Cleanliness is a kind of obsessive-compulsive disorder, that is, things within the normal hygiene range are considered dirty, anxious, and obsessively clean, check and reject "unclean" things.
In real life, due to genetic genes, educational environment, mental blows and other problems, causes some people to suffer from cleanliness, and severe patients are even unwilling to have close contact with their marriage partners. Xiaomei is one of them.
27-year-old female doctor Xiaomei tells her three tragic marriages
I was born in a working family, and my parents are both doctors. I grew up smelling the smell of disinfectant, but I also developed a relatively serious obsession with cleanliness. I have almost no friends since I was a child.
27 When I was graduating from a medical university, I also became a doctor. Although I have a cleanliness and have difficulty getting along with others, I have always had many suitors with young and beautiful figures, so I have never been worried about getting married.
Ideals are full, reality is skinny, I never dreamed that the slap in the face would come so quickly.
The first time I got married, I married my college classmate
As the saying goes, the moon will be the first to get close to the water. My first boyfriend is a classmate from the Medical University and a colleague from the hospital. Our love can be called a handsome man and a beautiful woman, a full moon.
Because of our consent and understanding, our relationship developed rapidly. Soon it was time to talk about marriage. Both parents were also very satisfied, so we got married.
On the wedding night, I confessed to my husband that because I have a cleanliness, I cannot accept intimate physical contact for the time being and cannot have a bridal chamber. Although my husband was full of resentment and aggrieved, he still accepted this fact and introduced me to a famous psychologist in the industry.
After half a year of psychological intervention and treatment, my cleanliness still did not improve, and my husband finally couldn't withstand the pressure of his parents urging him to hold his grandson. He told his parents about my condition.
His parents swept me out in anger and said, "If you don't get married, you're cheating." In this way, my first marriage ended.
The second time I got married, I married the blind date partner I chose
After my parents learned about the situation, my parents began to worry about my daughter. While helping me open my heart and treat my obsession with cleanliness, they kept looking for young men of appropriate age for me and arranged blind dates for me.
The emperor pays off. After countless blind dates, I really found a friend I can talk to.
learned the lesson from last time. I told him directly from the beginning that I had a problem with cleanliness and might not be able to fulfill my family. Let him consider whether to take this step.
Surprisingly, he didn't even think about it and immediately said that since he loved me, he was willing to accept everything, including any of my shortcomings. I fell again with sweet words and soon started my second marriage.
After getting married, my husband did, fully respect my wishes, give me enough space, and never ask for excessive intimacy.
Life is much more exciting than the movie. However, less than a month after marriage, my husband suddenly changed his temperament and never returned home all day and night. He was extremely cold to me. I suspected that my husband had a lover outside.
When I caught my husband and lover in bed, he said to me calmly: "Before I went on a blind date, I had already made a lifelong decision with my lover. But under the pressure of my parents, I couldn't get married, so I had to pretend to live with me."
His words deeply hurt me, and I also knew that this marriage could not continue, and I ended up getting divorced.
Getting married for the third time, I married the psychologist arranged by God and
After the divorce, many suitors appeared around me, and I had been injured, so I have always been cold to many suitors. I think my cleanliness obsession will not be cured for a day, and I will not be able to fall in love for a day, otherwise the ending will be the same as the previous two times.
Among the many suitors, there is one who is very special. He is my psychiatrist. He not only takes good care of my treatment, but also takes good care of me in life.
After being rejected by me several times, he unexpectedly came to my home and confessed to me again in front of my parents.
He said seriously: "First of all, as a psychiatrist of Xiaomei, I fully understand Xiaomei's condition and know that it may never be cured; secondly, I am an orphan, and I grew up in an orphanage, and no parents forced me to continue the incense; finally, I really like Xiaomei, and I hope I can spend the rest of my life with her."
His words ignited a glimmer of hope, so with the help of my parents, I tried to date him for a while.
may be a change in the view of love, or it may be that my boyfriend's performance is too outstanding, and I ignited hope of living together, so I entered the third marriage.
People often say that the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. My marriage ended in less than half a month.
The reason is very simple. My husband has a dual personality. During the day, he is a gentle and hypocritical psychologist. In the late night, he becomes a human-faced, beast-hearted, hysterical pervert, and my spirit and body are his targets of attack. I couldn't overcome my inner fear and finally chose to divorce.
Xiaomei has always been confused, is she meeting the wrong person, or is there no sexless marriage in the world? Love her, why can’t you tolerate her shortcomings, why don’t you give her time to cure her diseases, why can’t you work with her to face the sufferings of life!
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