guo Bin is proud to marry Wang Nan, because she is really worth it!
On the other hand, Guo Bin also saw Wang Nan's efforts in his family. In his words, I married a woman like Wang Nan, which is my lifelong striking.
When Wang Nan used to work hard for the country, but after she retired, she was willing to return to ordinary people and be a good daughter-in-law and a good wife. After having children, she was even more a good mother.
In 2010, Wang Nan gave birth to a son for Guo Bin. In 2016, Wang Nan gave birth to a daughter, and since then he has both children.
After becoming a mother, Wang Nan said that she was more patient than before and understood the greatness of her mother. In terms of educating her children, she reached an agreement with Guo Bin, one sings blushing and the other sings white-faced .
Someone once interviewed Wang Nan and Guo Bin and asked them how they plan their children's future in the future? After all, with their family conditions, I feel that my children can do anything. But unexpectedly, the couple's answer was unexpected.
In the eyes of Guo Bin and Wang Nan, no matter how much wealth a child has left them, it is not necessary. The more wealth a child has left them, the more wealth it has left for them, it will harm him.
In a word, they hope that their children can walk out of their own path.
Take his son Guo Qi as an example. The couple has very strict requirements for their son, especially in terms of "vanity", which Wang Nan and Guo Bin are not accustomed to.
Once, my son Guo Qi discussed with his parents whether he could buy a pair of basketball shoes, because the children in the class all wore brand-name shoes. After hearing his son's request, Guo Bin asked his son how much it cost to have a pair of basketball shoes? My son replied that there are thousands or tens of thousands of yuan.
Seeing this, Guo Bin patiently told his child that a pair of brand-name shoes can be afforded by our family, and even ten pairs can be afforded, but the shoes are for wearing, not for comparison. I think there is something wrong with your idea. If your mother also agrees to buy them, I agree.
Later, the son really asked Wang Nan, but he didn't expect that Wang Nan and Guo Bin's answers were exactly the same, and he said, "Shoes are worn, there is no need for famous brands or not. If you can make money by yourself, you can buy them and use your parents' money to satisfy your vanity. I think it's not glorious."
Not only does it have strict requirements on the son, but also on the daughter, Wang Nan is also very strict, so strict that even Guo Bin couldn't help but exclaim: Sometimes I feel that Wang Nan is not his biological mother, how could she "take action" so ruthlessly!
For example, when my daughter Xiaoxiao was very young, she was asked to learn to do housework to cultivate independence. In Wang Nan's words, we parents can love our children, but we must learn to let go and let the children fly by themselves.
After a little older, Wang Nan sent his daughter to the training camp. When he saw her daughter leaving her parents a little bit, Guo Bin felt very distressed.
He even joked in the news: Whose child is from? It was so young that I was thrown into the training camp! Can you take care of yourself? This is too cruel for parents!
both say that daughters need to be raised in wealth, but Guo Bin and Wang Nan give Xiaoxiao only 150 yuan a month.
In Guo Bin's words, my daughter will be careful every time she goes to the supermarket to make money, but we don't object to what she wants to buy as long as it is within the scope. She has to learn to control everything by herself.
Compared with the wealthy families who always let their children wear gold and silver, Wang Nan and Guo Bin's education can be regarded as a clear stream. So what about the children they cultivate under this educational method?
022, Guo Qi celebrated his 12th birthday and the family of four went to the restaurant. Wang Nan and Guo Bin set up a birthday scene for the children. There were not many flowers and balloons, only a simple private room.
But when it was Guo Qi's turn to get up and speak, he was very grateful to his parents. In Guo Qi's opinion, his parents actually gave him a lot of love. Perhaps they did not give him too much material things like other parents, but they gave him a rare company.
Similarly, Xiaoxiao, who is now 6 years old, was discovered by netizens not only to play table tennis well, but also to have strong independent ability, and even trained muscle lines.
Guo Bin likes to record his daughter Xiaoxiao's daily life. Xiaoxiao in the video is not picky about food and not pretentious about anything he does. Moreover, his daily training plan and homework arrangement are all orderly.
Sometimes Guo Bin can’t stand it and “incited” his daughter to be lazy, but instead was taught by his daughter to do things with a beginning and an end.
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022 is the 21st year that Guo Bin and Wang Nan met, and the 17th year that they got married. It is said that "the marriage has been itchy after 7 years", but Wang Nan and Guo Bin have been as always and have never changed.
Although now with children, the couple put more energy into their children, the romance that should belong to them has never been absent.
For example, during Valentine's Day, Wang Nan will still look forward to gifts, and Guo Bin will also prepare flowers and call out to Wang Nan, just wait until the next time he celebrates the festival, buy him a crab.
For example, after many years of marriage, Guo Bin will confess his love to Wang Nan and shout in public: Wang Nan is my lifelong pride and my lifelong glory. It is my ability to marry me that I am so proud of you.
For example, on September 27, 2022, Guo Bin and Wang Nan specially called on their two children and held a small family meeting, asking them what day they were today? The son and daughter said they didn’t know, and Guo Bin said proudly that today is the 14th anniversary of my wedding with your mother.
Seeing the couple celebrating their anniversary proudly, the son said helplessly, "You two have been so many anniversary days."
The reason why my son is confused is probably that Guo Bin commemorates different days every year, such as the day when he first met Wang Nan, the day when he got a marriage certificate with Wang Nan, and the day when he held a wedding with Wang Nan.
The most important thing is that Guo Bin celebrates Wang Nan’s birthday every year. He said, I don’t like to celebrate my birthday. Sometimes I can’t remember any birthday, but I like to celebrate Wang Nan’s birthday. Later, when I had two children, I like to celebrate my mother and three of them.
When we see Wang Nan like this, we may understand that the true happiness of a woman is not simply marrying into a wealthy family, but marrying someone who truly knows how to feel sorry for herself.
Just like Guo Bin treats Wang Nan, she used to feel sorry for her hard work as an athlete, but now she is grateful for her efforts to be a good wife and mother.
On the other hand, Wang Nan is also a real virtuous wife and mother.
She is generous and tolerant, has a pattern and aspiration. She never lets herself immerse herself in the halo of the Olympic champion, nor is she arrogant because of Guo Bin. Instead, she sees her position clearly and does different things well at different stages in her life.
Now, from the time we met, Wang Nan and Guo Bin have been together for 21 years and have been married for 17 years. They understand each other and achieve each other, making their small family warm and beautiful, and making their two children full of happiness.
I hope you can also be like Guo Bin and Wang Nan, with a good person in your heart, passers-by in front of you, and live a happy life.
