Transfer, a major life choice...
A few days ago, the notification of transfer came.
As everyone expected, the current gap in the transformation industry is tightening, and many types are targets that strictly control the transformation industry (decommissioned).
This also highlights the direction from one side: stay, I believe that the treatment policy will get better and better.
At the same time, many provinces, cities and regions have successively carried out the 2022 military transfer and position selection work. For retired officers who choose to transfer and resettle in 2022, it has undoubtedly ushered in a major turning point in their lives.
Because the transfer of career is not only about identity, but also about one's own work and living environment. It is a rare review in life and another choice opportunity given to oneself by fate. It is not an exaggeration to say that it is "rebirth".
When facing such an important moment, some people are happy and some are sad.
When faced with the transfer, comrade-in-arms Lao Li is the one who is happy.
When Lao Li graduated from the Military Academy, he still planned to allocate, which means that no matter whether he performed well during school or not, he had no say in the allocation. Whether the distribution was good or not depends entirely on luck.
Maybe he was a little bit unlucky. Lao Li did not assign the place he wanted to go, but was assigned to serve in a difficult and remote area that many people did not want to go to.
says that "distribution determines lifelong", and Lao Li thinks this is true at all, because since the distribution, Lao Li has never changed to the service area in the past ten years.
It’s not that I don’t want to serve in another region, but that I don’t have a chance.
It is also because the service area is too remote and difficult, and neither medical care nor education can keep up, and no family members are willing to follow the army, so Lao Li has been living a separation from the two places after marriage.
Although long-term service is now advocated, and various welfare benefits have been introduced to encourage long-term service, everyone’s real idea is that if you serve in a good environment, you can accept it for a few more years, but the service environment is so harsh, considering your health and family, you should go or leave.
Lao Li, who has applied for a transfer for three consecutive years, finally retired this year as he wished.
The moment when he knew he could leave, Lao Li was excited. After so many years of "isolated from the world", he finally returned to the world. Lao Li's joy was beyond words.
After a period of study, Lao Li achieved good results in the military transfer exam. In addition, he served in a difficult area and also had third-class merit . The comprehensive quantitative score was relatively high and ranked high. He had a lot of room for selection when choosing a job. According to his own wishes, he chose a position with few things and close to home. Lao Li was 100% satisfied.
Although the income may not be as high as the current service, Lao Li felt it was worth it to be able to reunite with his family and was full of hope for the future.
Compared to Lao Li's satisfaction, Lao Zhao, who had just finished choosing a post, felt it was hard to describe it.
If Lao Li takes the initiative to retire, then Lao Zhao is the one who retires "passively".
I want to take advantage of the long-term service to work in the army for a few years. After all, the welfare benefits of the army have been increasing in recent years. Although it is a little harder and more tiring, Lao Zhao feels that as long as you have money to make your wife and children live a good life, that little hardship is nothing.
However, Lao Zhao did not expect that he accidentally became a retired person in charge of regulation. If he didn't want to leave, he had to leave.
For this reason, Lao Zhao felt uncomfortable for a long time.
The friends around me all advised Lao Zhao to say:
"Others want to leave but they can't leave. How enviable it is to be able to leave.The local treatment is also very good now, otherwise why are so many people rushing to take the civil service and professional exam every year? If you can go back to live a normal life, your wife and children are warm every day, what else do you have to be dissatisfied with? "
Although that is the case, Lao Zhao still reluctant to leave.
Lao Zhao's hometown is a small city. The resettlement situation is average, and the income level is not comparable to that of the army.
My lover quit his job in order to accompany the army. When he was in the army, his salary was higher, and there were unemployment subsidies for accompanying the army, spouse honors, free medical care and other benefits. Life was acceptable.
When he retired, all kinds of benefits were gone, and his salary was still half. How should he live this day?
I originally thought that I could choose when choosing a job It’s okay to get a good job, with a higher income and a better life.
But Lao Zhao is ranked relatively low, not only the money he chose is not only far from home, but Lao Zhao is full of confusion about the future.
For most military officers, retirement is an out of reach. After the military career is over, transferring to a job is undoubtedly the best choice to measure the pros and cons.
After transferring, someone may choose a job that he is satisfied with, like Lao Li, who actively transfers to a job, and everyone will be happy from then on.
Some people may be like Lao Zhao who has been passively transferred to a job, and is full of worries because they have not chosen to have a job that they are satisfied with, and their income cliffs.
But whether it is joy or sorrow, retirement from active service is a foregone conclusion. What can be done is to accept all this change and then follow it.
For example:
should change the concept
From the army to the local area, the living environment and working environment have changed. Maybe the working method that was used to in the army before will appear out of place, but in the department The behavior that the team cannot understand will be very common when they arrive at the local area.
The environment has changed, and the concepts must be changed. People cannot leave the army, and the thinking structure cannot be "connected" with the local area.
Although it is difficult to change the habits and concepts that have been developed for more than ten or even twenty years, if it is not changed, it will make the road under your feet extremely difficult.
should change the mindset
Many people say that the mindset is actually the mindset. It is normal for the mentality to fluctuate after the transformation of the business, but it is necessary to adjust in time. Only by adjusting the mentality can you better work and live in the local area.
First of all, you need to correct your mindset and have a big picture. Many times, there seems to be no opportunities, but there may be opportunities everywhere.
Secondly, you must have an empty cup mentality, dare to start from scratch, be proactive, and constantly improve your abilities and qualities, so as to have the ability to be invincible.
Transition is a hurdle.
Because of his resignation, he accumulated more than ten years of contacts and work experience in the army, and even more than twenty years of contacts and work experience must be cleared. When you arrive at the local area, everything must start from scratch, and the same is true for receiving retirement funds and demobilization month by month.
This is undoubtedly a great test for military-transferred cadres who have no age advantage and are not up or down.
But no matter what, it must be changed, because only by changing can we take the path after the career transformation.
Selection is the end of military career and the beginning of local life.
May all soldiers who turn around live their own lives and wonderful life after leaving the military camp and saying goodbye to the military.
May you be a young man after your life in war and return.
Source: Three Musketeers Official Account, thank you here!
