My daughter is 26 years old this year. She has been graduating from university for three years and is also the third year of taking the postgraduate entrance examination.
During the past three years, the mother and daughter have gone from falling in love with each other to being tense. Now the most common situation at home is that she is so irritable and I am irritable. She closes the door every day and doesn’t come out at dinner time. Every time she comes out to make food by herself after I finish eating.
I don’t know why my good daughter, who has worked hard for so many years, has now become a dependent on her parents? !
When my daughter was very young, I divorced her father. I asked for progress, but her father was content with the current situation with a monthly salary of 2,000 yuan. I was mean and in the end the two of them always quarreled and separated.
My daughter is taken care of.
My daughter was very smart when she was a child, had good homework and loved painting. I asked her to teach her the most famous local training teacher and bought the best painting materials.
Later, the child was determined to take the art exam. I was a little confused, after all, my family has never been engaged in the art industry. But I couldn't resist her and kept insisting. I thought she would just follow her if she liked it.
Since high school, I have been looking for training institutions to provide professional courses, and went to Beijing to find teachers to train, and spent 200,000 yuan.
Later, she went to an ordinary provincial art school. She said she really didn't want to go through the college entrance examination anymore. She worked harder in the postgraduate entrance examination in the future and strived to take the exam for the Central Beauty.
I still haven’t persuaded her, so I can only prepare her for tens of thousands of tuition fees every year. I don’t know how she is studying. Anyway, she can tell that she can dress up and consume. Every time she goes on vacation, she buys a lot of clothes for me to pay for it.
Four years passed in a blink of an eye, and she also began to collect information about the postgraduate entrance examination. I took the postgraduate entrance examination in the first year and said I had no experience and had to explore the path first. I undoubtedly failed.
started to review at home in the second year, learning cultural courses and professional courses, and went to Beijing for training for several months. The previous month was quite self-disciplined. I got up on time every day and read books. Later, I gradually relaxed and needed to wake up. When I said to her, she said she wanted to combine with work and rest. As a result, I spent more than 100,000 yuan in the second year but still failed.
After failing the exam, I discussed with her whether to find a job first. She was very disgusted and thought that I didn’t support her and just thought about money. We had a big fight and she ignored me for several days.
I am really old and can’t argue with her. I can’t argue with her. Sometimes I get angry and have stomachache and have insomnia in the middle of the night.
I don’t think about my daughter’s anxiety at all. She doesn’t consider making money or finding employment. She depends on me for food, drinking, and defecation. But who will she rely on when I get old? !
The third year of postgraduate entrance examination failed again.
I tried to talk to her heart and tell her about my concerns. I don't know if she could listen, but there was no change in her actions anyway.
I am about to retire at the age of 55, but my daughter is still unreliable. She is healthy, young and strong, but she has always been obsessed with the postgraduate entrance examination. She is unwilling to find a job, and even refuses to go out to socialize. She stays at home every day, and I feel deeply powerless. #Winter Life Check-in Season# #Warm Winter Life Notes#
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