After I suffered from hepatitis B in 1993, I have been seeking various treatment methods. After more than four years of exploration, I finally realized that the best way is to get interferon . At the end of 1997, through interferon injection, the DNA of the hepatitis B virus turned negative, and the liver function was normal! ——At this time, my weight has been reduced by 28 kilograms!
Hepatitis B virus DNA turns negative. Once the liver function is normal, I feel the fragrance again after eating! My body and physical fitness recovered quickly and I was able to run. In the past, I was tired after a little activity, my quality of life dropped sharply and I was depressed. I was looking forward to it: "How great it would be if I returned to my original state!" Now I finally have a healthy experience! It's different! ——But my first life crisis does not refer to this, because although hepatitis B makes my life weak, it does not endanger my life.
Life crisis made me realize that life is valuable and also affected me asking about the key points of research. Although I started trying to do psychological counseling in 1985, my main job is to do theoretical research in psychology. In 1998, I was about to shift my focus to applied psychology. I want to grow up by myself in my lifetime and help others grow up. At this time, due to diarrhea, my AFP, CEA and other indicators continued to rise. At least three chief doctors suspected that I had cancer! ——It’s finally easy to survive until hepatitis B improves, and it’s time to prepare to live better! ——The ultimate concern needs to surface all at once.
Life crisis has taught me to repent. One night, I reflected on my life, tossed and turned, went deep into my soul, and found my own misfortune. I scolded myself one by one, sweating all over and my clothes were soaked. Later, about a week later, my indicators became normal.
Around 2000, a psychological salon began. Continue to get along with Master J, and a magical experience was created and I felt Master J's power.
2003, a workshop was held for the society. After
, there was a slight fluctuation in the middle, but the overall situation was getting better and better.
In 2020, I spent the winter in Shuangyue Bay, Huidong, Guangdong. I was in good health and reached a climax. I swam in the sea. The maximum distance can reach about 1,000 meters.
On April 28, 2020, I experienced the biggest storm and wave swimming.
2020-February 2021, life changes and turmoil are too great, and fatigue may be due to immune function, causing cancer of liver cells.
In March 2021, take a speedboat to the deep-sea area 40 nautical miles away to watch the diving. Due to the heavy vibration and waves of the speedboat, my waist was damaged by shock.
April 2021, return to Changzhou Whole-person Psychology Training Base. The color ultrasound examination showed certain problems in the liver, but it did not pay attention to it.
In June 2021, the MRI examination occupied a place, but it still did not pay attention to it.
On July 4, 2021, I underwent inguinal hernia surgery and had four injections in the abdomen.
In early October 2021, PET-CT examination confirmed that primary liver cancer was diagnosed. The second life crisis broke out!
On October 29, 2021, Shanghai Cancer Hospital , underwent tumor resection surgery.
The liver part removed surgically was removed, like a big goose egg:
The situation before the wound was withdrawn:
September 21, 2022, there is a new placeholder. The photo shows that there is at least one 0.55 cm placeholder.
Recurrence
On October 8th, I will be admitted to Shanghai Cancer Hospital again for radiofrequency ablation surgery:
The second life crisis, repentance alone is not enough, you need to act. Simply put, it is "integration of knowledge and action", which means doing what you should do as much as possible.
html only went to Shanghai Cancer Hospital for surgery on October 8, and radiofrequency ablation was performed. Taking advantage of this free time, everyone also has time, so they decided to host a workshop "Advanced Maternity Tutoring Experimental Class" (online). It was great to have 34 people attending. Today (October 1) I only spent 1 hour and 40 minutes.It achieved the desired effect: straightforward and touched the soul. The students' openness and depth are also good. After class, the students shared their experiences in the group:
For example, Mr.:
In this experimental class, Teacher Xu was more straightforward. In Teacher Xu's state, everyone can enter the "work" state as soon as possible and look forward to the next course. I made a speech, and Teacher Xu commented on my speech, which made me realize that I need to meet the problems I need to meet, and there will be differences in subconsciousness and consciousness. But it seems that Teacher Xu is still a little bit tempted by me. I hope Teacher Xu can be the most direct and look forward to getting the "brutal" teachings. Especially in Teacher Xu's physical condition, in addition to praying for Teacher Xu to recover faster, some people are worried that they will not have many opportunities to learn from Teacher Xu. It seems to be a warning, warning me: hurry up and grow up. But sometimes I think that I don’t deserve Teacher Xu’s time and case, because there are many excellent people queuing up and asking Teacher Xu for individual cases to pay attention to. It seems that there is a bit "out of the ordinary" and I worry that it will give Teacher Xu an extra burden. I sincerely wish you all the best!
A lady: The first lecture of the advanced experimental class:
1. In the process of growing up, she is full of various dependence and projection for the teacher. As a mating person, the teacher is always working with us. Before facing the recurrence of cancer, she is still investing her energy outside to influence more people as much as possible. She is even thinking about the current international war issue. Her strong personality, spiritual power, and transcendence of life and death are inspiring us, and at the same time she is also asking our own souls. The teacher is also a person, an old man in his 70s, and now a patient with cancer recurrence. The teacher also needs to be understood and asked himself, how many times have I communicated with the teacher? How many people really understand teachers? I found that what I did was far from enough, and it was a far cry from the same. After the first operation last year, the teacher said that liver cancer is prone to recurrence, and we feel that it will not happen to the teacher, but this is the cruel reality. We must face and reflect on ourselves.
2. Recently, I saw students sharing in the group: "Every time I read your article, I feel that Teacher Xu is always an independent thinking and unique expert style! I constantly shine with the light of wisdom for us who are psychological, so that we can break the fog and clarify which view of the various opinions is more in line with the human nature, closer to the truth, and more promote our growth. Thank you for your contribution! Thank you for your sharing! Take good care of your health and write good things for decades to contribute to the world!" A teacher’s life does not belong to himself, but to all of us, and to more people.
3. After the first liver cancer surgery last year, in addition to writing articles every day, the teacher held six online practical skills workshops for motivating. The teacher raced against time every day and took every day seriously. Have I given my all my strength every day? I didn't, and I found myself still lazy.
4. In such a more open and real atmosphere than in previous workshops, what we need to do is to be inward, inward, and then inward, and truly open. When talking about the level map for the whole person needs, looking at his own level, I find that he is easily stuck in his stubborn self-esteem needs. Sometimes the need for survival and belonging will also pull his energy and there is conflict in his heart. Behind the stubborn need for self-esteem is a deep sense of fear, a deep crisis of existence, a crisis of existence and value in the original family.
5. Self-realization means cooperation. We often complain or talk about external conditions. If conditions are available, it will be like this. When we negotiate conditions, it means that we have not completely gotten rid of dependence or dependence. We must assume our own destiny and learn to create conditions. Only when we show that we create conditions and self-realization can we have the essence of self-realization. Otherwise, we are just people who want to realize themselves, not people who realize themselves.
6. After learning to be clear about my values, my values have changed a lot compared to before, but there is a voice deep in my heart. This workshop may touch on the issue of my deep values, which will also be the issue I want to explore in depth next.
10 After the first lecture of the senior class in October, I realized
. A certain gentleman
1. The psychology of all people needs hierarchy. Teacher Xu developed to seven stages based on the hierarchy of Maslow needs hierarchy. I roughly know that, especially today, I saw and heard the explanations of the teachers for the first time, which made my understanding clearer. On the one hand, I felt a lot of joy. After all, "maximum theory" is shown with results. If I teach psychology, just use this picture to extend and decompose it into lesson plans and summarize a few formulas. I am confident that I can talk about it for one semester.
On the other hand, at the self-realization and the three levels, I cannot judge what kind of state it is. I have no experience and experience. I realize that I cannot determine it based on other people's discourse and my own understanding.
I myself may be between the need for belonging and self-esteem.
2. "Maximum Theory" as a local psychological theory, its simple and outstanding. If it gradually develops, it will definitely highlight and be great, because I vaguely realize that "Maximum" will soon be a word that breaks the circle and explodes, and will be cited by the superstructure and become a general tool from top to bottom.
3, promoting and popularizing the "Moximing Theory", which is currently inseparable from Teacher Xu. I often think about this issue. The current "Moximing Theory" is Teacher Xu, and Teacher Xu is "Moximing Theory". Without Teacher Xu, who can still carry the banner?
This problem may be the most stuck point in the development of "maximum theory" to the current stage. Only when breaking through this point can "maximum theory" be considered to have its own independent personality.
4. Although I personally learn "maximum theory" very shallowly and do not focus, I have already integrated the three golden elements into my life and work. For example, I often tell my colleagues that if I experience more in the position, I will naturally form a way of doing things that is convenient for others. From this, I realize that "maximum theory" is everywhere in terms of law and art, but it is just a lack of fire or an opportunity, and then it can start a prairie fire. Based on this, the current stage is not the time when Teacher Xu can leave.
5. Today, I analyzed "self-deception". I have learned a lot and realized that when I am self-clear, I should not be "self-deception". This is my biggest gain today. It is this that awakened me to not lean towards the level and need to be higher.
6. Teacher Wang Li said that she experienced "flow" because of her English speech, so she recognized her development in English speech (although I have never experienced flow), but Teacher Xu said that after learning to swim, there will also flow during the swimming process, which is considered to be a solution to my doubts. It turns out that "flow" is born with "Tao", and "flow" does not rely on "art".
or above, because I haven’t entered the classroom of motivated learning for a long time, I just listened to the first lecture today and summarized the miscellaneous feelings.
A lady:
I saw that the teacher was still leading a workshop after the operation last year and wrote articles every day. I always thought the teacher was recovering well.
I only learned today that the teacher was suffering from a second life crisis. At the sixth online workshop in September, I heard the teacher mention the possibility of relapse within five years. At that time, I thought that this relapse would not happen to the teacher. But I thought at the time what I could do right now? I immediately decided to do my best to promote and popularize Gongxin (register for the online Gongxin Tutoring Workshop, and give me two-day offline Gongxin Tutoring Exercises).
Teacher's profound and extensive ideas, how to inherit and develop them? I thought that I didn't even sign up for the intermediate class. I was so ruthless as (Yin Xi).
This Thursday I made a sand table with the teacher as the theme, Zeus -Practitioner-Saint-Laozi rode a cow to the west-Returned baby by the water, named the life of a wise man.
After finishing the sand table, I feel more deeply that I need to speed up the pace of learning and growth, learn to work hard and use to work hard, and be in a higher state of life, so that I can better promote and popularize.
left a message on liver cancer rehabilitation issues in the evening and asked Teacher Zhao Yuhang for advice, and then went to ask him in person.
I have learned Western sacral base therapy, but I haven’t learned it well [covering my face]. Han Shengjun 's Lingtouch Hypnosis. Friends around you are authorized tutors. The remote collective healing of Lingtouch should also be effective. I hope that you will have the opportunity to meet a suitable teacher by chance to help the teacher recover physically.
Pray for the teacher to be healthy [Ten]
A certain lady:
1 October 1 Teacher Xu’s course insights:
1. The first time I studied, everyone needs a hierarchical map, which was shocking! Through four dimensions, including the different levels of human needs, the time to meet, the intensity to meet, and the ways to achieve personality at different levels, the comprehensive and three-dimensional display of the theoretical model of the whole person needs, so that people can quickly position and clarify their own goals while being aware of their current state. The hierarchy of the whole person’s needs embodies Teacher Xu’s efforts and wisdom, which is worthy of repeated learning and understanding.
2. W honestly displays her thoughts and emotions. In fact, many of us are experiencing or experiencing it. Only continuous coordination, collaboration, and win-win results are needed. After our pattern and vision continue to expand, we need to go up. Only on this basis can new levels of demand be continuously generated and the efforts to serve more and more people. A qualified helper, his own internal integration is more important than serving others.
3. Teacher Xu encountered a second life crisis, which I don’t want to see and admit, but the facts are facts, which also prompted me to reflect on myself deeply. If I encounter such a situation, will I face it calmly like Teacher Xu, do my best to help more and more people in need! The answer is yes, so will I! Thank you Teacher Xu and wish Teacher Xu a speedy recovery! [Part 10][Part 10][Part 10]
A lady:
Today is the first lecture of the advanced experimental class of Xuanxin Tutoring. The teacher's liver cancer recurs and he will go to Shanghai Cancer Hospital for radiofrequency ablation on October 8. I believe everyone took today's course with a sense of trepidation and gratitude like me. The teacher worked hard all his life to popularize the public. In today's class, the teacher is still thinking about how to stop the world war. The teacher's great love is worth learning for life.
Today, we will continue to study the hierarchical map of the psychological needs of the whole person. This map allows us to clearly understand who I am? Where did I come from? Where are you going? Let yourself see clearly your positioning in life and in society. When you reach point A, you will have a motivated subject and the object will be clear. Only by establishing an independent personality can you be better at maturity. The teacher asked the students to position themselves according to the hierarchy of needs, and the teacher gave comments and analyzed them according to each person's different situations, and even tracked the impact of childhood.
The so-called "whole person" means that from the perspective of the need level theory, it meets the seven all levels of needs, and the potential of life is fully realized. As a person is born and grown up, as time goes by, the needs in the need level show dominance in turn, and become the process of the need for advantage. Each curve in the figure represents a need.
Today's course is an adventure that touches the soul, and is also an independent personality detection. Wang Li's sincerity and courage to analyze herself set an example for everyone. Denying history is selling our soul. We must constantly modify our copy to get closer to the original. To bravely accept your past, growth requires continuity. Stop growing when your personality has not changed will easily regress. Various problems will occur.
As the book " Live in the Best Status " says: Life is about climbing a mountain. Some people climb to the top of the mountain, truly understand and live clearly, and have a peak experience; some people give up halfway; some people fell to death; and some people even wandered at the foot of the mountain.
Mr. A:
Lecture 1 Share
1. Today, the first person in the whole person needs a hierarchy map, so that he has the opportunity to look in the mirror and see what kind of state he is in. In the past, I always felt that I had the desire to pursue a big self, but I looked at myself more deeply. There were still many unmet areas in terms of belonging needs, self-esteem needs, and even self-realization needs.It also makes oneself feel that what people may need at different stages and under different states. It may even be possible to fall back from higher demand to lower demand. It is related to what the teacher said is the advantage at the moment. But overall, I believe that human needs are gradually increasing, and even if the relatively lower-level needs are not fully met, there may be situations where higher needs are relatively well met. Moreover, there is a deeper awareness and perception of situations where lower demands are not met. Therefore, we can choose the right way to meet the corresponding needs of the low-level level. The teacher also explained to us using his own cases.
2. Through the case of Teacher Wang Li, you can see the various complexes in a person's heart. To resolve them all is really a lifelong homework. Even if you keep learning, new problems will still be exposed. Especially some deeply rooted belief systems may not be a problem in the eyes of others, but in individuals, they are a chasm that is difficult to overcome and cross. On the one hand, individuals need to be authentic enough to themselves and willing to put aside various defense mechanisms. On the other hand, they really need methods to guide them, such as in-depth or even cruelly exploring and resolving cases. It requires individuals to have persistent pursuits and fearless spirit. So I also admire Teacher Wang Li's persistence and courage.
Finally, I am grateful to Teacher Xu for being able to persist in opening classes for us under such conditions. I admire and thank you very much. I also wish the teacher a speedy recovery! [Enter 10]
A lady:
1. This course was held in the background when the teacher just found out that he had relapsed. He was very grateful and cherished. He felt that "no matter, he didn't want to behave anymore, he didn't have the most important feeling of growth."
2. The teacher responded to the good psychological condition of the disease, on the one hand, it reflects the height and depth of inner cultivation (it is very transcendent to death), which has an inspiration and encouragement effect on me, and on the other hand, it also reflects the height and depth of my inner cultivation (it is very transcendent to death), which has a motivation and encouragement effect on me, and on the other hand, it also reflects the opposite. I am looking at my inner state because of a very low and limited state
3. I feel that my understanding of the hierarchy of the whole person needs is not clear enough, and there are many vague places (it takes time to study it carefully)
4. I originally wanted to explore the selfishness and utilitarian nature of the ego that hindered me from "living with my heart", but I didn't expect to cry as I said (I realized that it was very difficult to live in my life!), and I didn't expect to think of my soup Lijuan’s affairs (returning back to the loneliest and fragile emotional state in the past, he still cried!)
Although the exploration of this matter was relatively short, it made me feel very confused because there were many problems, and I didn’t know where to summarize it [囧]
can only think of what to say
(1) I saw that I seemed to have a knot in Tang Lijuan’s matter that I didn’t open
(2 ) Seeing the fragile, lonely, helpless, and scarce little girl who is hidden deep inside (I don’t want to admit it very much, and I hate it a little)
(3) Seeing that I am competitive on the one hand, but I actually don’t have a healthy competitive mentality
(4) I can’t stand others as good as myself, jealousy, “You can be better, but you can’t be better than me!” This is my mentality towards Tang Lijuan. This mentality makes my situation unable to arouse, and even shrink.
The growing environment since childhood has led to myself always wanting to prove and be paid attention to. In a group, I always want to gain enough attention and recognition. I can't stand it and just being a foil or a "transparent person"
Today I calm down and ask myself, feeling that I have not treated a person wholeheartedly since I was a child (including my parents) and have no room for anything left.
This may be the reason why I lost my last best friend in 2019. At that time, I felt that I was a failure and no good friend was gone (as long as the other party has a point, I will pass it, and the pass will not be left until the last one is left, and I will be completely lonely)
Today I began to realize that not having a good enough friend should have a lot to do with my unwillingness or not being able to treat others wholeheartedly.
Then why don’t you treat others wholeheartedly?
Because I am still very scarce, (child mentality)
does not have enough sense of security (fear)
Maybe put aside my personal defense, dare to follow my heart, and treat others sincerely, is the most urgent thing I need to practice and break through at the moment. If even the friends or relatives around you cannot be sincere, how can you talk about self-realization, self-transcendence and self-realization.
5. Although there is a big direction for life growth (to understand the mind and see the nature), what you like to do the most is not clear enough and needs further exploration.
Thank you for your company and support and support from the teacher. I wish you a happy holiday [grin][celebration][celebration][celebration]
A lady:
Advanced Experimental Class Impressions:
1. First of all, I am very grateful to the teacher for taking out valuable time and energy to teach us before physical treatment. When I knew this information, I burst into tears silently. I think of my mother's relapse surgery before the end of last year. I feel distressed and I also have the feeling of cherishing every moment.
2. Today’s full-person needs hierarchy map allows me to see my own chaos, or how long has it been since I really faced myself. I realized that I should be between the need for belonging and the need for self-esteem. I used to think that I could not be affected by other people’s emotions, but in fact I just diverted my attention and didn’t care about my numbness. When I was going to be attentive, I discovered my previous escape.
3. I admire the truth of W and it is also a place I want to learn. For the teacher, "Pure love is basically impossible." Try to look at Wang Li in a mirror. Is it possible that in the past 10 years, the consultant healed himself while proving that "I can live well", and now he has greater strength to think of a larger stage to prove himself, "I can shine like gold."
4. Today’s course has made me feel like an offline workshop, which is real and direct, and I have more expectations for the following courses.
Finally, I prayed devoutly for the teacher and be healthy [公司]
2022.10.1
It achieved the desired effect: straightforward and touched the soul. The students' openness and depth are also good. After class, the students shared their experiences in the group:For example, Mr.:
In this experimental class, Teacher Xu was more straightforward. In Teacher Xu's state, everyone can enter the "work" state as soon as possible and look forward to the next course. I made a speech, and Teacher Xu commented on my speech, which made me realize that I need to meet the problems I need to meet, and there will be differences in subconsciousness and consciousness. But it seems that Teacher Xu is still a little bit tempted by me. I hope Teacher Xu can be the most direct and look forward to getting the "brutal" teachings. Especially in Teacher Xu's physical condition, in addition to praying for Teacher Xu to recover faster, some people are worried that they will not have many opportunities to learn from Teacher Xu. It seems to be a warning, warning me: hurry up and grow up. But sometimes I think that I don’t deserve Teacher Xu’s time and case, because there are many excellent people queuing up and asking Teacher Xu for individual cases to pay attention to. It seems that there is a bit "out of the ordinary" and I worry that it will give Teacher Xu an extra burden. I sincerely wish you all the best!
A lady: The first lecture of the advanced experimental class:
1. In the process of growing up, she is full of various dependence and projection for the teacher. As a mating person, the teacher is always working with us. Before facing the recurrence of cancer, she is still investing her energy outside to influence more people as much as possible. She is even thinking about the current international war issue. Her strong personality, spiritual power, and transcendence of life and death are inspiring us, and at the same time she is also asking our own souls. The teacher is also a person, an old man in his 70s, and now a patient with cancer recurrence. The teacher also needs to be understood and asked himself, how many times have I communicated with the teacher? How many people really understand teachers? I found that what I did was far from enough, and it was a far cry from the same. After the first operation last year, the teacher said that liver cancer is prone to recurrence, and we feel that it will not happen to the teacher, but this is the cruel reality. We must face and reflect on ourselves.
2. Recently, I saw students sharing in the group: "Every time I read your article, I feel that Teacher Xu is always an independent thinking and unique expert style! I constantly shine with the light of wisdom for us who are psychological, so that we can break the fog and clarify which view of the various opinions is more in line with the human nature, closer to the truth, and more promote our growth. Thank you for your contribution! Thank you for your sharing! Take good care of your health and write good things for decades to contribute to the world!" A teacher’s life does not belong to himself, but to all of us, and to more people.
3. After the first liver cancer surgery last year, in addition to writing articles every day, the teacher held six online practical skills workshops for motivating. The teacher raced against time every day and took every day seriously. Have I given my all my strength every day? I didn't, and I found myself still lazy.
4. In such a more open and real atmosphere than in previous workshops, what we need to do is to be inward, inward, and then inward, and truly open. When talking about the level map for the whole person needs, looking at his own level, I find that he is easily stuck in his stubborn self-esteem needs. Sometimes the need for survival and belonging will also pull his energy and there is conflict in his heart. Behind the stubborn need for self-esteem is a deep sense of fear, a deep crisis of existence, a crisis of existence and value in the original family.
5. Self-realization means cooperation. We often complain or talk about external conditions. If conditions are available, it will be like this. When we negotiate conditions, it means that we have not completely gotten rid of dependence or dependence. We must assume our own destiny and learn to create conditions. Only when we show that we create conditions and self-realization can we have the essence of self-realization. Otherwise, we are just people who want to realize themselves, not people who realize themselves.
6. After learning to be clear about my values, my values have changed a lot compared to before, but there is a voice deep in my heart. This workshop may touch on the issue of my deep values, which will also be the issue I want to explore in depth next.
10 After the first lecture of the senior class in October, I realized
. A certain gentleman
1. The psychology of all people needs hierarchy. Teacher Xu developed to seven stages based on the hierarchy of Maslow needs hierarchy. I roughly know that, especially today, I saw and heard the explanations of the teachers for the first time, which made my understanding clearer. On the one hand, I felt a lot of joy. After all, "maximum theory" is shown with results. If I teach psychology, just use this picture to extend and decompose it into lesson plans and summarize a few formulas. I am confident that I can talk about it for one semester.
On the other hand, at the self-realization and the three levels, I cannot judge what kind of state it is. I have no experience and experience. I realize that I cannot determine it based on other people's discourse and my own understanding.
I myself may be between the need for belonging and self-esteem.
2. "Maximum Theory" as a local psychological theory, its simple and outstanding. If it gradually develops, it will definitely highlight and be great, because I vaguely realize that "Maximum" will soon be a word that breaks the circle and explodes, and will be cited by the superstructure and become a general tool from top to bottom.
3, promoting and popularizing the "Moximing Theory", which is currently inseparable from Teacher Xu. I often think about this issue. The current "Moximing Theory" is Teacher Xu, and Teacher Xu is "Moximing Theory". Without Teacher Xu, who can still carry the banner?
This problem may be the most stuck point in the development of "maximum theory" to the current stage. Only when breaking through this point can "maximum theory" be considered to have its own independent personality.
4. Although I personally learn "maximum theory" very shallowly and do not focus, I have already integrated the three golden elements into my life and work. For example, I often tell my colleagues that if I experience more in the position, I will naturally form a way of doing things that is convenient for others. From this, I realize that "maximum theory" is everywhere in terms of law and art, but it is just a lack of fire or an opportunity, and then it can start a prairie fire. Based on this, the current stage is not the time when Teacher Xu can leave.
5. Today, I analyzed "self-deception". I have learned a lot and realized that when I am self-clear, I should not be "self-deception". This is my biggest gain today. It is this that awakened me to not lean towards the level and need to be higher.
6. Teacher Wang Li said that she experienced "flow" because of her English speech, so she recognized her development in English speech (although I have never experienced flow), but Teacher Xu said that after learning to swim, there will also flow during the swimming process, which is considered to be a solution to my doubts. It turns out that "flow" is born with "Tao", and "flow" does not rely on "art".
or above, because I haven’t entered the classroom of motivated learning for a long time, I just listened to the first lecture today and summarized the miscellaneous feelings.
A lady:
I saw that the teacher was still leading a workshop after the operation last year and wrote articles every day. I always thought the teacher was recovering well.
I only learned today that the teacher was suffering from a second life crisis. At the sixth online workshop in September, I heard the teacher mention the possibility of relapse within five years. At that time, I thought that this relapse would not happen to the teacher. But I thought at the time what I could do right now? I immediately decided to do my best to promote and popularize Gongxin (register for the online Gongxin Tutoring Workshop, and give me two-day offline Gongxin Tutoring Exercises).
Teacher's profound and extensive ideas, how to inherit and develop them? I thought that I didn't even sign up for the intermediate class. I was so ruthless as (Yin Xi).
This Thursday I made a sand table with the teacher as the theme, Zeus -Practitioner-Saint-Laozi rode a cow to the west-Returned baby by the water, named the life of a wise man.
After finishing the sand table, I feel more deeply that I need to speed up the pace of learning and growth, learn to work hard and use to work hard, and be in a higher state of life, so that I can better promote and popularize.
left a message on liver cancer rehabilitation issues in the evening and asked Teacher Zhao Yuhang for advice, and then went to ask him in person.
I have learned Western sacral base therapy, but I haven’t learned it well [covering my face]. Han Shengjun 's Lingtouch Hypnosis. Friends around you are authorized tutors. The remote collective healing of Lingtouch should also be effective. I hope that you will have the opportunity to meet a suitable teacher by chance to help the teacher recover physically.
Pray for the teacher to be healthy [Ten]
A certain lady:
1 October 1 Teacher Xu’s course insights:
1. The first time I studied, everyone needs a hierarchical map, which was shocking! Through four dimensions, including the different levels of human needs, the time to meet, the intensity to meet, and the ways to achieve personality at different levels, the comprehensive and three-dimensional display of the theoretical model of the whole person needs, so that people can quickly position and clarify their own goals while being aware of their current state. The hierarchy of the whole person’s needs embodies Teacher Xu’s efforts and wisdom, which is worthy of repeated learning and understanding.
2. W honestly displays her thoughts and emotions. In fact, many of us are experiencing or experiencing it. Only continuous coordination, collaboration, and win-win results are needed. After our pattern and vision continue to expand, we need to go up. Only on this basis can new levels of demand be continuously generated and the efforts to serve more and more people. A qualified helper, his own internal integration is more important than serving others.
3. Teacher Xu encountered a second life crisis, which I don’t want to see and admit, but the facts are facts, which also prompted me to reflect on myself deeply. If I encounter such a situation, will I face it calmly like Teacher Xu, do my best to help more and more people in need! The answer is yes, so will I! Thank you Teacher Xu and wish Teacher Xu a speedy recovery! [Part 10][Part 10][Part 10]
A lady:
Today is the first lecture of the advanced experimental class of Xuanxin Tutoring. The teacher's liver cancer recurs and he will go to Shanghai Cancer Hospital for radiofrequency ablation on October 8. I believe everyone took today's course with a sense of trepidation and gratitude like me. The teacher worked hard all his life to popularize the public. In today's class, the teacher is still thinking about how to stop the world war. The teacher's great love is worth learning for life.
Today, we will continue to study the hierarchical map of the psychological needs of the whole person. This map allows us to clearly understand who I am? Where did I come from? Where are you going? Let yourself see clearly your positioning in life and in society. When you reach point A, you will have a motivated subject and the object will be clear. Only by establishing an independent personality can you be better at maturity. The teacher asked the students to position themselves according to the hierarchy of needs, and the teacher gave comments and analyzed them according to each person's different situations, and even tracked the impact of childhood.
The so-called "whole person" means that from the perspective of the need level theory, it meets the seven all levels of needs, and the potential of life is fully realized. As a person is born and grown up, as time goes by, the needs in the need level show dominance in turn, and become the process of the need for advantage. Each curve in the figure represents a need.
Today's course is an adventure that touches the soul, and is also an independent personality detection. Wang Li's sincerity and courage to analyze herself set an example for everyone. Denying history is selling our soul. We must constantly modify our copy to get closer to the original. To bravely accept your past, growth requires continuity. Stop growing when your personality has not changed will easily regress. Various problems will occur.
As the book " Live in the Best Status " says: Life is about climbing a mountain. Some people climb to the top of the mountain, truly understand and live clearly, and have a peak experience; some people give up halfway; some people fell to death; and some people even wandered at the foot of the mountain.
Mr. A:
Lecture 1 Share
1. Today, the first person in the whole person needs a hierarchy map, so that he has the opportunity to look in the mirror and see what kind of state he is in. In the past, I always felt that I had the desire to pursue a big self, but I looked at myself more deeply. There were still many unmet areas in terms of belonging needs, self-esteem needs, and even self-realization needs.It also makes oneself feel that what people may need at different stages and under different states. It may even be possible to fall back from higher demand to lower demand. It is related to what the teacher said is the advantage at the moment. But overall, I believe that human needs are gradually increasing, and even if the relatively lower-level needs are not fully met, there may be situations where higher needs are relatively well met. Moreover, there is a deeper awareness and perception of situations where lower demands are not met. Therefore, we can choose the right way to meet the corresponding needs of the low-level level. The teacher also explained to us using his own cases.
2. Through the case of Teacher Wang Li, you can see the various complexes in a person's heart. To resolve them all is really a lifelong homework. Even if you keep learning, new problems will still be exposed. Especially some deeply rooted belief systems may not be a problem in the eyes of others, but in individuals, they are a chasm that is difficult to overcome and cross. On the one hand, individuals need to be authentic enough to themselves and willing to put aside various defense mechanisms. On the other hand, they really need methods to guide them, such as in-depth or even cruelly exploring and resolving cases. It requires individuals to have persistent pursuits and fearless spirit. So I also admire Teacher Wang Li's persistence and courage.
Finally, I am grateful to Teacher Xu for being able to persist in opening classes for us under such conditions. I admire and thank you very much. I also wish the teacher a speedy recovery! [Enter 10]
A lady:
1. This course was held in the background when the teacher just found out that he had relapsed. He was very grateful and cherished. He felt that "no matter, he didn't want to behave anymore, he didn't have the most important feeling of growth."
2. The teacher responded to the good psychological condition of the disease, on the one hand, it reflects the height and depth of inner cultivation (it is very transcendent to death), which has an inspiration and encouragement effect on me, and on the other hand, it also reflects the height and depth of my inner cultivation (it is very transcendent to death), which has a motivation and encouragement effect on me, and on the other hand, it also reflects the opposite. I am looking at my inner state because of a very low and limited state
3. I feel that my understanding of the hierarchy of the whole person needs is not clear enough, and there are many vague places (it takes time to study it carefully)
4. I originally wanted to explore the selfishness and utilitarian nature of the ego that hindered me from "living with my heart", but I didn't expect to cry as I said (I realized that it was very difficult to live in my life!), and I didn't expect to think of my soup Lijuan’s affairs (returning back to the loneliest and fragile emotional state in the past, he still cried!)
Although the exploration of this matter was relatively short, it made me feel very confused because there were many problems, and I didn’t know where to summarize it [囧]
can only think of what to say
(1) I saw that I seemed to have a knot in Tang Lijuan’s matter that I didn’t open
(2 ) Seeing the fragile, lonely, helpless, and scarce little girl who is hidden deep inside (I don’t want to admit it very much, and I hate it a little)
(3) Seeing that I am competitive on the one hand, but I actually don’t have a healthy competitive mentality
(4) I can’t stand others as good as myself, jealousy, “You can be better, but you can’t be better than me!” This is my mentality towards Tang Lijuan. This mentality makes my situation unable to arouse, and even shrink.
The growing environment since childhood has led to myself always wanting to prove and be paid attention to. In a group, I always want to gain enough attention and recognition. I can't stand it and just being a foil or a "transparent person"
Today I calm down and ask myself, feeling that I have not treated a person wholeheartedly since I was a child (including my parents) and have no room for anything left.
This may be the reason why I lost my last best friend in 2019. At that time, I felt that I was a failure and no good friend was gone (as long as the other party has a point, I will pass it, and the pass will not be left until the last one is left, and I will be completely lonely)
Today I began to realize that not having a good enough friend should have a lot to do with my unwillingness or not being able to treat others wholeheartedly.
Then why don’t you treat others wholeheartedly?
Because I am still very scarce, (child mentality)
does not have enough sense of security (fear)
Maybe put aside my personal defense, dare to follow my heart, and treat others sincerely, is the most urgent thing I need to practice and break through at the moment. If even the friends or relatives around you cannot be sincere, how can you talk about self-realization, self-transcendence and self-realization.
5. Although there is a big direction for life growth (to understand the mind and see the nature), what you like to do the most is not clear enough and needs further exploration.
Thank you for your company and support and support from the teacher. I wish you a happy holiday [grin][celebration][celebration][celebration]
A lady:
Advanced Experimental Class Impressions:
1. First of all, I am very grateful to the teacher for taking out valuable time and energy to teach us before physical treatment. When I knew this information, I burst into tears silently. I think of my mother's relapse surgery before the end of last year. I feel distressed and I also have the feeling of cherishing every moment.
2. Today’s full-person needs hierarchy map allows me to see my own chaos, or how long has it been since I really faced myself. I realized that I should be between the need for belonging and the need for self-esteem. I used to think that I could not be affected by other people’s emotions, but in fact I just diverted my attention and didn’t care about my numbness. When I was going to be attentive, I discovered my previous escape.
3. I admire the truth of W and it is also a place I want to learn. For the teacher, "Pure love is basically impossible." Try to look at Wang Li in a mirror. Is it possible that in the past 10 years, the consultant healed himself while proving that "I can live well", and now he has greater strength to think of a larger stage to prove himself, "I can shine like gold."
4. Today’s course has made me feel like an offline workshop, which is real and direct, and I have more expectations for the following courses.
Finally, I prayed devoutly for the teacher and be healthy [公司]
2022.10.1
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