The two recently participated in a variety show "Trio of Happiness". Yu Qian came to the show with his wife Bai Huiming, who is ten years younger than him. To be honest, if it weren't for this show, it's estimated that few people would know who Yu Qian's wife is and what her age. Through this program, everyone knew that Mr. Yu's wife was still so young and so beautiful, she was a little girl.
Although it looks the same, but in fact, she has been married to Teacher Yu for 20 years. The years are that the marks on the teacher's face are obviously heavier. However, these two decades are different in Bai Huiming's eyes. She herself said that the first ten years were two people’s little days, a world of two people, but the next ten years was her own life, each for work, family, gathering and separation, the two slowly began to respect each other like guests, without the passion of the year. .
In fact, Teacher Yu is a typical young master of Beijing, who loves to play. People in Beijing love to play when they are young, and they can’t change it when they grow up. This is the personality habit of people in this place. So when the career gets better, Mr. Yu invites people to eat and drink in his own house every other time, and of course he will often go out. Looking for someone to play, this is because the teacher called it "business." After 20 years, Bai Huiming was actually upset sometimes, but he wouldn't say it.
In fact, when a woman wants to have nothing to do with food and clothing, company is most wanted, or that no matter when, they will want their partner to accompany them. But men are different. Men are more like children besides these. In the show, Teacher Yu sees a pond and thinks about fishing when he sees a river. Fishing is so fun in his eyes.
This is actually a problem that men and women will be together for a long time. Almost most marriages will have such contradictions. Because when you are young you have to work hard for your life, everyone is very tired. At this time, leaning against each other will feel the beauty of the two people's world. The strength and warmth drawn from each other is enough to resist the cold and heat. Afterwards, life gradually improved. When there is no need to worry about their livelihoods, everyone will want to relax a little.
When you want your own space, you will inevitably ignore the time when two people are together, but fortunately, a person like Teacher Yu speaks and whispers, and he is so respectful to his wife, which makes people look comfortable. Although in the show, I feel that Yu Qian is just playing with himself and neglecting his wife, but in fact it is not. He takes good care of his wife and he is also very romantic.
So in fact, in twenty years of marriage, all problems will arise. The most important thing is to look at these problems. Bai Huiming is actually a little girl in his bones. The reason why he didn’t catch the spirit of life is because of Yu Qian’s love for him. He can cook for her at any time. This is love. The best solution to all problems is love from the heart.
