I have been flooded with a short video these two days. At first I just thought it was the title party to watch the fun. Later, after time fermented, I read the full encouragement and energy of being a mother in this video.
Her name is Xiao Chen, she is 21 years old, and she is already a single mother who takes care of her daughter alone. She got married in 2018, and her husband died in a car accident in 2019. Her daughter was just five or six months old. Her mother-in-law took away her husband's compensation and drove them out of the house.
When asked why her mother-in-law drove her granddaughter out, she said that only boys in Jiangxi are the continuation, and girls do not count. In the
video, she had tears in her eyes, but she still smiled innocently and said: I am still young, and I can only earn 3,000 yuan a month in my hometown. I work from Jiangxi to Anqing , and I deliver takeaway here. I can earn 7,000-8,000 yuan a month, and I can also take care of my children. It's great.
21 years old, for many people, it is the age when they have not graduated from college, and they can be called "children". But for Xiao Chen, he took on his mother's responsibilities early on.
When I first started delivering takeout, Xiao Chen carried his half-year-old baby on his chest. Later, the child was a little older and could temporarily stay in the rental house during the day or ask someone to take care of him. At night, the mother and daughter came out to run together for the order.
Xiao Chen said that he has met many kind-hearted people in the past two years. When I deliver food to myself, I will put my daughter in a familiar McDonald's store, and the staff "take care of her daughter very much."
When asked about how hard it is to deliver takeout, I have to run around with my baby every day and climb stairs. Can I still bear it myself? Don’t you feel wronged? She still smiled and said: She is still young. When will she not endure hardship when she was young? She hopes to buy a very small house through her own efforts, live with her daughter, and hopes to support her daughter in college, and not get married very early at the age of her.
In fact, Xiao Chen's parents once dissuaded Xiao Chen from paying attention to his daughter. After all, he is still a child and has many bright futures that can be imagined at the age of 21.
But Xiao Chen said: I can understand that my parents say this to love her daughter, but she also loves her daughter. You must be responsible when you give birth to a daughter, and you must support your daughter to grow up and have a future.
Xiao Chen also posted on Weibo: Three meals a day to protect his daughter are the happiest life. At the same time, when netizens said that they should ask their mother-in-law to get the compensation back, the kind-hearted woman also said, "I will not ask her mother-in-law to get the compensation back to her husband. After all, she has lost a son and is able to support her daughter."
21 years old, a girl's youth has just begun, and her youth is blooming in the bustling traffic of carrying the children. She is kind, brave, optimistic, simple, responsible and has great love.
I felt both distressed and inspired when I saw her story. In a world of complicated Internet information, joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness, good, evil, ugliness, beauty and beauty are flourishing. Some mothers are under pressure and jump off the building with their children in their arms, some are forcing their children to jump off the building, and some are throwing away their children in order to pursue their own happiness.
There are all kinds of things in the world, only the beauty can be seen in the eyes, and the world is kind.
I hope that Miss Chen and her children can grow up happily together during the day of delivery. I think after 18 years, Xiao Chen will definitely be the richest mother, and Xiao Chen’s baby must be very outstanding and outstanding.
To be a mother, you need positive energy. To be a mother, you need to be a role model for your children. Come on, moms!