A little thing about love, a lyrics sung by Nobel Prize in Literature winner Bob Dylan (Bob Dylan) and "Elvis Presley ) have been regarded as the standard by many young people:
The wise are not in love, and the fool is trapped by love.
Wise men say, only fools rush in.
You must never imagine that the young man who used to be "necessary" is now "love brain say no". The best evidence is the #chat record that specializes in treating love addiction#, which has become popular in one go—
What is the treatment for young people’s love addiction?
, as the name suggests, means that whenever you want to have a sweet love, you call on others to share your (tragic) love experience, so as to achieve the effect of pouring a basin of cold water on yourself, and finally cut off your love roots and lock your love.
It's time to curb your ideas in the bud.
anyone knows the truth. But this year's netizens have really achieved "closing the heart and locking love":
From the popular "library power outage for 30 seconds" (when you close your eyes and make a wish on your birthday, your boyfriend opens his phone to reply to the ambiguous object information), "Sixth anniversary Rafigra literature" (the partner gives a bunch of too perfunctory Rafigra on his birthday), and the ending post "He has a lover in his phone, a secret and a relationship" after reading the title...
The tragic experience shared by netizens online is mostly the heartbreaking experience of giving his sincerity but being deeply hurt by his ex. The lines are persuading "love novice" to stay away from this sad place at the speed of light -
In addition to the chat records and story experiences that make people instantly disillusioned love, in #imitation The ex said a sentence in his tone #The hot topic also appeared:
①Okay,
②If you think so, I can’t
③(most of the time I won’t reply)
And the recent popular #Wang Baochuan digging wild vegetables# is also the ironclad evidence that young people no longer believe in love easily:
In the TV series " Xue Pinggui and Wang Baochuan ", Wang Baochuan fell in love with Xue Pinggui at first sight. In order to wait for him to stay in the cold kiln for more than ten years, he digs wild vegetables in the mountains every day. As a result, Xue Pinggui is successful in his career and marrys a princess. He agreed to dig wild vegetables together, and eventually became a waste.
More than a year later, this drama has been re-excerpted and discussed by young people, and is regarded as a textbook for "love brains are not desirable":
"As long as you have the idea of falling in love, you will be punished to watch it 100 times by Wang Baochuan digs wild vegetables, or Zhang Han 's earthy love words ."
Dame!
Why don’t young people dare to have “love addiction”?
Perhaps because everyone has the potential to become a "love brain", so they are also afraid of taking the risk of breaking up. Talk show actor Pang Bo once pointed out that people with "love brain" spend 85% of their time thinking about things related to their lovers: Where is
TA and who are you with? What is
TA doing and whom? Why haven’t
TA come back yet? Who are you with?
Simple psychology used the term "Pathological love" to describe this state. A study of college students in the United States showed that 25% of people are "love brains" and they develop excessive attachment to their partners, which will affect their normal lives and cause harm to themselves and others.
So, in order not to be hurt, young people simply choose not to fall in love - or take the initiative to become the "Aquaman" who hurts others.
However, from another perspective, isn’t the fun of love “addiction”?
During the process of falling in love, people's brains secrete substances such as dopamine , which makes people feel happy and deeply trapped in it. Therefore, the frustration and sadness after breaking up are also regarded as " withdrawal reaction to dopamine " -
If you refuse love in order not to be hurt, you may also lose a large part of your fun.Professor Liang Yongan said in an interview with New Weekly that he actually appreciates the "Love Brain":
"Many people fall in love like transactions. How much I pay and how much you can give me, once they become calculating, their feelings will collapse. When they are in love, if they keep thinking about how to avoid losing, they are also having a discounted relationship."
Perhaps love itself is a process of "pain and happiness". Back to the beginning, there is another truth behind the lyrics sung by Bob Dylan and Elvis,:
The wise man is not in love,
But I can't suppress my love.
Wise men says only fools rush in
but I can't help falling in love with you
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