Friend Xiaoyi has a deep understanding of this.
Recently, due to the blow of some things, Xiao Yi, who was always confident, fell into deep inferiority complex. She wanted to talk to Suyou, but was refuted by Suyou's catchphrase: "You are just pretentious, but there are too many things..." This sentence made her mood worse, so she silently chose to remain silent, pressed her heart, and secretly hid herself to wipe her tears. Later, her good friend came to see her from another city.
After the two of them had supper, they walked home. Xiaoyi complained about all the unhappiness with their good friends. The good friends listened carefully and nodded from time to time. After hearing her feelings, her good friend patted her on the shoulder and said that she had the same experience: at that time she felt that she was inferior to others everywhere, and she didn't even dare to deal with others...
A few words from her good friend made Xiaoyi feel depressed for a long time and comforted her.
After that night, Xiaoyi finally understood. No matter how much he talked to someone he didn’t understand, the other party could not understand and would only sarcastically.
When talking to people who understand, what you think in your heart, what you want to say but stop, the other party sees it and understands it in his heart.
Those who understand you will not ignore your sad face, will not be tired of your endless talk, and will not be perfunctory to your sincere confidant. " Those who know me say I am worried about , and those who don't know me say I want." That's what I say. In the days to come, you must say your heartfelt words to those who understand.
2 things, everyone can do clever things with down-to-earth people, but there are very few who can do things properly.
In life, there is no shortage of outstanding people, but most people are more willing to choose to work with down-to-earth people.
This is probably because people who are down-to-earth can always make people feel at ease.
There is an old carpenter who has worked as a carpenter for life. When he was old, he surrendered to his boss and returned home.
The boss thought that a customer was going to make an exquisite box, but there was not enough manpower recently, so he asked the old carpenter if he could finish it before leaving. The old carpenter thought of his wife's urging at home, and considered the boss's kindness to him, and after some confusion, he nodded and agreed. Because the date of returning home was delayed, the wife began to complain: "Hurry up and do it, go home early after it is done. Anyway, even if there is a problem, can he still chase him to his hometown to find us?" The old carpenter smiled and said firmly: Since you promised others, you must do it well. It took a full six months to do
. On the day when the old carpenter and his wife set off to return home, the boss took a big gift and went to the street to give it to him, and said gratefully: "It's so dangerous. I later learned that the wooden box made by the big guest was originally intended to be given to the prime minister. If it is not done well, it may cause death. I was also worried that you would be perfunctory because you were anxious to retire and return home. But then I thought about it, you have always been down-to-earth and steady, so I felt relieved. As expected, your production is as good as ever. Today I am here to thank you very much."
is not slacking off and not neglected. It is responsible for others and even more responsible for yourself.
" Journey to the West ", Zhu Bajie has won the love of countless viewers with his own stupidity.
However, in reality, if you choose to work with Zhu Bajie, you may have to worry.
is worried that he will fall in love with a beautiful woman and put the things he should do.
is worried that he will hide where he will eat and sleep in, which will delay the matter.
is worried that he will not follow the rules and will mess up the matter... No matter how capable a person is, he may cause a big fuss because of negligence and carelessness, and others need to make up for it continuously. A down-to-earth person, down-to-earth, and does his best to complete it no matter how small the matter is.
A down-to-earth person does things with care, enthusiasm and perseverance.
Work with down-to-earth people, reassuring, worry-free and comfortable.
3 Love, we should talk to kind people, whether it is for the person we just met or friends who have been together for many years, even if we give sincerity is not to get anything, we always hope that the other party can be affectionate and righteous. If you meet a kind and righteous person, no matter how passionate your heart is, it will become colder in the repeated damages of "I will be looking at the bright moon, but the bright moon shines on the ditch ". Talking about friendship and feelings with kind people will make people feel the truth, goodness and beauty of human nature, and the warmth and beauty of the world. Li Xuanti once helped Mei Lanfang get through the difficulties when he was infected with diphtheria. He was eager for love, but he never thought about how to repay him. Unexpectedly, things in the world were unpredictable. In his later years, Li Xuanti's wife and children were separated, his property was gone, and he had no support and lived in a small apartment.
is no longer glorious, and everyone avoids it for fear of being out of reach.
Only Mei Lanfang not only subsidizes him some living expenses every month, but also often sends his disciples to chat with Li Xuanti to relieve his boredom, and he also visits him whenever he has time. Until Li Xuanti was seriously ill, Mei Lanfang was standing in front of the bed, holding his hand tightly, and said emotionally: "Don't worry, leave the matter behind you to me!" Li Xuanti looked at him with tears in his eyes, nodded with relief, and then passed away safely. Two months later, Mei Lanfang passed away. Someone once lamented that if Mei Lanfang had passed away before Li Xuanti, Li Xuanti might not even have a person to die. After listening to it, it is both admirable and touching, and it cannot be calm for a long time. What made Mei Lanfang so good to Li Xuanti? It is kind,
is grateful because of kindness,
is grateful because of gratitude, so remember the goodness of others, and
is grateful because of remembering the goodness of others, and the heart is full of true feelings, so it will not let down any sincerity. In this life, people will meet all kinds of people, but the choice of who they spend their precious time will always be in their own hands. May we all spend our time on those worth it.
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