Hot " Freeland Sword " on the surface looks like a sad love story, but in fact there are many psychological mysteries hidden in it.
Each main character grew up in a different original family, has different early experiences, and their different inner feelings and understandings of their original family, and these are closely related to their subsequent life experiences.
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Dongfang Qingcang
Dongfang Qingcang is the moon master of the demon world.
In order to refine karma fire, his father was cruel to let him suffer terrible torture, and turned into an existence without any emotion, and finally refine karma fire.
He hated his father very much,
When his father learned that he was gifted and was the only candidate to refine employment fire, his father said, "Why are you?"
His interpretation at that time was that his father was biased and did not regard himself as his child, denying that he had the qualification to refine employment fire;
He also thought that his father was cruel and ruthless, regardless of his life or death, forcing him to refine karma fire.
So, he did not recognize this father and finally killed his father without any regrets or pain.
Later, Xiao Lanhua did not believe that the truth was, and restored his father's soul.
Only then did he realize that his father said, "Why are you?" because he couldn't bear to bear the torture of Dongfang Qingcang's karma fire.
Later, he had no choice but to invade the heavens. In order to protect their people and assume the responsibility of Yuezun, he had to let Dongfang Qingcang practice karma fire.
At the last moment, his father sacrificed his life and let Dongfang Qingcang kill himself, just to let Dongfang Qingcang suffer less and truly unleash his love.
When Dongfang Qingcang finally realized that his father did not look down on him, was not biased, and did not use him as a tool to unify the ambition of the three realms, he completely understood his father's painstaking efforts.
So, when his father's soul wanted him to kill him again, he would rather endure the heart-wrenching pain of killing his father, risking his love to rekindle his career, and keep the good memories of his childhood father accompanying him.
We will see that
Dongfang Qingcang was happy before practicing the fire of karma, and he had the company and care of his son by an ordinary father. His personality was kind and loving.
Therefore, even though he later exaggerated love and refined employment fire, he could still under the influence of the selfless love of the little orchid.
produced a possessive love for the little orchid that was different from ordinary love, but produced a selfless love that sacrificed himself for his lover, and finally cultivated a glass fire that can only be controlled by those with great love and compassion.
Reviewing the experience of Dongfang Qingcang, we will find that A person who has love inside when he grew up must have been loved when he was a child. When he was a child, his father's love was injected into his heart, and he had the ability to love others.
Dongfang Qingcang's relationship with his father later broke down because his father did not make everything well with him, but he arranged everything for him with self-righteousness, including asking Dongfang Qingcang to kill him. He had no explanation or explanation.
In addition, Dongfang Qingcang did not choose to trust his father like Xiaolanhua, but instead put his father in a cruel and incorruptible position to interpret him.
Similarly, some of our feelings and understanding of 's native family may also be due to similar misunderstandings, and the root of the misunderstanding is that we do not communicate well and understand well, but think that what we feel and think is the fact itself.
We can assume that if Dongfang Qingcang's father could communicate well with him, he would show that he could not bear to let him practice karma from his father's perspective, but from the leader's perspective, he had to let him go and he could hand over the power of the final choice to him.
We can predict that Dongfang Qingcang will eventually choose to practice magic skills, but he no longer practices with "hate and ruthlessness", but with "love and responsibility".
Conversely, if Dongfang Qingcang was willing to choose to believe his father like Xiaolanhua, and believe that no matter how his father treats him, he will be good for himself, then he will not have resentment in his heart for so many years.
For native families, if we choose to believe, choose to understand, choose to understand, choose to reconcile, our feelings and understanding of the original family may have a different picture.
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Little Orchid
The real identity of Little Orchid is the goddess of Xishan.
When she was a child, she had a happy life and was loved by her parents.
Later, because Rong Hao wanted to use the life of the Goddess of Xishan to save his master, her parents and the people of the tribe tried their best to seal her, turning her into an ordinary orchid seed.
Finally, all the people of the tribe sacrificed their lives to protect her.
The Xilan clan has guarded the evil god Tai Sui for generations. They have always been the representative of extremely kindness and have the powerful power of a goddess, which can heal all things and tolerate everything, and have generations only to protect the people.
Little Orchid, even though she knew that it was just an ordinary little orchid, when the fairies were in a dilemma, she still stood up to rescue them, showing the family tradition of the Xilan clan protecting the people.
family will have the motivation to pass on generations.
intergenerational inheritance simply means that the model or unfinished mission of the entire family will be passed on from generation to generation, and this inheritance takes place in the subconscious.
Therefore, even if Xiaolanhua does not know her true identity, she can still show her family mission to protect the people.
Xiaolan also inherited her family's The extremely kind character . She committed suicide with the Chengying Sword, and the 100,000 soldiers of the Moon Clan were instantly unblocked, and the sentient beings who died in battle between the immortals and the Moon Clan were also resurrected. This is a manifestation of her love for all living beings.
When the evil Tai Sui occupied the golden body of Dongfang Qingcang and all sentient beings gave up to attack him, only Xiaolanhua still believed that Dongfang Qingcang was still there, so she went alone to awaken Dongfang Qingcang, which was her love for someone.
Happy again and again, she would rather sacrifice herself than choose to trust Dongfang Qingcang, rescue him, and turn Dongfang Qingcang from a fearless devil to a compassionate person with great love and a fire of light.
This is like her parents and tribe members who sacrificed their lives to protect her.
intergenerational inheritance is like this that it affects us silently and guides us.
written at the end
Finally I want to talk about The impact of my family on me .
My grandfather is a ferryman on the stream, sending the villagers from one side to the other;
My father is a documentary in the village. He helped the villagers issue certificate stamps and sent the villagers from the village to the town to do business.
And I am a psychological counselor. I have never thought about what relationship my profession has to do with my grandfather, father and others.
One day, when I was analyzing my family genealogy, I suddenly found that the prototype of the "ferryman" in my family was passed down from generation to generation!
My grandfather is the "ferryman" of the stream, my father is the "ferryman" of the message, and I am the "ferryman" of the soul, sending visitors from this shore of pain to the other side of freedom.
With this article, I want to tell you that
native family and intergenerational inheritance will affect us, but it does not necessarily reappear.
As long as we explore the original family more with awareness and awareness, and link our own family more, we can not only become the proud children in the family, but also our unique selves!
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Author: Zheng Binjing Master of Psychology, South China Normal University National Secondary Psychological Counselor, Marriage and Family Therapist Shen Jiahong Psychological Resident Psychological Counselor engaged in front-line psychological counseling for 8 years Welcome to scan the code and make an appointment for psychological counseling Editing | Su Jian Pictures | Source network
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