On the era of looking at faces
Modern people often sigh: This is an era of looking at faces! Is this really the case?
This "face" refers to a person's appearance and temperament, including from facial features to dressing. Because it represents a person's life state and attitude towards life. It has become a symbol and a way of existence for you to live in this world.
When you are in love, you must hope to give the other party a good impression so that you can continue to get along.
At work, your decent words and behavior may make your work performance more outstanding.
In life, maybe you will get along with people more perfectly.
Lu Yu said: No one said that this is not an era for looking at faces. The beauty of image and temperament may open a door for you, and then talent and ability will allow you to go further. In this society, appearance is of course very important! If you look at a person’s first face, you can’t tell your character or your talent. That may only look at your image and temperament. Therefore, people who are good-looking will always have some good luck, which is true. Just like applying for various jobs, if you are not good at appearance, you will be defeated in the first level. For example, flight attendants must train their image, temperament and etiquette very well in order to stand out at 100:10. Many industries are also like this. It is an indisputable fact that "look at your face" first.
It is undeniable that appearance will indeed have a certain impact on our lives, but it is also undesirable if you are just a person who pursues the beauty of appearance. Some people only focus on appearance and ignore inner pursuits, which will only bring emptiness and failure to themselves. People must work hard to enrich their souls in order to truly achieve perfect unity between the inside and the outside. The meaning of life must be related to the soul, and an interesting soul is the true meaning of human beings.
Premier Zhou Enlai has the handsomeness of the south and the heroic spirit of the north, combining delicateness and boldness. He is a representative of both the inside and the outside. His temperament and inner courage are recognized in the world. His temperament adds greater charm to his talent.
Everyone can exist in the proudest posture. When you are a person, don’t just have a good face, but you should also live out the connotation and demeanor that a person should have. If you want others to respect you, you must first respect others based on your temperament, cultivation, words and behaviors, and behaviors. This requires cultivating our spirit!
Someone also said: "A person's personality is written on his lips, and happiness is exposed in the corners of his eyes. Standing posture shows talent and demeanor, and gait shows self-awareness. There is a recent mood in his expression, and past years are between his eyebrows. Clothes show aesthetics, and hairstyles show personality. Professionalism looks at the hands, and cultivation looks at the feet." The views of
look a bit absolute, but they make sense.
Some people also say that when you are young, you are born with your appearance, but when you are middle-aged and old, you are given your appearance and temperament. I agree with this sentence very much.
Because, when a person reaches a certain age, his image will take you with the road you have walked, the books you have read, the people you have loved, the things you have experienced, and the tears you have shed. We can become more and more charming in this world through acquired efforts.
Because, if a person has a gentle temperament, he always smiles. When he gets old, the lines on his face are all kind and kind. If a person does not smile for a long time and his expression is rigid, the older he looks, the more he looks, the less friendly his facial contour is. This is what is called "appearance is born from the mind".
Good mental cultivation can make people's appearance more beautiful. The appearance can be created, but it cannot create temperament. The mind has a state of mind and a correct behavior is what people often say, "It is a natural beauty to be proud of poetry and calligraphy." Inner cultivation is spiritual appearance, a person's long-term cultivation. This level of cultivation determines a person's mental state. As one grows older, one's life state and lifestyle will become more and more unique.The older you get, the more you can fully reflect a person's various abilities and cultivation throughout his life!
So, this "face-looking era" is actually an era in which individuals must devote themselves to their cultivation!
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Ren Li , net name: Mi Lier, semi-realistic semi-romanticist, like poetry, novels, prose, etc.
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