Author: Zhong Niannian
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Love is beautiful, but marriage is very realistic.
In this era of "looking at faces and looking at houses", can men without houses marry? Best friend Xiaomi is 35 years old this year. I had a new boyfriend some time ago. The two have similar personalities and share common interests and hobbies. After a period of time together, the two entered the stage of discussing marriage.
A few days ago, Xiaomi and her boyfriend went back to their boyfriend's hometown and paid homage to their future parents-in-law.
In-laws are very satisfied with Xiaomi, but due to limited family conditions, their boyfriend's parents told Xiaomi that they are old and do not have the ability to provide them with a certain material foundation to buy a house, and they can only rely on the two of them to work hard in the future.
Love is inseparable from different levels, but in the cruel real life, a marriage without a house is like a crumbling boat, insecure.
The most basic condition for Xiaomi to choose a partner is to have a house. I thought she would let go of this relationship again. Unexpectedly, Xiaomi told me the day before yesterday that she was going to marry her boyfriend.
I asked in surprise, don’t you dislike him for not having a house?
, who has always been lively, said calmly at this moment, although her boyfriend has no house and cannot give her a warm little nest, but her boyfriend has these three characteristics, and she decided to marry without a house.
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Men who can marry without a house must meet these three characteristics. If it meets, women can only be guaranteed if they marry.
1: A man with a "motivational heart"
No matter how much money a man has given his parents, if he does not have an motivated heart, his wealth will be gone. A man who knows how to make progress and strive to live will make tens of thousands of dollars a day even if he is poor now.
2: A man with clear plans for the future
An ambitious man will not be content with the status quo. He has clear plans for his future career and life in his heart. A man loves you and will set goals in life with you and create a better future for you and your wife.
3: A man who truly loves himself and can live a stable life
Xiaomi said that although her boyfriend currently has no money to buy a house, the man's salary is stable. What's even more commendable is that he is still busy with part-time jobs after work. He is not only down-to-earth and hardworking, but also truly loves himself.
When in love, her boyfriend is willing to buy her favorite clothes and bags. Although those gifts are not big names and are not very expensive, in Xiaomi's heart, she feels that this man is down-to-earth and reliable.
She is willing to save money to buy a house with her boyfriend, work hard for her future marriage, and contribute to her future family.
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Ordinary women see if a man has a house before marriage, and women with high emotional intelligence will see if the man who will live with her for the rest of his life in the future is worth marrying, and whether he is a "high-performance stock".
Women hope that men have a house, but they just don’t want to work too hard and live a stable life. If a woman truly loves a man, she will work hard with her future husband, so that she can live more confidence.
In the TV series " Ode to Joy ", Fan Shengmei cried loudly with her boyfriend and broke up even after buying a house with Wang Baichuan because she did not add her name to the property certificate. Women's behavior of placing their future hopes on men will believe that their relationship will change even if they get married and have a house.
A man truly loves a woman, even if he doesn’t have a house, it is temporary. As long as he has the above three characteristics, he can still marry without a house.
Find a reliable man. The home that the couple strives to create is more confident than "sitting for it".
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Today's topic:
If you meet a man who has no house, will you marry?
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