Mention Guo Jingjing, presumably many people are familiar with it. She is a famous diving athlete who has won many Olympic champions. After retiring, the 31-year-old Guo Jingjing married into a wealthy family and lived the life of a husband and a son.
On July 23, it was reported by the media that Guo Jingjing accompanied Mr. Huo Qigang to meet with the media to cheer him up.
Below this news, I saw netizens’ comments like:
"Guo Jingjing's eyes seem to be smiling, and she feels that she is really happy"; "They are gods Love, envy Guo Jingjing";
"They are really sweet, the kind that complement each other"; "I especially like this pair when watching the show, so I envy their love".
Guo Jingjing in the photo, although she is wearing a mask, she can see that she is in good condition. The simple and atmospheric outfit is very down to earth.
and Huo Qigang stand together, which is a feeling of being a husband and wife.
Guo Jingjing is not a beauty in traditional aesthetics, but she was born into an ordinary family,
But she used her own strength and confidence to marry a wealthy family at 31 and become the most envied woman. appearance.
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In 1981, Guo Jingjing was born in an ordinary family in Hebei. Her father worked in the railway bureau and her mother worked in a film factory. The ordinary family environment established her tenacity, perseverance and simplicity. And low-key.
When she was 7 years old, she was sent by her parents to learn to dive. Due to some protruding knee bones, which affected the shape of the air, her father sat on her leg and pressed her leg. Guo Jingjing was in pain and sweat.
Mother distressedly told her not to give up, but she still clenched her teeth and persisted in doing exercises year after year, day after day.
On the training ground, Guo Jingjing stepped on the 1-meter, 3-meter, and 5-meter platform, and constantly jumped down. Due to strict repeated training, her waist and eyes were injured, and the tibia and fibula of her right leg were also injured. Broken off.
The road to championship is not easy, 14 years of diving career, won 31 medals, behind each medal, there are invisible sweat and tears.
But it has also exercised Guo Jingjing's patience and perseverance. From then on, she also has her own confidence and strength. When she meets Huo Qigang, she is neither arrogant nor humble, and successfully attracted the billionaire Huo Qigang. .
Huo Qigang is the eldest son of Huo Zhenting. In 2001, he was named the fifth diamond king who most want to marry a woman.
Born in wealth, with a resume from Oxford to Tsinghua University, a student who graduated with A, and straddling the three realms of politics, business and sports, which woman does not like such a man?
But his vision has long been attracted by the "diving queen" Guo Jingjing. At the world championship banquet, he couldn't help asking for a group photo as a fan. For fear of not getting the photo, he took a group photo twice.
Then, she ran around the world, and he chased all over the world:
took advantage of her position to accompany her to Macau, she went abroad to compete, he chased it; she returned to Beijing, he accompanied him, In Hong Kong, he flew to see her whenever he had time and accompany her to dinner.
On the game field, he can always see him holding a camera facing her, because he does not want to miss any moments that belong to her; in those years, in the photos taken by the media, there is always him behind her.
Before getting married, the reporter asked Guo Jingjing if she was tempted to be pursued by a wealthy son. She confidently replied: "He is a wealthy team, I am a champion. There are many wealthy teams, but few champions."
has the strength, With confidence and calmness, Huo Qigang was convinced by Guo Jingjing's charm.
In an interview, Deng Yaping asked Guo Jingjing: "Have you considered being a family member?"
Guo Jingjing shook his head, smiled without hesitation and said, "No, I think falling in love is for two people." Do it.”
Confident, yesOpinion, neither overbearing nor humble, 31-year-old Guo Jingjing successfully married into the rich.
And she will still live the life she wants and harvest her own happiness in her own way.
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There is a saying: marrying into a rich family is as deep as the sea.
How many rules the rich family has, we ordinary people don’t know, but we can see from many examples, after marrying into a rich family:
Someone loses their freedom; some becomes a child-bearing machine; some suffers loneliness; some pretends Happiness;...
Just when everyone was curious about how Guo Jingjing’s wealthy life was, she used practical actions to refresh the public’s view. Many people didn’t understand it at the beginning, and later praised her. .
Guo Jingjing's life is low-key and simple. Even if she becomes a famous diving queen and marries a tens of billions of wealthy sons, she still does not change her low-key and simple outlook on life:
She will carry a 400 yuan bag and use three yuan Money's hairpin, buy children's clothes, only look at the quality and not the brand.
There have been reports in the media that she spent 3 yuan in hairpins. Guo Jingjing was dumbfounded. She said:
"Don’t everyone use this? I don’t know if it’s. What's special. People sell it for 3 yuan, you can't force others to sell it for 300 yuan.”
Guo Jingjing is like that, true and grounded.
She is just being herself, living her life in her own way, and she will not be different because she is married to a rich family.
As the pillow person, Huo Qigang was also influenced by her. He abandoned luxury and kept it simple. Wearing a suit for a few years, buying discounted bread after work, going to the supermarket with eco-friendly bags, buying rice, grocery shopping, and fabricating when moving. Bag, do it yourself.
The two of them are like an ordinary couple. They go shopping together and eat roadside stalls. They are simple and honest, and live a real life.
With regard to educating children, Guo Jingjing has her own ideas. They will take their children to plant rice seedlings and cook with fires, and appreciate the difficulty of uncle farmers; take the children to do charity work, and cultivate to be one from childhood a warmhearted person.
In terms of family relations, the mother-in-law never interferes with the daughter-in-law and repeatedly praised her as a good girl; once the father-in-law Huo Zhenting was asked if the daughter-in-law gave birth to a second child for three months, would it be held? A hundred-day banquet, a grand celebration?
Huo Zhenting replied: "You are going to ask your child's mom and dad. After all, I am a grandfather. The parents should decide the child's affairs."
When he came to visit his grandson, the grandson was asked by Guo Jingjing He can play only after finishing her homework. He also appreciates this: “She is very strict in educating her children.”
In this regard, Huo Qigang added: “My parents care about her very much, hope It’s good for her to be happy, and never give her offspring or grandchildren or pressure, health is the most important thing.”
Seeing this, I have to admire Guo Jingjing, she is fully capable of living a more luxurious life , She can afford famous brand luxury goods, but she is not controlled by money or famous brand, but treats these as external objects, according to her actual needs:
buy things, don’t care about the price, only care if it is applicable ; For children, it is love and spiritual enrichment.
Just like what Huo Qigang said: "The happiness defined by our two husbands and wife is actually a simple life."
When Guo Jingjing dared to be herself, she had a sense of life. The right to speak and control;
When she established the correct values and outlook on life for her children, she won the respect and appreciation of her husband's family.
A woman, life can be according to her own meaning, simple, planned and self-disciplined, how can such a woman be unflattering?
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Don’t think Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang are living so happily now. Many years ago, the gossip media was not optimistic about the relationship between the two.
heard that Guo Jingjing had a "want husband's face", and it was still sour. Said: "It's no wonder that although Guo doesn't have a beautiful appearance, the Huo family will also like and accept it."
But Guo Jingjing was not disturbed by these remarks. She knew what she wanted, just like winning the Olympic champion back then: set goals, be yourself, and keep forging ahead.
She is low-key, down-to-earth, simple and simple, easy-going and close to the people; on important occasions, she can also wear clothes that suit her, showing her grand and confident side; she also knows how to appreciate herself, without lowering her posture, and cater to others.
Huo Qigang once said: Jingjing is like a treasure to me. At the beginning I liked her strong, steady, high EQ and championship halo, but after getting along for so long, I always I can find new things in her that move me.
It is true, neither arrogant nor humble, not following the trend, not losing oneself, facing all kinds of temptations, always staying sober, independent in spirit, and daring to be herself. Such a woman is worthy of being cherished by men.
Therefore, Huo Qigang will learn Pinyin for Guo Jingjing. He said: "You can't just learn Cantonese with my wife, I want to learn Mandarin and take the lead."
asked him which city he likes best, and he smiled and said, "Hebei Baoding "(That's Guo Jingjing's hometown);
accompany her back to where she grew up when he loves her, so he takes his children to visit his alma mater with his wife;
"Extreme Challenge" originally invited Guo Jingjing, but he offered to participate, the reason behind it was that he was afraid of his wife partnering with other men;
Guo Jingjing introduced himself to the camera: "Hello everyone, I am Huo Qigang’s wife Guo Jingjing",
Huo Qigang laughs I proudly said, "Hello everyone, I am Guo Jingjing's husband Huo Qigang";
It is raining, holding an umbrella together, supporting each other, walking on the way home, and holding an umbrella Leaning towards Guo Jingjing, completely ignoring whether the rain wets him or not;
Work together to run your own home, teach by example, and carefully cultivate three children...
bit by bit, no one It does not reveal Huo Qigang's love and cherishment for Guo Jingjing,
Of course, in a good relationship, there is not only a good man, but also a good woman.
After Guo Jingjing retired, she chose to study in the UK to see the outside world, constantly recharge and improve herself.
After marrying into a wealthy family, I went to study business majors, and went to the UK to learn English, specializing in etiquette;
Very responsible for the society, low-key public welfare, donated 70 million to the epidemic District, personally cut soap and pack masks;
What she gave to children is to teach by example,
makes children more open-minded, have a grateful heart, and know how to pay for others , Is love and spiritual enrichment.
Talking about Huo Qigang learning Pinyin for herself, she would laugh from ear to ear, her eyes full of admiration and affirmation.
She would praise him: "He is a very principled person. I think I appreciate some of his ways of doing things, because it may be different from me. I think he does a good job and treats things differently. Views.
But I think that different personalities can complement each other. When there are different opinions, see what is more suitable and do what you want.”
When there is a problem, communicate in time, accommodate each other's differences, and appreciate other people's goodness. This way of getting along will make the couple's relationship deeper.
Since Guo Jingjing married Huo Qigang, he helped Huo family establishA positive and friendly image. After this campaign, Huo Qigang also posted photos to thank his wife for her support.
Guo Jingjing has a clear understanding of her identity and abilities from beginning to end. She is neither arrogant nor humble, dare to be herself, and every decision she makes is to follow her heart. .
is precisely because of her strength and self-confidence, she can cross classes and touch the depths of Huo Qigang's soul. The two are spiritually evenly matched, keeping the same pace, and looking in the same direction.
Some media have commented on Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang:
What is the real right-hand pair? This is the real right-hand man;
What is the real rich man? This is true spiritual abundance.
Kant once said: "The so-called freedom is not to do what you want, but to dominate yourself."
People living in this world can be true to themselves and live according to their own meaning,
The one beside you respects you and accompanies you, and this is the simplest happiness.
Guo Jingjing has become the most envious look of women, and I hope that one day, you and I can do it.
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