Mourinho rejected England’s leadership position because of a woman’s suggestion. Uncle Bird’s military medal is half of hers

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lost to Belgium in the away game, English coach Southgate has already heard the voice of get out of class dismissal. For example, former Premier League star Mido bluntly stated on social media: "My advice to the FA is to appoint Mourinho as the head coach of the England national team... England should try to make Soss Gate stays away from the players."

makes Mourinho the coach of the England national team? Mido's suggestion may sound constructive at first, but it is actually a common topic. As early as more than ten years ago, when McLaren led the team to defeat, the FA gave birth to the idea of ​​making Uncle Bird the head coach of the Three Lions.

still remember that during that time, Mourinho was the number one favorite for the England coach, and he was very much expected. Many British media clamored aside. Lampard, Ashley Cole, Terry and other uncles in Chelsea’s old department clearly suggested that their teachers accept the invitation, even if it is the two old Premier League giants, Manchester United and Liverpool. The players have also put aside their usual grievances and let the Chelsea players convey Mourinho's desire to be in charge of the Three Lions (PS: This is the memory of Uncle Bird himself).

When things develop so far, I am afraid that many people think that Uncle Bird will become the head coach of the England national team is a foregone conclusion. Even Uncle Bird himself had an idea for this position. According to Uncle Bird’s own statement: “Do you know how close I am to the handsome position? The contract is in front of my eyes, with a pen in my hand. I almost, almost, almost, almost become the owner of the England national team. Coach..."

is at this critical point. Uncle Bird’s wife Matilde gave decisive advice. This woman who knows Uncle Bird well told her husband that the job is not Suitable for him, days without games are not suitable for him.

Mourinho's rejection of England's coaching position was precisely due to this woman's suggestion. Uncle Bird was very grateful for this. He concluded: "It turns out that she was right. I can't spend two years waiting for a big game, and I can't spend two years dealing with teams like San Marino and Kazakhstan..."

From this story alone, it is not difficult to see how Matilde, the woman behind Mourinho, had a profound influence on Mourinho. It is not an exaggeration to say that Uncle Bird's military medal is half of hers. Without this wise woman standing behind Uncle Bird, I am afraid that Uncle Bird’s road would be a lot more rugged, and it would not be known if he could not achieve his current achievements:

Mourinho had met Ma as early as when he was 17 years old. Tilde soon fell in love with her and obeyed her. What is less known is that Matilde gave crucial advice when Uncle Bird was in his twenties. She bluntly told her husband that there is no future on the road of playing football (PS: Uncle Bird’s athletic talent is not outstanding), first persuaded him to become an interpreter, and then encouraged Uncle Bird to embark on the road of coaching. In addition to providing advice, Matilde, who has a master's degree in psychology, will also be subtle about her husband. In addition to psychological massage, Uncle Bird also learned a lot of knowledge in psychology, which is similar in the world of football. More than one media outlet said that the reason why Uncle Bird has done a lot of research in psychology is probably closely related to his wife.

After Mourinho led Real Madrid to beat Barcelona to win the La Liga championship, the "Marca" put forward a quite astonishing point: the reason why Mourinho was able to lead the team to win the championship, Matilde behind him absolutely Contributed.

Mourinho, who has always been known for his resourcefulness, knows the wisdom of his wife. Uncle Bird once sighed: "Only my wife is qualified to tell me what I can and cannot do, and there is only one person in this world who can command me."

In Uncle Bird's eyes, even if it is to make him famous Football is far less important than my own wife: "If I had to make a choice between football and family, I would choose family without hesitation."

In fact, Uncle Bird’s feelings for his wife, It's more than just talking about it, it's still doing it physically. As early as when he was in charge of Chelsea’s coach for the first time, there were such stories: no matter how dark the night is, no matter how cold the weather in London is, as long as his wife Matild wants to buy cigarettes, Mourinho will definitely wear it. Slippers rushed into the night...

alsoWith that Armani coat, Mourinho, who coached Chelsea for the first time, was ridiculed by some extreme fans because he was accustomed to wearing that coat throughout the winter. But behind this, the love of Uncle Bird for his wife is hidden. This is the first time Matilde went to Italy to bring back Uncle Bird's gift, and it cost her one month's salary. In the eyes of Uncle Bird, this coat must be cherished.

No matter from which point of view, Mourinho and Matilde are a pair of model couples. They have deep feelings and complement each other. This corresponds to the old saying: behind every successful man in

, there is one Great woman.