What will happen if there is you, your childhood sweetheart, and a person who comes from heaven in a relationship? "Love You for the First Time" tells you this: your childhood sweetheart chose the sky-dropping series, and when you lose your childhood sweetheart, your one also falls from the sky.
Childhood sweethearts, childhood sweethearts
The lover who fell from the sky
Fate is so wonderful, and love is so unpredictable.
In the eyes of outsiders, in the world of emotions, childhood sweethearts are lucky because they seem to have the upper hand. After all, if your heart belongs to someone, you can try to get into someone's heart long enough.
But precisely, childhood sweethearts have inherent loopholes when it comes to choosing emotional topics. The person you think is the chosen one may be just a playmate in his heart. What you think of as love may be just family affection or friendship to him.
For him, you may just be family or friendship.
Finally one day, a different scenery appeared around him.
The other party was in an emotional vacuum. You thought it was because he was still in love, but the two of them did not break the window paper.
What you think you have a chance is because you feel that you are the opposite sex closest to him. He didn't say he likes you, but he doesn't like anyone else either.
Do you think that when he turns around, he will only see you by your side, and then he will never leave you.
But finally one day, a different scenery appeared around him, and he fell. At this moment, you suddenly realize that you are not his true love.
Different scenery can also appear around you.
It doesn't mean that they have the fate of childhood sweethearts and childhood sweethearts, and the two of them can form a CP. Childhood sweethearts can be siblings, they can be siblings. As time accumulates, love develops over time, and what is born is not necessarily love. It can also be friendship or family affection.
Think about it, if two people who are childhood sweethearts are in love with each other, how can they be so coy and evasive emotionally? There is no pounding of the heart, which can only mean that such emotion is a steady stream of companionship and care.
The relationship between childhood sweethearts is nothing, and good feelings don’t need to be taken seriously. Think about it, during adolescence, that person was never moved by your innocence. In your youth, that person never favored you because of your maturity and stability. For a long time, without external temptation, neither of them could cook the rice. What does that mean? It means you are not his type.
The so-called soft spot is meeting the right person at the right time.
There is a saying that it is better to be happy at first acquaintance than to get tired of being together for a long time. That is to say, the joy of meeting each other in an instant is not as good as the joy of being together for a long time without boredom. But in love, the joy of first sight is often not worth the time that lasts for a long time. To fall in love with someone, you don’t need to spend a long time together. When you are in love, even if it is just a one-way relationship, the beating of your heart is already unusual.
The so-called soft spot is meeting the right person at the right time, nothing more than that. In the final analysis, Qingmei's companionship is no match for the man who descended from the sky, but they are just two people who have a deep love for each other.
[Wen Tianyao, conducts research and writing in the fields of emotion, marriage, psychology, and current affairs. He focuses on deconstructing human nature and the nature of things. He is a cross-border writer on emotion, humanities, and current affairs, and a senior publisher. He is the author of series of books such as "Sentimental Men and Women", "The Irregularity of Power", and "The Great Game". 】