I wonder if you have such a question. Although some people usually look gentle and gentle, they become like a different person, with a full of "swear words".

I wonder if you have such a question. Some people, although they usually look gentle and gentle, become like a different person every time they doi, full of "swear words" (dirtytalk). The huge contrast between

can't help but make people wonder: Do you pretend to be gentle in your usual manner?

1 Why do people swear when they like doi?

swear words, as the name suggests, are unclean words and do not conform to cultural and moral norms. Usually, we only swear when we are extremely angry.

If a person swears regardless of the occasion or the situation, then, there is no doubt that this is an uncivilized and unqualified behavior.

But in fact, will also swear when we are extremely excited . For example, when rolling off the bed sheet, two people will most likely swear when they reach the depths. Moreover, the more people swear, the more excited they become, and the more excited they are, the more they want to swear.

It's like, swear words are like beautiful musical melodies that match the dance of the two. The two complement each other, and there is no one to be at ease.

Then this will not increase the quality of character, and at best it is a unique "hobby". If one person likes to say it and the other party also happens to like to listen to it, then it can be called a small interest.

First of all, it must be clear that the swear words we are talking about here are not personal attacks or personality attacks. refers to a shameful language that can arouse the other party's lust.

In layman's terms, it means some inappropriate words with colors. As for what it is, I won’t show it, I will understand what I understand.

Famous psychology and Neuropsychology researcher Daryl Cioffi once concluded: "dirty talk" in doi is very enjoyable because it can activate relevant areas in your brain while your body is stimulated. And the more dirty the better."

In other words, our brain is the most "sexy" part of the body, and it is a more advanced "xing organ" than the genitals. It is the source of xing desire.

In doi, a proper amount of swearing can ignite the atmosphere, make people excited, fully mobilize people's emotions, and make them enter the atmosphere as soon as possible. Couples can't stop talking about dirty talk, which is determined by our subconscious mind.

A study published in the journal Hormone Research shows that when people cross these cultural taboos, the level of circulating testosterone secreted by the brain will increase significantly, and this increase in hormone levels usually reduces human anxiety and increases sexual desire.

The seductive "swear words" and moans in the ears are all processed by the auditory center of the brain, including the temporal lobe, frontal lobe and occipital lobe .

A 2012 study found that the more natural and open the sex talks about sex, the easier it is to get satisfaction in in sexual life. On the contrary, those who are ashamed to express themselves or are not confident enough in their sexual performance tend to have lower satisfaction in sexual life.

said "rough swear words" in a gentle tone, instantly igniting the fire of love between two people, making people want to listen more, listen more excitingly, and can't stop.

However, is not all "swear words" suitable for saying when you love, and you also need to pay attention to some skills to avoid some lightning points.

02 Make sure your relationship is close enough

Don’t think that because it is a couple or a husband-wife relationship, we can naturally ask each other for everything.

Before saying "swear words", make sure your relationship is close enough, whether the other party can accept , , or discuss with your partner first and get a vaccination.

Otherwise, it is easy to say "swear words" but attract the other party to be off guard, and his unruly little heart is also unable to place it because of the other party's embarrassment.

After all, people have different acceptance levels. For some people, swearing is equivalent to "insult". Therefore, both parties should directly communicate their feelings. If they cannot reach an agreement for the time being, they need to compromise, respect and take care of each other's feelings.

Otherwise, interest may become a breakup scene, which will be more than worth the loss.