Yesterday, Mr. Wei, the dormitory of Building No. 24 of No. 1 Middle School, called me, and I was very moved. This is a responsible and caring logistics teacher.
We haven't seen each other, and recently I heard Mr. talk about her because the child changed apartment buildings. She said that 's daughter is very polite, she prefers her daughter, the child is more introverted , speaks softly, class has no friends, looks a bit inferior , and a little lonely. It is said that the child's physical html test score is 43 in February, and the pressure is great. It is said by the daughter that the score may be thought by the mother. Oh, I'm really wronged, aren't I? Mrs. Wei said that when she was in school, she still got more than ten points in the physics test. She used her own experience to comfort her daughter. I was very moved.
She said that there were two children staying in the whole five-story building at night, one of them is my daughter, and the other one will not live after the 9th. He came over to ask for our opinion and said that we could move our daughter to the fourth floor and live next to her bedroom.
I am really touched. My daughter is less than two months old, and this is the third time has moved to . I heard that the No. 4 apartment will be renovated for the holiday. It seems that my daughter will face the fourth move after school starts. Thanks to the fact that my daughter is not a hypocritical child, in order to live in school , she agrees to move anywhere.
Now in the key high school of Daqing, there are very few children living in the experiment, No. 1 Middle School and Iron Man, which is a common phenomenon. Parents take their children home no matter how late it is. Fortunately, my daughter is brave and sensible, and insists on living on campus, although it may be for freedom, or it may be to reduce trouble for us.
Mrs. Wei said that her daughter did not do well in the physics exam, and the little eyes she looked at people were dodged, which may be a little inferior. Let's not put pressure on the child.
Alas, I really didn't find this, I see her mentality is very good. She didn't do well in the physics exam. I took her to the remedial class last week. When I saw Mr. Deng, I felt embarrassed.
I said, it seems that taking the remedial class doesn't seem to be of any use. She said, "You're not me, how do you know it's useless!" At that time, what I thought in my head was Zhuangzi and Keizi's "zi Feiyu" , how do you know the joy of fish?"
Teacher Wei said that her daughter is too introverted, and such a child tends to go to extremes. In fact, she was deceived by her daughter's appearance. Her daughter has a small voice since she was a child, but she is not a very introverted child, but she does things in a low-key manner and does not like to be publicized, and she will not go to extremes. Her mentality is super powerful.
Mrs. Wei said that her daughter is very knowledgeable and has high requirements for herself. This time she did not do well in the monthly physics exam. She was afraid that her daughter would not be able to think about it and would be depressed again. That day, she went to her daughter's dormitory to see that her daughter was watching "A Dream of Red Mansions" and did chemistry by herself. crystal molecular model, she was relieved. I am really touched, responsible and good teacher.
In fact, she doesn't know my daughter better than me, all she sees is the appearance. My daughter's mentality has always been super good. Since she went to school, she has never compared with her classmates who are better than her. She is always the one who is good at learning. "He is really smart and better than me." A heartfelt attitude.
She is always compared with the classmates behind her, and she always looks like a bunch of students with lower grades than me. When she was in elementary school, one night she texted and chatted with her classmates, hehe giggling, I asked her why she was laughing? She speaks english dictation word she got 20. At first I thought the perfect score was 20 points, but she said 100 points, 10 words.
I was angry at the time. I said that you didn’t memorize the words. Mom can forgive you if you don’t know the words. But your mother’s learning attitude is not correct. You got 2 out of 10 words. Why is your heart so big?
Daughter started hiding from me at this time. Anyway, since then, I have never mastered her English grades. Moreover, she and her classmates also deleted the text messages in time. This anti-reconnaissance ability is quite strong.
After arriving at the junior high school in Daqing, the weekly test results are often posted in the class group. My daughter has never attended a remedial class, and her English score is average in the class. She is also a lazy child who is lazy in learning. The results of the weekly test also often block my chest and feel uncomfortable.
There were two times, when I was waiting for the bus at the station, when I saw the results came out, blood gushed up, and the words or grammar assigned by the teacher the first day, and the test the next day, she would make a lot of mistakes.
why? All the time is spent on a side hustle. I was engaged in succulent forums, watching American TV dramas, and writing novels. I got mad two or three times and used the phone to train her.
Afterwards, every time I came, I gave her dictation, words and grammar, forcing her to memorize. In the year of the senior high school entrance examination, I was too busy with work, and her father was studying Russian again, and the review I supervised on Saturdays and Sundays was completely dependent on her. As a result, she never gave up her sideline business, and people said that she had a very good mentality.
After her daughter entered the first year of high school, she lived in the school. I don't know how the school is going. At least I want to study until 10:20 in the evening. She can't do a side hustle during the class. It's good to make good use of this time. The result of
, it seems that she made herself hard . He said to me one day, "Mom, if I worked so hard before the senior high school entrance examination, I could still take 20 extra points."
I said, "You didn't work so hard, you are already satisfied with this grade, which shows that you still have spare energy in the future. However, is there something wrong with your learning method ? If you make yourself so tired every day, how can you still have the quality of listening in class? "She said that the teachers of all subjects can't wait to say that this subject is the most important, and they are trying their best to leave homework. There is no way, and they can't finish it if they don't work hard.
Even if her daughter's hard-working people are angry with God, she is only a low-level student in the class. 23 on the top list last month, 51 on the top list this time, and the results were pulled down by physics and math .
Yesterday we talked on the phone, I said, there is still a problem with the physics learning method? My daughter is still saying that. : "You are not me, how do you know if there is something wrong with my study method? "
" I'm not you, but how do you know that I don't know there is something wrong with your learning method. "I laughed and continued, "If you are not me, how can you know that I don't know the joy of fish?" Your grades are there, and there are 4 tutoring classes, 79 points last month, 43 points this month, doesn't that explain the problem? "
" Damn, it's a big accident, it can't explain the problem, I said it all, it goes up in twists and turns. "Okay, since you think your study method is fine, I'll just assume that you haven't figured it out yet.
"Mom, no one in my class has to go out. This time there are more than 60 people in Pang's class, and they haven't arrived yet." seventy. The school's system is that after two cumulative rankings of 70, it will be downgraded to another class. "The daughter said excitedly.
" This shows that the grades of your classmates are relatively stable. Come on, the end of this month is the final exam. Mom hopes that your math and physics will improve. "Daughter hmmm responded.
The daughter is actually a child with a super sunny mentality. She has a very positive attitude, but her seemingly meek appearance often gives people the illusion that the child is introverted, and the parents put pressure on her. After all, she is a child. Teachers are worried that she will not be depressed. Haha, my daughter is in a very good mood. We hardly put any pressure on her. I have already thought a lot, and we have set a goal. As for the result, it depends on her own efforts.
I said, "If the University of Science and Technology cannot pass the examination, there is Beijing Chemical Industry , and if the Beijing Chemical Industry Co., Ltd. fails the examination, there is a general one. Only if the platform is high enough to meet people of the same high level, you may not be alone. Only then can your thoughts and thoughts resonate, you can use the best experimental facilities in China, become the best professors and students, you can have the closest contact with academicians, and you can become people like them in the future.” . The daughter hummed in response.
Based on what I know about her, I believe that my daughter will make extraordinary achievements in the future, but I will also accept her ordinary life calmly.
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