emotions are flowers awakened in memory, blooming silently in the night of the soul.
I remember a long time ago, when I was shopping with my friends, I heard that the melody of the song played on the stereo at the door of a clothing store was not bad.
So I picked up my mobile phone and approached the speaker, listened to the song and searched for it, and found that not many people commented on this song. The comment that liked the most was:
is really my favorite. It's like a broken diamond in the desert, dazzling but not easy to find.
From that time on, I began to think about what is a niche and what can be called the public.
Later, I discovered that the masses in their mouth refer to various aesthetic elements that are sought after and respected by most people in a certain period of time.
For example, this summer, many girls have a few more puff sleeve skirts and clavicle cropped tops in their wardrobes. These are the popular clothes this summer.
For another example, many people now judge whether a girl is beautiful or not, roughly divided into three points: fair skin, thin body, and good clothes.
can even be said that for a long time, girls have to look thin for beauty. This is the so-called mass aesthetic.
Many weight loss bloggers update some exercise videos and fat-reducing recipes every day. I think it’s very good. After all, getting your body exercise is the most important thing.
But the copy they wrote is: Only when you are as thin as ninety catties, you will know why the person you like doesn't like you; if you can't wear S size clothes, who will put on your wedding dress.
Bucket waist, are you still eating high-calorie puffed food? With your weight, it is unrealistic to cry in the back seat of your bicycle. Who can move you?
Maybe the first time I saw these copywriting, I would temporarily put down the drumsticks in my hand, and I was sad for two minutes to blame myself, why I still couldn't control my mouth.
But thinking about it carefully, I'm a little fatter, shouldn't I be unwelcome? Do I have to train the vest line, right-angle shoulders, and keep my weight below a hundred?
colleague Xiao Wu used to be a girl who loves to laugh very much. She is 1.65 meters tall and weighs over 110 kilograms. In fact, she is a standard figure.
But she still feels a little fat, because she is a baby face, always giving people a very round feeling, more importantly, her boyfriend said she is fat.
always compares others with her intentionally or unintentionally, which probably means that Xiao Wu's face is round and his legs are a bit thick. It is best to eat less every day to lose weight. If
said it once or twice, it was passed as a joke. Everyone would not be serious, but she would inevitably feel a little uncomfortable when she always runs against Xiao Wu like this.
She also often asks us if she is a little fat and should eat less. We all shook our heads and denied that she is beautiful and not fat at all.
Xiao Wu listened to our words, the president always breathed a sigh of relief, and didn't talk about weight loss until one day, she started not having lunch with us.
"I really want to lose weight. I will eat some salad or fruit at noon from now on. You can go and eat."
Xiao Wu seemed to be really thinner at that time, but he also looked haggard and his complexion Before, we all advised her not to toss herself.
She just shook her head and said aggrievedly, my boyfriend said that my legs were thicker than his, and he was unwilling to carry me on his back, saying that I was too heavy.
Since then, we have been expecting every day that the two of them will be able to separate sooner, so as not to delay such a good girl as Xiao Wu.
may be that our prayers really worked, or it may be that Xiao Wu suddenly woke up, and she took the initiative to separate from her boyfriend.
Xiao Wu did not have a salad bento on the table. She said that the reason she proposed to separate was that she passed a snack bar and was so attracted by the smell inside.
People take food as their heaven. Even if they can't eat enough, they can still talk about love. Xiao Wu angrily bought fried chicken and burgers and took a picture for her boyfriend.
said that her boyfriend is far worse than these delicacies. Since he likes skinny, those two people are not suitable. I wish him happiness.
We smiled and said, Xiao Wu is too kind, and if we are us, we have to give him two catties of ribs as a separate gift.
can live a good life, it’s already very difficult, why are so many rules to restrainWhat about yourself?
boys must be 1.8 meters tall, and girls must be slim, otherwise others will cover their mouths and say:
people who can't even control their own body, what can they master? But who dictates
, girls must wear the smallest size clothes, and they must maintain a body that makes people look back and see.
Isn't a girl who is not slender enough, there is no happiness at all? Then when girls become a type whose weight is less than a hundred, does the public's aesthetics become fat as beauty?
On the basis of health, whether you are fat or thin, just be happy.
People who rely on popular aesthetics to judge others, let him live like popular aesthetics.