When it comes to Cao Ge, the one who impressed him the most is not only his musical talent, but also his lovely children. Especially his daughter, "sister" Cao Huaen, is very popular because of the variety show "Where Are We Going, Dad".
However, just now, Cao Ge’s wife Wu Suling posted a document to officially announce the divorce: We have ended our 14-year marriage! In the whole long article, Wu Suling reviewed the 14-year marriage and emotional journey with Cao Ge. The lines were filled with regret, but she also saw her firm attitude towards divorce: she could no longer bear it, just end it!
Originally, Cao Ge and Wu Suling also had a very beautiful past. They had children, and the two children were well-behaved, cute and sensible. Especially the eldest son inherited his father's musical cells and was very talented in musical instruments. I think there is a lot to do if I want to cultivate them well.
It’s a pity that the two finally came to the “ivory marriage”, but in fact, both the two and the outside world know that their marriage has long been full of problems.
Just a month ago, Wu Suling posted a message to respond to the marriage change, admitting that her marriage relationship with Cao Ge was exhausted. The huge pressure was so stressful that I wanted to leave resolutely, but there were too many things I couldn't let go.
In the end, Wu Suling sighed that she was busy with work, so she had no time to take care of other things and temporarily escaped from marriage.
From the text at that time, we can see that Wu Suling was exhausted both physically and mentally, and she had the meaning of being completely disappointed. It’s just for the sake of the children and the slightest expectation of marriage, so I choose to use work to numb my heart and escape the current situation where it is difficult to make a choice.
And the reason why Wu Suling endured again and again was because of Cao Ge's promises again and again!
As we all know, Gorge likes to drink the most and even often drinks heavily. This all goes back to before he became famous. At that time, Cao Ge was not met with talent and gradually emerged after he developed in Wanwan. But after Gary Gar became famous, news about drinking and causing trouble broke out one after another.
smashed the signboard of a hotel, fought with Side Field, and made a big fuss at Jimmy Lin’s wedding! Along the way, Gorge has caused too many scandals due to alcoholism. Wu Suling has also endured her husband's bad habits again and again, and also believed in his promises and believed that he sincerely apologized and guaranteed at press conferences every time.
It’s a pity that Wu Suling gave Cao Ge too many opportunities, but Cao Ge used practical actions to smash his wife’s trust and tolerance. This is also the "odictation" of Wu Suling's disheartened public release last time. For Cao Ge, his wife's forgiveness became an excuse for him to constantly indulge his bad habits.
Although Gorge loves alcoholism, it is related to his unfortunate experience in youth, to his difficult journey in music, and to his loss of four relatives. But Gauge, who suffers from bipolar disorder, cannot ask his wife for his understanding again and again when he is sick.
It is indeed pitiful for bipolar disorder, but has Gorge ever considered the feelings of his wife and children whenever he drinks and causes trouble? He always lets his wife and daughter tolerate him, but as a celebrity public figure, he has no self-control and cannot even quit drinking. After public apology again and again, he resurfaced his old ways.
No wonder Wu Suling finally saved enough and left! Unable to bear it, she mustered up the courage to cut off everything and bravely ended her marriage with Gorge, even if she had been hand in hand for 14 years, even if she had already had a pair of children.
In fact, Cao Ge knew very well that he could not drink too much. He once hinted to Huang Lei in "Where Are We Going, Dad" that if he drinks too much, he will become a "Hulk". But he did not wake up from this, but instead catalyzed the current ending with his own hands.
In fact, if we look carefully at Wu Suling’s divorce statement, we will find that her last point mentioned is: "Let your child grow up healthily and freely"!
This is the fundamental reason why Wu Suling cuts off the relationship at all costs! At first, Wu Suling was worried about whether to divorce. She was actually constantly enduring, but in the end she still considered the growth environment of her children and the atmosphere of her original family.
Therefore, not allowing children to continue living with their father who loves alcoholism and violence and is prone to losing control of their emotions is a difficult decision that Wu Suling must make after learning from her mistakes. Compared to giving your children a home and maintaining the so-called perfection and decency, it is better to divorce to give your children a better and quieter growth environment.
Especially Wu Suling considers the impact of her son's growth, she cannot let Cao Ge, who has made repeated mistakes and is uncorrectable and uncontrollable mistakes, affecting Cao Sanfeng's character development. In addition, Cao Huaen is a daughter, and he should have positive guidance and care from his father.
Poor mothers' hearts, Cao Ge does not cherish the beautiful life of both children, and the future growth of the child will be protected by Wu Suling. I wish Wu Suling to get rid of her irresponsible husband and let Cao Ge completely bear the consequences for his repeated repentance.
Forgot to say something, Cao Ge is also a Cancer, just like Wang Xiaofei.