Introduction:
Nowadays, many young people study hard just to find a good job in the future. However, the facts have proved that some people do not have a high education and can still make money with their own hands. Of course, if you want a high income, you must pay high. High salary is not that easy to get. For example, a full-time nanny. Although you can get a salary of 6,000 or 7,000 yuan a month, only I know the sadness behind it.
Full-time nanny pays higher than ordinary nanny because full-time nanny needs to be on standby 24 hours a day. People who hire nanny are generally older. In addition to taking care of the elderly’s diet and daily life, they also need to pay attention to the employer’s mood. If the employer is in a bad mood, the nanny may also act as a punching bag. There are also some special employers, such as those who have lost their ability to take care of themselves. The nanny needs to put in more energy, bear greater responsibilities, and naturally the salary is higher.
The rise of residential nannies has also made this industry more professional. Today's nannies not only require age and physical condition, but also participate in professional training. To put it bluntly, as long as they are healthy, willing to endure hardships, and are willing to give up their pride. Even if they don't have an education, they can make money with their own hard-working hands.
But there is also unknown sadness behind this job. Some employers do not know how to respect nannies and drink with them. They are just treating nannies as current people. It is really like a year to serve them at home like this. 45-year-old sister Zhao sighed: "I put down my dignity and became a full-time nanny. Although I can receive a high salary of 6,000 yuan a month, I must always be vigilant."
What's going on? Let's look down together.
45-year-old sister Zhao's self-report:
My name is Zhao Shuxin, I am 45 years old this year, and I am a nanny in the house. To be honest, if the family’s financial situation is not good, who would have been willing to give up their dignity and serve others? I have no choice but to do this business, and I have to start with when I was young.
In the past, my family was quite a well-off family. Although it was not a wealthy family, it was much better than the people in the same village. When I was talking about marriage, my relatives introduced me to a neighboring village. His family was from an average family but handsome. I was attracted by his appearance at that time. During the relationship, he was also very good to me. I was very satisfied with him, but I still had concerns about his financial conditions.
He had a sweet mouth and promised that he would let me live a good life. I was too young at that time and didn’t understand the sinister social situation. I took everything he said seriously, so after half a year of love, we started a family.
After marriage, he was very motivated and packed dozens of acres of fields at home to grow vegetables. Our little life gradually became prosperous. During this period, I also gave birth to a son and a daughter. I naively thought that my choice was right. This man was worthy of my life, but unexpectedly, an accident came quietly, and a snow disaster turned everything we had into a bubble.
Because of this natural disaster, we lost a lot of money, and he was in a slump. Although I have always encouraged him to make a comeback, he is like a mud that cannot be supported by the wall. He does nothing at home and goes out with a group of friends to relieve his sorrows. Not only that, every time he drinks too much, he will quarrel with me after he comes back. If I dare to fight back, he will be beaten and kicked.
I really couldn't stand this kind of life, so I divorced him. Because he beat someone, the custody of my two children belonged to me. In order to support my two children, I had to find a high-paying job. I handed over the two children to my mother and then went to the city to find a job.
Because I have no education, I can only enter the factory. I work for ten hours a day and I feel so tired that I can't breathe. Although I have food and accommodation, my salary is only 3,000 yuan, which is definitely not enough for me to support my two children, but because of my limited ability, I can only earn some hard money in the factory.
Transfer is that phone call. A relative of mine called and said that their company urgently needed a nanny and asked me if there was a suitable person. After I asked, I found out that this relative had been working as a full-time nanny for four or five years, and his monthly salary was very high. Moreover, this industry is very popular now and has always been short of people. I became interested when I heard this and said that I wanted to work with her.
So I quit my job in the factory and went to a relative's city. After a month of training, I finally got on the job. But because I have no work experience, my monthly salary is only 5,000 yuan, but I am already very content. After all, being a nanny not only includes food and accommodation, but also much higher than my salary in the factory. Being a nanny is much easier than being in the factory. Apart from cooking and cleaning, I can at least sit and rest for the rest of the time, but in the factory, I stand all day and my legs can stand numb.
Later, I worked for a long time, and the supervisor recognized me because although I am not well educated, I am very sincere and never cheated. As long as I am at the employer's house, I will definitely serve you well. Even if the employer makes some excessive requests, I will try my best to satisfy them. I remember an employer asked me to wash his feet, and I agreed without saying a word.
I know that money is not easy to make now. If you want to make money, you have to abandon your face and dignity. For the sake of the two college students at home, I must be willing to sacrifice.
Supervisor recognized me very much, so he arranged for me an employer with higher wages. My salary also rose. Now I have been a nanny for almost eight years. I have met an employer of 100 or 80. Most of these employers are very qualified and not all of them are nouveau riche as they say online. Most of them are very polite and have no airs. Although they live in big houses, they never look down on nanny. Some employers even become friends with me. We left contact information to each other and sent blessing text messages during the holidays.
Of course, I have worked for so long and have met too many employers, so I will inevitably encounter strange things in the middle. I have a good temper and I will not say bad things to an employer who is not too overdoing, but some employers are really overdoing their actions. Until now, I cannot forgive me. For example, the employer named Wang I serve is really impressive.
The employer is a 70-year-old man. Out of politeness, I usually call him Brother Wang. Brother Wang has good financial conditions. Not only does he live in a big house, but he also has a lot of savings. I heard that he has two storefront houses. He probably has ten thousand yuan every month just collects rent. He is really not short of money, but such a rich person also has his own worries.
His wife has passed away for more than ten years. In order to give her son a good impression, Brother Wang has never looked for her again. Every time his son asked him to find another wife, he said in a noble way that he was used to it alone and did not want to find a wife. His son is also a rough man. Although he is a boss in a big city and is a successful person, he cares very little about Brother Wang and does not understand his father's true thoughts at all.
Before, Brother Wang was in good health, so he lived alone. Until he was older and his physical condition was not as good as before, he wanted to find a nanny to serve him. When I went to Mr. Wang's house, our supervisor explained to me that it was difficult for this employer to serve him. He had fired the nanny several times. Let me pay attention.
I wonder how difficult it is to serve an elderly person? When I went there, I knew the reason.
I went to work on the first day, and Brother Wang was like a meeting with his subordinates. He told me that when he arrived here, he had the final say in everything at home. The nanny was not allowed to complain. He told me to go east and I would never go north. As long as I work hard here and don’t cheat, he will pay me according to my performance level. If he performs very well, he will also give me a big red envelope.
Brother Wang’s words made me very excited because I used to work so hard to take care of paralyzed elderly people, and the maximum salary was only 5,000 yuan. Brother Wang was willing to give me a salary of 6,000 yuan, and also included food and accommodation, and gave me 4 days off every month. I was really happy and immediately said that I would definitely perform well.
Brother Wang was very satisfied with my attitude. He asked me to sign the contract. I was not very careful. I was just happy at the time. But I didn’t expect that my signature would be a three-year contract.
I work very hard at Brother Wang’s home. After all, Brother Wang has the ability to take care of himself and is willing to give me such a high salary. I definitely can’t be perfunctory and must do my best. In order to give Brother Wang a good impression, I stay at home to take care of him on holidays. I think as long as I take care of him seriously, he will be grateful.
About three months later, Brother Wang and I were already familiar with each other. His son would send him a lot of nutritional supplements, and he would ask me to choose what I like first. When we go shopping, he would buy me a bag or something. I am very puzzled about this, why is Brother Wang so enthusiastic about me? I kept rejecting his gifts, but he said that if I didn't accept him, I would be angry, so I could only accept these gifts barely.
Half a year later, I realized something was wrong. I suspected that Brother Wang had feelings for me. He could wash his hair by himself in the past, but over time, he insisted that I massage and wash his hair, which made me feel incredible. I did help my employer wash his hair and even wash his feet before, but that was because the employer lost the ability to take care of himself. But Brother Wang was in good health, so why did he make such a request? I felt a warning in my heart and became alert to Brother Wang.
A year later, Brother Wang invited me to go to the park to dance social dance . He said he has no dance partner now, but he likes dancing, so he wants me to accompany him. I agreed, but unexpectedly, many dancers misunderstood our relationship. I kept explaining that we were just nanny and employer, but Brother Wang seemed very happy and held my hand, smiling and not explaining. I felt very uncomfortable at the time. Brother Wang was so many years older than me, and having an affair with him was not good for my reputation, so I started to be wary of him at all times. During the period, I had thought about resigning, but the contract I signed was for three years. If I breached the contract, I would lose money. So in the following days, I became cautious and did not dare to get too close to Brother Wang. I even began to be wary of him, for fear that he would do excessive actions. I finally understood that there is no free lunch in the world. Such a high salary must have unknown services. It’s all my fault that I was blinded by money, so I had this humiliating memory.
What do you think is the general salary of a full-time nanny now? Welcome to leave a comment and express your opinion.
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