The ancients said: "If a person does good, even if the blessing has not arrived, the misfortune has been away; if a person does evil, even if the disaster has not arrived, the blessing has been away." Therefore, blessings and good luck are not unchanging in destiny, but are either increased or decreased according to our behavior. A river of spring water flows eastward, elders accumulate virtue, and younger generations enjoy happiness.
There is a saying in the "Cause and Effect Sutra": " Don't say that no one sees cause and effect, it is far away from children and grandchildren. " People in the world will be rewarded for good and evil, and everything has cause and effect. The cause and effect of the world cannot be seen and understood, but it really exists.
Many people think that if the evil things done by others are not repaid on them, they will lose their blessings on their descendants? Perhaps this is the so-called Zen opportunity of "not retribution, the time has not come."
The old saying goes: The elderly have virtue and their descendants will prosper; the elderly have no virtue and their family will suffer. As parents, the actions of the elderly in the family will be reflected in their descendants. The kind and virtuous elderly will add blessings to their descendants, and these actions of the elderly will reduce the blessings of future generations.
78-year-old Mr. Qin once advised others like this: These behaviors of parents were very refreshing at the time, but they would affect the blessings of their descendants in the rest of their lives. Don’t think that this is false. This is the cycle of cause and effect. Don’t believe it.
Conveyor: 78-year-old Mr. Qin
people are disgusted and will get a response in their descendants
The old saying goes: A gentleman loves money and gets it in a good way; he should not have the intention to harm others, and he should not be without the intention to guard against others. No matter how difficult life is, being a kind and good person will eventually encounter warmth; if you have the intention to harm others and disgust, it will often harm yourself and your descendants.
I am 78 years old this year and have retired for many years. My wife is 2 years older than me, and my two children have already started a family. The old workers of our era valued "taking the factory as their home and being the master of ownership." The heart is simple and there are not so many "curves and flowers". I am dedicated to working more and dedicating my passion to the unit.
But there are also people who have ideas in their hearts, who are lazy and sloppy, and even frame others for their own selfish interests for , enriching their own wallets, watching others fall into the abyss, and thinking that they are smart people and others are big fools.
I remember that when the family building first started installing electricity meters. When the water meters were water meters, many sensible people thought that they were smart and capable people, and even steal things from the unit to buy rags. They thought that they were making money for the family. Who knew that decades later, look at the old buddies who did this, how many children would have made a fortune and be filial to them?
Parents’ morality is a role model for their children and grandchildren. If the elderly take advantage of the situation everywhere and do not suffer losses, or even satisfy their own selfish desires by harming others’ interests, they can let their children and grandchildren follow suit. Therefore, many years later, it is their own cause and effect that children and grandchildren are unfilial to such elderly people.
Whenever I see the host in the "Mediation Program" telling the client, "If you have to forgive me, please forgive me. It's been so long, so you can forgive him?" This is really the case that doesn't hurt anyone's flesh if it's not pricked.
Why is there a tragedy of "My dad is Li Gang"? It is because some of the behaviors of parents are reflected on their children and grandchildren. Wealth is not rich for three generations, so don’t think you are too smart. God doesn’t speak, but you are all watching . It’s better to do more good deeds and cause less disgusting, otherwise “there is an old person in the family like a treasure” is a joke.
Live until the twilight years of life and have already seen through the "cause and effect reincarnation" in the world. is for the sake of happiness in your later years and to accumulate more good relationships for your descendants. Please do more good deeds and have good thoughts.
Parents have lost their moral character, and their children will suffer
The ancients said: "A family that accumulates good will have good fortune, and a family that accumulates bad will have bad fortune." Parents know how to practice themselves, and they must be role models for their children and grandchildren, and they are also the "old treasure" in their hearts.
If parents have lost their moral character, there will be disasters such as "if virtue is not in line with the position, there will be disasters." For example, money, status, and housing obtained by "using any means". If you regret it after getting old and being "double-regulated", then your children and grandchildren will suffer. Not only will you be looked down upon by others, but you will also be convicted and lost your freedom with you.
At that time, the leaders of our unit, who were highly powerful and had a high position, were greedy for public funds because of their corruption and domineeringness, and made their children and grandchildren rampant. Seeing that they were rich and powerful for many years, they did not expect that once they turned the tables, the whole family would suffer. The wealth of the elderly and their children and grandchildren was confiscated, the property at home was confiscated, and the children and children were still in jail. The remaining women and children were suffering from the years at home.
If a person bullies the good, God will know. No matter how powerful is, don’t bully the weak. Feng Shui turns around, have you ever spared anyone? When a person is in power, if he can help the poor and treat others well, he will naturally remember the benefits. When you are not satisfied, someone will come to repay you. Perhaps this is the so-called "repaying kindness" reward.
My old colleague, when he was at work, relied on his own as a young leader, and yelled at us people at the bottom of the worker, and even my son had to pay how much money he had to pay when he got married, which made everyone complain and curse him for not being able to die a bad death. The result was really like that. After his colleague retired, no one was willing to play with him, and no one walked with him. His son was not good to him, so he took away his pension and often insulted him for money.
The heavenly path is good for reincarnation. People are doing things and seeing things, so it’s better to be kind. 's money does not belong to you. Sooner or later, God will take it away in other forms, and it will cause you to suffer greater sins. As parents, the elderly at home must always be good at themselves, cultivate their character, and make themselves the pillar of the big family, rather than the unethical elderly who "everyone dislikes".
spoiling a child is like killing a child, and the consequences are at your own risk
"A humble person wins, and arrogance is defeated." When parents educate their children, they must not spoil and spoil them, otherwise the consequences can only be endured and swallowed by themselves. Do you remember in ancient times, before the thief was executed, he bit off his mother's nipples ? It is because when this mother was young, whether he was stealing other people's things or bullying others, she had to plead for him and indulged her son, thinking that her son was capable.
spoiled children as if they were killed, parents spoiled their children, and what they ended up getting was the desolation of their later years. I remember when we were young, we all lived in the staff dormitory, and every household was next to each other. Whoever had food would give others some food, but we parents would educate our children. Even if you can eat whatever you want, we must not let the owner know that we should not take other people's things at will.
The wife of colleague Lao Zhao is not like this. Every time his son stole other people’s children’s things, he would say, “It’s not worth much, what’s the matter? Everyone's kitchens are in the corridor. His son randomly searches other people's cabinets and , and takes them away when he sees what he likes to eat. Others find his house. Lao Zhao's wife does not talk about his son, but calls others stingy, children are ignorant, and adults are not sensible.
Decades have passed, Lao Zhao has left, and his wife lives and retires with her son. not only wants to be a "free nanny" for her son, but also has to be shouted by her son all day long, and even forces her to pick up rags and sell money, and always talk about "old man". Whose fault is this? The source of everything is that the elderly have not been good at themselves and have set a bad example for their children and grandchildren, which has made the desolation of their old age. Only with causes can there be results.
people come to the world for a while. should be kind, do things steadily, follow the good path in your heart, and follow the way of heaven to cultivate your body and mind. Otherwise, your own behavior will not only dig a hole for yourself, but will also damage the blessings of your descendants. In the world of the world, good and evil are righteous, and what parents do often come to us and future generations.
As parents, we must set an example and cultivate our moral character well. speak good words, do good deeds, keep good thoughts, and have good thoughts. , have the three views of positive energy, and guide our descendants to the uphill road of life. This is the real "treasure of the family" of .
Author: Huagui Zenxin
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