"The value of life is determined by oneself." - Rousseau
How wonderful can a person's life be? How many choices can you have in life? Some people envy the lives of actors because they can perform different lives in the play.
However, movies or TV series, after all, there is less real feeling.
Wei Huixiao
However, there are really people who interpret life more wonderfully than movies, which makes people sigh: "It turns out that life can really be so colorful!" is not the kind of "everything is easy and everything is relaxed", but it is really rewarded with the greatest enthusiasm and wholehearted dedication in every life experience.
Live your life as you dream of, which is something most people have never imagined. However, too few people will turn their ideas into actions and then persist in them for a long time.
Wei Huixiao did it, so her life is fulfilling and meaningful every day.
When it comes to Wei Huixiao, many people may be a little confused. So, what if we talk about the first female deputy captain of the Chinese Navy?
The slogan "Women can hold half the sky" is sneering, but Wei Huixiao proved with her actions that gender has never been an excuse for a person to follow the trend.
This legendary woman who joined the army at the age of 34 and grew up as an intern captain in just 6 years. Her previous life experiences were amazing.
Some people think this is an exaggeration, but every stage of Wei Huixiao's life experience is shining and admirable.
Exploration of self-worth
In December 1977, Wei Huixiao was born in Baise, Guangxi. She is a genuine Zhuang girl. Wei Huixiao's grades have always been very good, and she is not as dull as many people have a good impression of stereotypes and only knows how to learn.
Wei Huixiao was very cheerful. Her junior high school classmate Li Bo once recalled the little things he had when he was in school and said: "There were three sisters in the class that year, and Wei Huixiao was one of them. "
However, this did not affect Wei Huixia's academic performance, and also made her have excellent popularity in school.
Even Wei Huixiao's junior high school teacher Huang Qichuan once commented on her like this: "She is a girl like the wind", "She is outstanding in all aspects, and I hope her life will always be wonderful."
Wei Huixiao
Yes, who would not like a girl with good learning, good personality, and even good looks?
When applying for the college entrance examination, Wei Huixiao chose to fill in the famous military academy - National University of Defense Technology without hesitation.
The reason for becoming a soldier was that after Wei Huixiao participated in the radio direction finding training in junior high school, she became interested in becoming a soldier.
Before this, Wei Huixiao felt that she would never join the army and become a soldier in her entire life because she felt that she did not have the courage that a soldier should have, so she should not join the army.
However, after training, She suddenly felt that becoming a soldier was a glorious and meaningful thing.
Unfortunately, she did not meet the conditions for being recruited that year, so she could only miss it. Therefore, Wei Huixiao made adjustments in terms of volunteers and became a student in the atmospheric science major of Nanjing University.
During his time at school, Wei Huixiao was also the captain of the etiquette team, which felt a bit like the ambassador of Nanjing University’s external image.
fluent English speaking expression and good image were awarded the "Honorary Doctor" degree by former US President Bush in October 1998. Wei Huixiao presented flowers to Bush.
After Wei Huixiao graduated in 2000, she joined Huawei in Shenzhen and served as the company's senior president secretary and administrative assistant . If you want to do it, you must do it well. Her serious and conscientious attitude at work allowed her to win the company's title of "Golden Individual".
worked for 4 years, and Wei Huixiao's annual salary has exceeded one million. If she continues, Wei Huixiao's career will definitely go to a higher level, but she suddenly turned around.
In 2004, she had worked for more than four years, and was admitted to the master's degree in the Department of Earth Sciences, CUHK, with the absolute advantage of being the first place.
This major is exactly the major that Wei Huixiao wanted to apply for when she was in college. Now, she has finally entered this field.
The reason why I chose this major when I was in graduate school was because of the dissuasion of high school teachers. Earth science is too unpopular, and "unemployment after graduation" is not just a saying.
The teacher doesn’t want to see excellent students, but has no way to find a job, so the teacher kindly advises her not to deviate from reality.
, and Wei Huixiao finally returned to Earth Science. During her graduate school, Wei Huixiao did not choose to study hard or study hard, but made another choice.
Between August 2005 and July 2006, Wei Huixiao became the first graduate student in the postgraduate teaching team of the Central Committee of the Communist Youth League and the Education Organization Department, and the Chinese Youth Volunteer Poverty Alleviation Relay Program.
During this period, Wei Huixiao overcomes the physiological discomfort caused by altitude sickness or the many inconveniences caused by the environment he lives in, and he has excellent teaching support at Zhilin County Middle School in Tibet. The reason why
made such a choice is because she does not care about these material aspects, and she pays more attention to the contribution to society and the realization of self-worth.
Wei Huixiao teaches
The treasure held by a family member in his hand became an unfallen grass that enriches the education cause in Tibet.
There are always people who want to do these things, and Wei Huixiao is one of them. It has nothing to do with fame and fortune. If you don’t look at the future, what you think in your heart is what you do.
Compared to an annual salary of one million, Wei Huixiao likes to draw true knowledge in practice and realize value in exploration.
Life is not only for her to be born and live. The life that Wei Huixiao wants has a higher and broader dimension. This is a spiritual abundance, far better than the gold and silver mountains of the outside world.
, by the way, In 2007, 27-year-old Wei Huixiao also participated in the beauty pageant and was shortlisted for the Miss InterContinental Top 10 China Special Administrative Region.
It can be said that it really perfectly reflects what is. "You can obviously make a living by your face, but you have to rely on your own talent ".
Beauty Pageant
At that time, Wei Huixiao was a girl at the forefront of fashion, with her long black and shiny hair, showing the best years of girls. No one expected that after Wei Huixiao chose unpopular subjects and taught in Tibet, she began another choice.
This may not be very accurate. It should be said that she restarted her original dream again.
Don’t love red dress love armed
Failure to enter the military academy as I wish in the college entrance examination is a heart-wrenching problem for Wei Huixiao. Even if he has walked through the mountains and rivers of the motherland and read the human Spring and Autumn , Wei Huixiao still wants to realize his former dream.
The years are ruthless and affectionate. What is ruthless is that no one can withstand the passage of time. What is affectionate is that it will give people the opportunity to fulfill their dreams. But, this opportunity is conditional.
Wei Huixiao did join the army as she wished, and it was when she was 34 years old. However, the efforts she put in for this were beyond the reach of others. In order to realize this dream, she carefully prepared for many years.
In 2007, 31-year-old Wei Huixiao accidentally saw a news that made her extremely excited. It turned out that the deadline for the special recruitment of fresh graduates of is 34 years old.
just happened to be the same, and Wei Huixiao was 34 years old when she graduated. There is still hope that the initial dream can be held tightly in your own hands.
Who says life must stick to the old rules? Who says stability is the best state of life? No! As long as there is hope, we will always hit the unknown south wall! That is the life I yearn for, and it is also the fire that will never be extinguished in my heart.
The most basic thing for adults is to be responsible for their own choices, and Wei Huixiao is no exception.
is not just a saying, nor is it a whim. Wei Huixiao began to work hard the second he regained hope. It was a physical training day after night, completely and spontaneously, Wei Huixiao was approaching her dream step by step.
3km, fourkm, fivekm, tenkm, and there are traces left by Wei Huixiao on the plastic track every day. At that time, her self-media account also had a lot of fans, and the popularity on the blog was not low.
Some people are addicted to the Internet, but Wei Huixiao knows what is the real self.
Finally, with sincerity and high level of knowledge in meteorology , impressed the Chinese navy.
In January 2012, Wei Huixiao, who was stepping on the last age line of enlistment, became a naval soldier.
"If you have a history of being a soldier in your life, you will never feel regretful in your life, and it will definitely be the most proud experience of my life." " aircraft carrier is the most powerful stage for Chinese sailors. For the dream in your heart, I applied to be an ordinary aircraft carrier crew member and grow up in the battles and waves!"
's unignorable excellent resume and Wei Huixiao's enthusiasm knocked on the door to join the army for her.
Wei Huixiao
From then on, the sea of stars in Wei Huixiao's eyes had a more color that ordinary people could not understand. She stood with the students of her 12th class. She knew that she had to work harder than them.
On the day he joined the army, there were only six words in Wei Huixiao's diary - "Marry warship in this life". Yes, the six words represent Wei Huixia's choice of life, a choice that is different from the past and sticks to life.
The first military academy exam score was only "62 points". This did not discourage the "outstanding students" in the past. It doesn't matter. If you don't have the foundation, work harder!
Two years of military school study time, gritting your teeth and firmly working time, in those days, Wei Huixiao was always the earliest to get up and the last to go to bed. In order to match your dreams, you are not afraid of any difficulties.
A year of time goes from "poor students" to "high-quality students", which depends not on talent but on hard work.
Wei Huixiao said that she was not afraid of starting from scratch or laughing at others, "I think I have the attitude of a young man no matter how old I am." Our party 19th National Congress of the Communist Party of China was Wei Huixiao's words. This is not arrogance, but a firmness to the infinite value of his own limited life.
Wei Huixiao said that she was lucky to catch up with the era of great development of our country's navy. is not the case. Isn't it a blessing for our country's navy to have Wei Huixiao?
Wei Huixiao has been loving the world she loves. May the smile she wishes pass by and against the wind and rain along the way, and she still firmly goes to tomorrow with her dream.
In 2012, Wei Huixiao set foot on China's first aircraft carrier " Liaoning " . In 2017, Wei Huixiao was transferred from " Changchun " to " Zhengzhou " as deputy captain. In 2019, Wei Huixiao became the first female intern captain of the Chinese People's Navy.
From an ordinary soldier to an intern captain, there are only a few sentences in the text, so many people think that Wei Huixiao's success is too easy.
So, let’s take a metaphor. It only takes a few days to harvest grain, but it takes several seasons to plant. What we see is easy because others will not be easy, and it hides in corners that we cannot see.
The gap between reality and dreams
"What's so great about her? She just hits a great fortune." There are always people who "ambition is hard to fulfill" and express some sour words. How ridiculous it is, it is unreasonable if others get what they don’t get.
Since 2006, Wei Huixiao has been awarded "outstanding volunteers" in various regions many times, and has participated in and won honors such as "Beijing Winter Olympics and Paralympics Outstanding Volunteer".
In 2007, it also won the "American Hundred People Association Talent Award" awarded by the American Hundred People Association in 2007. It can be said that it is going abroad and going to the world.
Wei Huixiao
"54 Medal ", public welfare experts, "China's 100 Outstanding Volunteers", and "Ocean Figures" in 2019, Wei Huixiao has won too many honors, and I won't list them one by one here. It is worth noting that all the honors of Wei Huixiao are obtained through his repeated participation and efforts.
As she wrote in her blog, If today is the last day of her life, she will do the same thing as usual, because she is doing what she wants to do every day , so even if she leaves, there will be no regrets.
She is not trying to show off, but wants to shine and heat, and wants to make society better through her own actions.
In fact, Wei Huixiao has regrets. In 2007, she was teaching in Tibet and could not go home to see her father for the last time. When she became an Olympic volunteer in 2008, her mother died of illness and could only ask for three days off.
Whose life is really perfect? It’s just that someone burys the pain in his heart, so in the eyes of others, her life is so easy.
Excellent will be attacked. This is a sad and foul-stealing law that exists in the world. Even if you don’t get married in your forties, it will be attacked.
However, she said: "Whether to get married is your own business. The reason for not getting married is very simple, it is just that you don't want to get married." Yes, she is not someone's attachment to, she is herself, and she gives herself enough confidence.
Why complain about life being unsatisfactory, why complain about God not being kind to yourself? The height and breadth of life depend on yourself. It has nothing to do with gender or life experience. It only depends on whether you know what you want and whether you really work hard for it.
Of course, this is not blind confidence, but practical, step by step.
Just like Wei Huixiao, after many twists and turns, she finally realized her dream and sailed with her will. China will not have only one female captain. One day, achievement has nothing to do with gender, but only depends on whether it is really working for it.
Life may be a difficult pattern, but some people have made it colorful and easy, which means nothing is really impossible.
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