The poet Pushkin once said: "You can recognize a lion from your toes, and you can recognize a donkey from your ears. donkey ."
It is common in life to recognize animals through your ears, after all, animals have different ear shapes.
So, can you recognize people by looking at people’s ears? I think it can be done. Although the appearance of human ears is similar, the method of using ears is very different. People with high
have the following three characteristics.
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deaf ears to all kinds of rumors.
"年后后 " writes: "One leaf covers the eyes and no mountain; two beans plug their ears and no thunder."
Just take two beans and block your ears and no thunder will be heard. We can think this way, but it is not realistic. After all, the outside world's voices exist objectively, and no one can keep blocking his ears.
Once upon a time, there was a man named Han Yuan who asked to meet the King of Qi, hoping to get a job, but was rejected by the King of Qi.
Han Yuan was very angry and said a lot of things to slander the King of Qi.
The King of Qi sent someone to arrest Han Yuan and put him in prison.
After the minister Tian Wuwu knew the situation, he said to the King of Qi: " If you are a river and sea, don't talk about the clear and turbidity with the well water. If you are a thunder, don't compare the sound with the earthworms. Those who are simple and stubborn are not worthy of the king's murder."
King of Qi put Han Yuan on.
The world is very big and there are many people. Some people say you are good, some people say you are bad, and some people say you "I don't know you." Who is right? You cannot judge. If you insist on making judgments, you will just seek trouble.
After death, people can leave a stele without words and let others write; when people are alive, they can also have a stele without words. If you say credit or faults, it doesn’t matter if you say credit or faults, then allow others to say it.
Don’t pay attention to anything that makes you unhappy. When you are indifferent, it means you are already calmly analyzing and knowing what to do.
Rumors can hurt a person, not because of how powerful the language is, but because of how "heart-wrenching" the person you care about. What a foolish thing to take other people's words as a sword and hurt yourself. After seeing the reality clearly, I feel relieved.
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's pleasing to others can tell the hidden meaning.
There is a woman who falls in love with her husband after getting married. When the husband had a concubine, the woman became cold and was divorced.
When a woman remarries, she says her ex-husband is useless, so her current husband loves her very much.
Things are unpredictable. The woman was divorced by her second husband and then entered into marriage for the third time. When they got married, the woman scolded her former two husbands severely.
One day, the third husband and the second husband met. The second husband said, "I have heard what you heard, too."
It is obvious that for happiness, women try their best to please their current husband and distance themselves from their ex-boy. It can be understood.
But we must be clear-headed that women's husbands each have their own advantages, not what she said. Only after objective analysis can we draw conclusions.
Warring States , after hearing this story, Qin Wang no longer trusts those who say bad things about other countries. He thought that those who defect to him would use all their strength to please him and slander other countries.
flattery is something we cannot stop. Even if you are a righteous person, you cannot completely stop others from giving you a thumbs up. If you are the boss of a certain unit, the number of likes you will surpass that of ordinary people.
What we can do is to "have a clear idea in our heart" and know how much we are.
If you are beautiful, you actually want to get close and then find opportunities to gain benefits; if you praise it hard, it is actually numbing a person's spirit, which may lead to a person no longer having a positive appearance; saying bad things as good is just nonsense, just stealing the bell.
Calm down and know that "there is something in the words", which means that your emotional intelligence and IQ are not low.
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For things that have nothing to do with me, I will let go of them after hearing about them.
Confucius Leaving Luguo and going out to study, and hopes that someone will appreciate him.
He went to Weiguo and talked with Weiling Bus for a long time.
Duke Ling of Wei asked how to arrange a battle. Confucius said that he didn't know what he could say was etiquette.
Confucius put forward a lot of suggestions, and Duke Ling of Wei said that he was old. After talking to
, Confucius left and sighed: "The way is different, we don't plan for each other."
How can a well-educated and rational person and a competitive person be able to comply with him? Everyone thinks and speaks from their own perspective, but the other person's words have nothing to do with them.
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grasps your role and future, and do not be disturbed by irrelevant information. If you don’t interfere in other people’s circles or interfere in other people’s private affairs, there will be less right and wrong.
Even if it is a surprising thing, I forget it after hearing it. After all, I am ordinary, and it is not surprising that people outside are.
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In real society, people at low levels just lack the above three characteristics. They are very sensitive to everything outside the world, and when they hear nonsense, they think they are good advice; when they hear hypocritical words, they immediately become arrogant. For heart-wrenching words, there is no immunity at all.
The most hateful thing is that some people will spread rumors and say what they hear and what they think of.
If you want to improve your level, practice the ability to be "obedient".
Ancient Greek philosopher Zino once said: "We have only one tongue and two ears so that we can listen more and speak less."
Listen more, speak less, be silent appropriately, give yourself time to analyze and judge. If you can't judge what others say, forget slowly and don't put burden on yourself.
Poet Shakespeare said: "The night makes the eyes lose its function, but it makes the ears more sensitive. Although it hinders visual activities, it gives double compensation for hearing."
What you hear, don't believe it completely, and look with your eyes. If your eyes are not good, then your ears will be more sensitive and can integrate everyone's speeches.
In short, it is not accurate to judge a person's level simply from the appearance of the ear. A fat man with big ears can be a chef or a Zen master.
Just control your ears and make life softer.
Author: Common people eat coarse food.
Follow my text and enter your heart.
The pictures in the article are from the Internet.
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