On the day Yin Zheng and Yuanying got married, Li Wei squatted in the yard and cried for a long time.
At that time, Li Wei and Yin Zheng confirmed their feelings to each other. Yin Zheng promised that there was only Li Wei's wife in this life, but he turned around and married the princess Yuanying of Jinchuan.
Xinchuan and Jinchuan consolidate the alliance relationship, and marriage is the easiest way.
In the drama "Qingqing Daily", the Lord of Jinchuan values Yin Zheng, the sixth young master of Xinchuan. Yin Zheng is smart and capable, and has a talent for governing the world. The Lord of Jinchuan calls for his daughter Yuanying to marry Yin Zheng.
In fact, Yuan Ying had already reached the age of marriage. The Jinchuan Lord left her at home and was reluctant to let go because the Jinchuan Lord regarded her daughter's marriage as a business.
Jinchuan main purpose is to choose a marriage partner who can maximize Jinchuan's interests, and Yuanying became a product he was waiting to sell.
Yin Zheng is just a concubine son with unstable foundation. He has no qualifications to resist the order and refuse marriage. Yuanying also cannot resist his father's arrangement. The two were forced to become husband and wife, and they were both resentful.
At the wedding night, Yuanying directly confronted Yin Zheng. She did not agree with such a marriage. She would do her best to help Yin Zheng consolidate her position. When Yin Zheng sat firmly in the court, she would let her go.
Yuanying also promised to teach Li Wei well and train Li Wei to become a wife who can stand alone. Not only that, Yuanying also wishes Yin Zheng and Li Wei a loving and happy life.
Yuanying's frankness made Yin Zheng and Li Wei feel relieved. Yuanying easily took charge of the inner courtyard. She had strong management skills. Yin Zheng respected her, and Li Wei also admired her. The three of them quickly became a family.
Yuanying and Yin Zheng are in name but not real. Yuanying is more like Yin Zheng and Li Wei’s teachers. Under Yuanying’s supervision, Li Wei made obvious progress.
Li Wei gradually became a strong sense of dependence on Yuanying.
Yuan Ying became a very important part of Yin Zheng and Li Wei's life, but Yuan Ying proposed to "get apart" with Yin Zheng and leave Xinchuan and return to Jinchuan.
Li Wei couldn't bear to leave Yuanying, but she knew that Yuanying should not be trapped in a loveless and sexually union marriage, and Yuanying should be free.
Li Wei sent Yuanying away with tears in her eyes. Yuanying ended her marriage with Yin Zheng and became a female official in Jinchuan. Yuanying finally lived the life she wanted.
"Qingqing Daily" Yuan Ying was very sober from beginning to end. She did not intervene in the relationship between Yin Zheng and Li Wei, and was not assimilated by the idea of male superiority and female inferiority. Behind her "harmony" with Yin Zheng, there was a good intention that Li Wei could not imagine.
1. Persistence in the original intention of "doing a career"
Compared to the love between children, Yuanying prefers a sense of accomplishment in his career.
Yuanying has management skills and a first-class accounting level. Whether it is managing Yin Zheng's inner house or the accountant who works in the restaurant behind, Yuanying has done a great job.
Yuanying dreamed of becoming a female official since she was a child, but her father favored boys over girls and did not allow her to participate in court affairs. She only regarded her as a tool for marriage.
Even though she was forced to marry into Xinchuan, Yuanying did not give up her life plan. She tried her best to assist Yin Zheng and became ally with Yin Zheng. She gave Yin Zheng advice, and Yin Zheng provided her with a platform to display her talents.
Yuanying can also have a place to stand in Xinchuan, but this small world cannot satisfy Yuanying's ambitions. Yuanying wants to work hard on his own, rather than relying on the title of Mrs. Yin Zheng.
As long as Yuan Ying stays in Xinchuan, she will always be Yin Zheng’s wife, the sixth young lady of Xinchuan, not her complete self.
Yuanying is excellent enough, but Jinchuan's power is handed over to Yuanying's younger brother Yuan Xu. Yuan Xu is incompetent and ridiculous, and he is a prodigal son, but Yuan Xu is the legitimate son, and he has an advantage over Yuan Ying since he was born.
Yuan Ying couldn't bear to see Jin Chuan defeated by Yuan Xu. She insisted on "separating" with Yin Zheng and returned to Jin Chuan to be a female official, with her compassion for the people of the world.
2. The fulfillment of the love between Li Wei and Yin Zheng
Yuanying made up his mind to leave and recognized this opportunity because she saw the most loving side of Li Wei and Yin Zheng.
Li Wei and Yin Zheng take care of Hao Jia's daughter. The picture is warm and beautiful, like an ordinary family of three. Yuanying deeply felt her "redundant" when she saw this scene.
Yuanying has been restrained and calm since the day she got married. She has never thought about Yin Zheng, even though Yin Zheng is handsome, has outstanding character and talent.
Yuanying took the initiative to keep the boundaries with Yin Zheng. Her fulfillment to Li Wei and Yin Zheng hid her greatest kindness.
No matter how strong a woman is, she will long for the happiness of her marriage. Everyone hopes that there is someone who knows the cold and the hot side. Yin Zheng and Yuanying have a tacit understanding. They have common pursuits and do not coincide with their views on many things.
If it weren't for Li Wei, Yuanying might have become a real couple with Yin Zheng, but it is precisely with Li Wei's existence that Yuanying would not have taken that step.
Yuanying stayed alone in the empty room after marriage. Looking at the sweetness of Yin Zheng and Li Wei, Yuanying felt envy and appreciation in her heart, but not jealousy.
Before Yuanying got married, he had heard that Yin Zheng had a side room named Li Wei. Yuanying knew her situation and was treated as a pawn for marriage. She was not favored by her husband, but was afraid of her side room.
So on the night of the wedding, Yuanying spoke first before Yin Zheng and said that the two were just cooperative relationships. Yuanying took the initiative to avoid causing humiliation and gave Yin Zheng a reassurance.
Yin Zheng and Yuanying got married. Li Wei was very injured and wanted to go back to her hometown. Yuanying took the initiative to find Li Wei, told Li Wei all her plans, and patiently persuaded Li Wei:
"If a person has a mouth, he must explain the misunderstanding clearly; if he has ears, he must listen to others' arguments. Don't choose to escape problems because of pretentiousness or fear of facing them, and waste time."
At that time, Li Wei was young and ignorant, and would only cry and escape when encountering difficulties, but Yuanying taught her to take the initiative to face them. Her selfless love for Li Wei is the reason why Li Wei treats her as her family.
Ke, no matter how much Yuanying avoids suspicion, she is Yin Zheng's wife. She is not qualified to attend the palace family banquet. Li Wei can only watch Yuanying and Yin Zheng go out with grievance.
The existence of Yuanying is a "obstacle" in Li Wei and Yin Zheng's marriage. Love cannot tolerate a third person. Only when Yuan Ying withdraws can Li Wei be promoted.
In fact, with Yuanying's strength, if she really wants to make things difficult for Li Wei, Li Wei will definitely not be her opponent, but Yuanying didn't do that. Yuanying disdains to go to "female competition". She regards herself as a "sir", which is self-esteem and self-love, and also compassion and kindness.
3. Accuse of men and women
Yuanying's parents have been very strict with her since childhood, and Yuanying has always demanded herself to high standards.
Yuan Ying loved to eat crabs when she was a child. Her parents didn't let her eat more, so she could only eat one at a time. Yuan Ying said:
"It's not a crab, but self-control."
Yuan Ying did not dare to relax for a moment. She insisted on reading the account book when she was sick, and even flying a kite was very strict.
Li Wei cut her kite string and let the kite float away freely. Yuan Ying realized that she was just like that kite. If she could not escape the control of the string, she would never fly high or far.
What imprisoned Yuanying was not a marriage without love or sex, but a thought of male superiority and female inferiority.
Yuanying, who even needs to be restrained in eating and sleeping, lives a very depressing life. She is not angry and powerful, and looks very serious. In fact, she also longs to be cared for and taken care of.
Women live in rules and regulations and will inevitably be restrained. Li Wei's innocence has also infected Yuanying. Yuanying, who is used to fighting alone, has learned to show weakness in Li Wei.
Li Wei and Yuanying share the burden with each other and make up for each other. Instead of fighting openly and secretly for a man, the two women have made a better self.
Li Wei pursues monogamy, Yuanying believes that women can also develop their careers, and both women have their own persistence in the matter of "equality".
Jinchuan Lord asked Yuanying to be a virtuous and stable female relative, but he valued Yuanxu who was not talented and virtuous. Yuanying took Yin Zheng back to Jinchuan and announced the "harmony" between the two, and Jinchuan Lord was furious.
The master of Jinchuan disagrees with Yuanying's divorce. First, he is afraid that the relationship between Jinchuan and Xinchuan will be unsolicited, which will affect the alliance between the two Sichuans; second, a divorce for a woman is not a glorious thing in Jinchuan. A woman has a low status and it is difficult to have a good way out after divorce.
Yin Zheng promised Jinchuan that Jinchuan would be exempted from overdue taxes. Xinchuan and Jinchuan are allies. Yuanying also said to his parents:
"Yin Zheng and I have a tacit understanding of being allies, but we can't be husband and wife. There is no husband-wife relationship between me and him, and he treats me the same."
Marriage that has no feelings but barely maintained is just a cage. Women should not only have the same way of getting married. Whether men or women, their destiny should be in their own hands. The kite string is involved by others, and they can only become an accessory to others.
Only when people are independent and persistent, constantly improve and enrich themselves can they have the opportunity to realize their own value.
Yuanying planned Jinchuan's reform plan and wrote a note that the master of Jinchuan knew how outstanding Yuanying was.
Yuansequence is far inferior to Yuanying. Yuansequence makes market a mess. The suggestions put forward in Yuanying's remarks are not only reasonable, but also valuable, which makes Jinchuan master's eyes shine.
Yuanxu relies on his identity as a legitimate son, so he does not want to make progress. Yuanying is doing practical things every day. It is inevitable that there is a gap between Yuanxu and Yuanying.
Gender should not be the only criterion for judging a person's ability. Jinchuanzhu finally let go and agreed to "get apart" by Yuanying and Yin Zheng, making Yuanying the female official she had always dreamed of.
Li Wei said goodbye to Yuanying and took away the "Women's Commandment" on Yuanying's table, which also represents that Yuanying broke free from the shackles and started a new life.
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" Qingqing Daily ", Yuanying once said to Li Wei:
"I haven't given up on fighting. You two are affectionate, do you still want to bow your head and accept your fate?"
The most rare thing about Yuanying is that she did not succumb to fate, did not compromise because she was a woman. She chose to fight clearly and used her strength to fight for herself.
Yuanying is honest and upright, she is kind enough and righteous enough.
Whether it is Yin Zheng or Li Wei, it is a blessing to meet Yuan Ying. It is precisely because of Yuan Ying's fulfillment that Yin Zheng can fulfill his promise to Li Wei, "You are the only wife."