Zou Shiming wife Ran Yingying recently posted a video on her social media to congratulate her eldest son Zou Mingxuan on his graduation from elementary school, with the text saying that the little baby boy back then has now grown up and become a parent. The pride in my heart. On this day, because Zou Shiming was on a business trip, Ran Yingying took her second son , Zou Minghao, and third son Ran Mingxi to attend Zou Shiming's elementary school graduation ceremony. He wore a light blue short-sleeved shirt, and his hair was parted diagonally. Sitting quietly and obediently in the car
Zou Mingxuan is 11 years old this year. Although he is still a little chubby, he is already very handsome, with fair skin and round face, and he looks very cute. Ran Yingying raised her arms high to celebrate her eldest son, while his two younger brothers cheered on the side. Xuan Xuan was surrounded enthusiastically, with a shy expression on her face.
Ran Yingying was wearing a black casual suit with gradient hair. His long hair was tied into a ponytail, he put his sunglasses on his head, put his arms around his son's shoulders and kissed her again and again. Xuanxuan's facial features had not changed much compared to when he was a child, but the side-parted hairstyle made him look... She has matured a lot
Ran Yingying also posted her son's graduation photo. Xuanxuan was wearing a black bachelor's uniform and stood on the steps to take photos with her classmates. Her face was so red that she could hardly open her eyes under the sunlight. As soon as the news came out, many netizens couldn't believe that the once cute and chubby Xuan Xuan was about to enter junior high school. Time is so cruel!
However, after Zou Shiming’s primary school graduation video was released, many fans began to care about Zou Mingxuan’s primary school grades and how her mother, Ran Yingying, helped Zou Mingxuan with her homework. Ran Yingying also asked everyone’s biggest concern: “You ask I answer." When talking about the issue of tutoring her eldest son Zou Mingxuan's homework, Ran Yingying said that she didn't care about her child's (Zou Mingxuan) grades at all, and she never gave Xuan Xuan any homework guidance from the first grade to the sixth grade. Tutored homework once
The reason why Ran Yingying did this is: because no one helped her with homework when she was young, but the final result was also very good! Here is a brief introduction to you. Ran Yingying is from Zunyi City, Guizhou Province. She graduated from the Department of Economics of the University of International Business and Economics and Guanghua School of Management, Peking University MBA
In addition, Ran Yingying also said that although she has never tutored Zou Mingxuan in homework, Xuan Mingxuan Xuan's graduation results are still very good. In her opinion, if a child needs to rely on others for tutoring and study since childhood, what he may lose in his life in the future is not the content of learning, but the ability to learn.Of course, this statement was very controversial. Some netizens believed that Zou Mingxuan’s case was definitely an exception and could not be used as a reference for ordinary families. After all, the school Xuanxuan attended was not an ordinary elementary school.
Secondly, tutoring homework is not a special matter. Black and white, first of all, the issue of homework tutoring is not that parents teach their children how to answer questions or complete homework, but the process of parents accompanying them at a young age. Ordinary parents need to actively participate in their children's behaviors and habits as they grow. For example, when children are completing their homework, parents are also reading, studying, or even working. It is a kind of environmental atmosphere creation. Children will follow the parents' habits to develop their own habits. A quiet environment is also a way for children to increase their concentration in learning.
If parents have not participated in their children's learning since childhood and think that their children can take care of themselves and have a studious spirit, then this view is wrong. Children are inherently playful, especially It’s a boy. If you don’t develop the habit of learning and the interest in seeking knowledge, and take the initiative to lead the child to find a method that suits him, the child will not learn independently. Then just look at the adults and you will know that if there is no learning environment, or love People who play games, smoke, drink, and play games will eventually automatically form a team. Adults have no ability to autonomously, let alone children.
Especially in the process from kindergarten to elementary school, children gradually break away from their parents’ thinking as they grow. If parents are not involved in the process, who will their children follow? Of course, teachers and parents in aristocratic schools will have different perceptions, because children should learn from teachers and parents are responsible for giving money. However, when children grow up, they also tend to be extreme. If they are good, they will be good, but if they are not good, What about? It may be packaged and look good, which is also very possible.
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