The weather is getting colder. In this season when everyone longs for a "bed", some people actually refuse to go home. It's not that they can't go back, it's just that they don't want to.
Those wandering in big cities, how are you doing? When the lights are brightly lit, do you feel a little yearning for your hometown?
Under a bridge in a place in Fujian, a thinly dressed woman has lived here for several months. The girl has lived here from summer to winter, has no job and has never returned home. The woman's hometown is Shandong, and she traveled all the way to the south to pursue her online boyfriend.
The girl looked to be in her early 20s. The environment under the bridge she lived in was very shabby. In the summer, there were often rats and cockroaches scurrying around. The old garbage she picked up from nowhere was piled all over the floor. At first glance, it looked like a small garbage dump.
The girl is not a homeless girl without a home.
She also didn’t want to go to the rescue station.
is mentally normal and can communicate with others, but has temporarily lost hope in life.
Before coming to Fujian, she met a boy on the Internet. The two often chatted together, and they developed feelings after going back and forth. The girl gave him carefully edited photos. The boy thought that the appearance in the photos was the girl's original appearance, and made an appointment to meet him with all kinds of fantasies.
The online world is virtual after all. We tend to have unlimited expectations for unknown things, and we will also imagine the appearance of the other person. It is precisely because our expectations are too high that we become more disappointed in the end. At the moment when Ben appeared, when the young man saw the girl's appearance, he not only did not accept it, but rejected it on the spot, and the relationship ended without any problems.
After being rejected, the woman did not go home. Instead, she found an uninhabited bridge and put down the large and small bags she had brought one by one. Then she spent day after day here. It was summer when she arrived, and it was already late winter in a blink of an eye. Although the weather in Fujian was not as cold as in the north, it could not withstand the cold and humid air under the bridge.
Perhaps it was because she was heartbroken by being rejected by a boy, or because her beautiful dream of love was shattered. She was depressed, unwilling to communicate with others, and lived in her own little world. Seeing that her savings from her hometown were about to be used up, and she was about to be stretched thin, the girl was still unwilling to go home, as if she was hoping that the boy would take her back, waiting for a seemingly impossible dream.
"Girl, the weather is too cold. You should go home. There is no job suitable for you here, and there are no relatives to help you. What should you do after the New Year?"
Kind-hearted people passing by along the way often advise the girl to go home. After all, it is inconvenient to be alone outside, and they are afraid that she will be in danger, because there have been several times . He found that strange men often come to look for her every three days. It is difficult to distinguish between good and bad people. For a girl who has just entered society, they are really too dangerous.
Some people do it out of curiosity, while others have other unknown purposes. Fortunately, the girl has a bad temper and is very irritable to everyone. Others see her as ungrateful, so she gives up all kinds of ideas. She is not afraid of thieves, but is afraid of being remembered. Once she is targeted by bad people, it will be dangerous no matter what situation she is in.
A kind person bought a bus ticket for the girl and asked her to leave here as soon as possible. Maybe the persuasion worked, and she agreed. Later, the man who helped buy the ticket did not go under the bridge again, and I don’t know if the girl went home...
I believe that no one can bear to see a young woman surrender to herself. Good-hearted people know what it means to live here all the time. They have no job and no source of income. At an age when they should be working hard, they are living a peaceful life. Such days can be seen to the end at a glance.
Some people may say that there are too many girls like this and they cannot be managed at all. If they have not passed the rebellious period of youth and do not listen to their parents, how can they trust the advice of a stranger? Judging from my experience, she should be a child who lacks love.
The native family is not warm enough, and the parents give too little care, so that they go crazy for their online boyfriends. There are thousands of good men in the world, and there are many people who have failed in online dating. There is no need to fall for one person, not to mention that everything on the Internet can be faked. You can’t see through a screen. For ordinary people who are not outstanding in appearance, online dating is extremely easy to fall over. After all, looks fade easily, but interesting souls can last forever.
This girl is probably in love for the first time. She may experience many failures in her future life. She cannot face it in such a dejected way every time she is dumped. After all, there is not only love in life, but also other precious things that are worth waiting for.
She is still young now and cannot see through what true love is. A man who comes for your looks will eventually leave because he is tired of looking at your face. In this case, it’s okay not to let him go! Girl, you’d better go home as soon as possible!
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