Today's young people often think of themselves as "living flat" and are lazy to socialize and struggle. However, these young people who are jokingly called lazy people are nothing compared to a young man.
Can you imagine how lazy a person can be? I'm afraid I can only think of being too lazy to work, too lazy to clean, too lazy to do housework!
But the protagonist of today’s story is so lazy that he would rather go hungry for a few days than cook, even though the meat and vegetables are right at the door; he is too lazy to go out to use the toilet, so he just finds a pit on the spot...
And he made such a move The person was not an elderly person with physical disabilities or too old, but a young man in his twenties who eventually died at home because of laziness!
Why is he so lazy?
The "gold spoon" in the mountain nest, the child who grew up with his parents in his arms
Yang Suo was born in an ordinary small mountain village in Xinyang, Henan, and was pampered since he was a child.
When many people heard about his story, their first reaction was that a family that could raise such a child must be very wealthy. Otherwise, how could they raise their children to be so ungrounded?
The fact is exactly the opposite. Yang Suo's family is not in a good situation and is much poorer than other families in the village.
Due to poverty, Yang Suo's father Yang Jichun has never married. Even in a relatively poor village, he has never married a wife, and the surrounding families are not willing to marry their daughters to him.
When he was 30 years old, Yang Suo's father met Yang Suo's mother through the introduction of others and officially started a family.
After getting married, Yang Jichun worked hard every day and lived a pretty good life, but he always had a problem.
That is, his wife has never given birth to a son and a half for him. Seeing that he has been married for more than ten years, he and his wife are still the only ones at home.
Perhaps God took pity on this father. When Yang Jichun was 46 years old, he finally welcomed his first child.
Seeing that he was almost over fifty, he had such a son. Yang Jichun naturally attached great importance to this son.
Yang Jichun is not highly educated, but he still worked hard to name his son "Yang Suo". The meaning is also very simple, that is, he hopes that his son can be "locked" in the Yang family and that he can accompany his son for a long time. Jiujiu, be a good successor to the Yang family.
In fact, such names are not uncommon. Many parents hope that their children can live a safe life and that they can accompany their children to grow up. But Yang Jichun and his wife's love for little Yang Suo was even more doting, even almost unreasonable.
Although there is a lot of farm work every day, the couple still insists on holding their children. Children in the village have begun to learn to stumble around when they are about one year old, but Yang Suo is still held tightly by his mother.
not only does farm work, but also cooks, cleans the house, and walks around the streets. He also carefully protects his children in his arms.
At first, the neighbors only thought that Yang Jichun had a son, and it was normal and understandable to pamper him a little.
But no one expected that this hug would last seven or eight years.
Under the protection of his parents, he did not learn to walk until he was eight years old. The reason for not walking was not because of physical weakness, but simply because his parents were reluctant.
Every time I finally planned to let my child learn to walk, but I couldn't bear to see the child bump or bump into me, and I was worried that the child would be too tired to learn to walk, so I gave up again and again, always thinking of waiting a little longer and not being in a hurry.
That's it. Other children's childhood may be spent chasing each other with their friends, playing with cats and dogs, or working in the fields with their parents to support the family, but Xiao Yangsuo's childhood was like a carrying pole for his parents.
finally learned to walk, but every time he went out, Yang Jichun would carry little Yang Suo on a pole, or simply carry him on his back, and rarely let his son walk on the ground.
Yang Jichun's neighbors once said that although Yang Jichun and his wife lived a frugal life, they were extraordinarily generous to Yang Suo. At that time, there was a snack called "Lard Bun", which was the most delicious food among children because it was rich in oil and fragrant.
But because the price is relatively expensive, parents rarely buy it for their children unless it is during the holidays.
But the delicacies in the eyes of other children are the food that Yang Suo has eaten enough.
Yang Jichun buys two lard buns for his son every day, and Yang Suo rarely asks his parents if they want to eat. Instead, he takes a few bites, treats them as finished, and throws them directly on the roadside.
After graduating from elementary school, Yang Suo began to "provide for the elderly"
But spoiled is spoiled, and Yang Jichun and his wife still recognize the role of education.
They sent Yang Suo to school when he was still in school.
In fact, being sent to school is a very good opportunity for Yang Suo to turn over a new leaf, because in school, he can get in touch with peers, run and jump with them, and also receive education from the school, not only Culture, as well as moral edification.
It can be said that if Yang Suo's parents could let go and let the teacher's words and classmates' examples influence their children, then Yang Suo would not be more lazy.
But Yang Suo’s parents still find it difficult to let their children grow up freely.
Children in the same village can go to and from school with their friends after being dropped off a few times by their parents, but this is not the case for Yang Suo.
Yang Jichun is always worried that his son will have an accident on the way to school. Even though the school is very close to Yang's home, Yang Jichun is not at ease.
In order to protect his son, Yang Jichun began a long life of transportation.
packs his son's schoolbag every day, organizes books, and stuffs the bag with Yang Suo's favorite snacks.
With the confidence given by his father, Yang Suo became the bully in school. When
was in class, he couldn't concentrate on the class and would always wander away. And he would not think about the questions asked by the teachers, but would sit blankly, too lazy to bother.
Occasionally, a teacher would reprimand him or give him a question to do, but Yang Suo would violently resist. Yang Suo would throw a tantrum in the school and say something to contradict the teacher.
After the school bell rings, it is Yang Suo's free time.
He would exaggerate the teacher's admonishment, complain to Yang Jichun and his wife, put all the fault on the teacher, saying that the teacher deliberately treated him harshly.
After hearing this, Mr. and Mrs. Yang Jichun will unconditionally believe their son. They will only accept his son's words and go to school to make a fuss to seek justice for their son.
Every time Yang Jichun and his wife come to school to make a fuss, the whole school will watch the fun. With the support of his parents, Yang Suo will be even more proud and ignore the teacher's words.
Just like that, Yang Suo's family became famous for being "difficult". Not to mention the teachers who shunned Yang Suo, even the children were unwilling to be friends with the arrogant Yang Suo.
Just like that, Yang Suo's primary school career was still arrogant and very satisfying.
But after graduating from elementary school, Yang Suo's dismal grades put Yang Jichun and his wife in trouble.
The junior high school score line at that time was not high, but Yang Suo's score was far behind.
At this time, Yang Jichun and his wife did not think that there was something wrong with their pampering. Instead, they felt that their son was smart and it was just because he did not study hard that his grades were poor. When Yang Suo calmed down and settled down in junior high school, he would be able to do well. score.
So, Yang Jichun, who had always had few connections, went around looking for connections and people in order to find a junior high school for his son. He lowered his face and played tricks on Yang Suo, and then he applied for a place.
But Yang Suo did not accept Yang Jichun's efforts. He hated school and did not want to study, so he started crying and making trouble at home, picking up things around him and smashing them everywhere, in order to force his parents to agree to his request not to go to school.
How could Yang Jichun and his wife watch their son get so angry and beat him?
So, he nodded and agreed to his son's request not to go to school, just so that his son could eat well and not go hungry.
Just like this, while other children were carrying schoolbags and embarking on higher education, Yang Suo was lying at home, doing nothing, watching his parents work. Occasionally, his parents would refuse him help because he was "too tired". After this time, Yang Suo no longer reached out to help and lived a "retirement life" ahead of schedule.
Parents passed away, no support but still unwilling to work
After dropping out of school, Yang Suo only went out to play and lay in bed all day.
But parents are getting older and older. Now that they are 60 years old, they still have to work every day, while their children enjoy themselves all day long.
Finally, when Yang Suo was 13 years old, Yang Jichun fell ill due to years of overwork. He was eventually diagnosed with advanced liver cancer and died not long after.
The death of his father did not affect Yang Suo's life as a "prince".
The life of an orphan and a widowed mother was not easy. At this time, Yang's mother also tried to help her son stand up and support the family, even if it was to run errands for herself.
But how can the inertia that has been cultivated for a long time be changed overnight.
Not to mention sharing the family burden with his mother, even if his mother asked him to lend a hand and do some small things, he would immediately get angry and punch and kick his elderly mother.
had been beaten too many times, and Yang’s mother did not dare to ask her son for help anymore. She could only grit her teeth to support herself and her son.
But who can persist in living like a slave?
Less than five years later, Yang's mother also passed away in grief and anger because of overwork and being criticized and insulted by her son for a long time.
The death of his parents did not move this already hard-hearted child.
He has never worked, so he naturally doesn’t know that every grain of rice he eats is obtained by his father’s sweat; he also doesn’t know that the clothes he wears are made by his mother lighting lamps and boiling oil, sewing them stitch by stitch, from his perspective In China, as long as you open your mouth, you will have food, as long as you reach out, you will have clothes.
In such a life, how could he appreciate his parents' hard work, let alone feel sorry for their parents' efforts, and be grateful for their parents' love for him.
After the death of his parents, Yang Suo's cousin, caring about the long-standing relationship, introduced Yang Suo to do some small work on the construction site, which could at least support himself.
But Yang Suo, who has been lazy for so many years, can't do any work even if there are people watching next to him, let alone changing his appearance and working hard.
Often, my cousin sends me to the construction site in the morning, and in the afternoon he runs home and falls asleep.
Seeing that he was unwilling to do manual labor, the neighbors in the village introduced Yang Suo to a job as a waiter. He worked nearby, and it was not hard work. He always made enough to make ends meet.
Some villagers even thought that after staying in the hotel for a long time, they could learn some small skills and do some small business on their own in the future.
But Yang Suo behaved as usual. After arriving at the restaurant, he was still lazy and free, unwilling to carry dishes and wash dishes. Within a few days, he was kicked out by the restaurant owner.
Many contributions from relatives and friends were wasted by Yang Suo.
Seeing that Yang Suo is getting more and more out of character, the almost twenty-year-old person is still unwilling to work in the field, and no one is willing to ask for a job opportunity for Yang Suo.
Yang Suo thought this was just right, and he started his life of begging openly and honestly.
But even when he was begging for food, he took his laziness to the extreme. He stayed in this house and had to be handed to others before eating. When others gave him some meat, he was too lazy to cook. When the meat smells bad, it will still look the same.
Yang Suo would stay in other people's homes until they kicked him out. He would go from house to house to get food, and almost the entire village helped him.
Except for eating, Yang Suo never went out. He would lie on the bed, motionless. When
wanted to go to the toilet, he would go to the toilet directly in the hole dug in the house, and then go back to bed to sleep after finishing it.
When it gets cold, he doesn't go out to look for firewood. Instead, he dismantles everything that can be burned at home to keep warm.
Just like this, a good home was left to Yang Suo to tear down the walls. People in the village were no longer willing to help Adou, who could not be helped by anyone.
After all, money still makes a sound when thrown into water, but he always asks you to eat the food he gives to Yang Suo before it is delivered to him, and he never hears a few words of thanks.
As time goes by, except for Yang Suo's cousin, few people go to Yang Suo's house to have trouble.
But Yang Suo didn't care about this. He slept at home all day. He was too hungry to sleep, so he got up and went around the village begging for food. After eating, he came back and went to sleep.
The winter of 2009 was very cold. Every household in the village had already stored a lot of firewood and made cotton-padded clothes. Cousin Yang Suo thought about Yang Suo's daily behavior and knew that he must be suffering from cold and hunger, so he took a quilt and food to visit Yang Suo.
But he didn't expect that when he opened the door, he found that his cousin was stiff and had died long ago.
Parents love their children, but they have far-reaching plans.
Yang Suo's story is shocking. We can't imagine that a young man with sound limbs and relatively smart people in the eyes of outsiders will suffer from cold and hunger because of laziness. at home.
On the surface, Yang Suo is the "first lazy person", and the reason behind laziness is inseparable from the shortcomings in family education .
Yang Suo's parents have good intentions. After all, no parent wants their children to have a hard life. They always hope that they will work harder so that their children can be more relaxed.
But how can a child who has never experienced anything have the courage to face the world?
Yang Suo was doted on by his parents. When he was a child, when he should be exploring the world, he stayed in a carrying pole and lost his curiosity and yearning for the world. At an age when he should be traveling around the world, he acted recklessly and lost the knowledge to learn and knock the key to the world. What’s more, when I should be supporting my family and working hard, I no longer have the ability and courage to work.
He didn't know how much sweat he had to sweat to get what he got, so how could he cherish his parents' efforts and sacrifices and develop the determination to be independent and self-reliant?
Yang Suo’s story is not an exception, and after reading this story, what you and I need to do is not to let the second Yang Suo appear around us. If you are a child, then face the world bravely and face the expectations of your parents. Give, if you are a parent, then learn to let go and give your children a chance to grow independently!
Reference:
1. The 23-year-old boy was lazy and starved to death at home. Anonymous 39_40 Journal ·"Reading for Middle School Students (Junior High School Edition)", 2018. Issue Z3
2. The 23-year-old boy Xu Xiaoling 34_35 who was too lazy to death · "Study for High School Students (Junior High School Edition)", 2011. Issue 02
3. The 23-year-old boy starved to death At home: Xiu Yangfeng’s pet-like life 8 Journal·" road to becoming a talent ", 2010. Issue 26
4. Liang Wande. I hope Yang Suo starved to death is just a case [N]. Youjiang Daily, 2010-09-09
