Author: Xuemo Editor: Jia Fangfang
Produced by: Marriage and Family Magazine
Recently, Dong Yuhui became popular in the sky.
Many netizens said that his live broadcast room seemed to have magic, which made people reluctant to leave.
Some people bought 4 bags of rice in his live broadcast room; some people heard his mother making dumplings and bought a box of shrimps in tears; some people bought steak because the pot was like him; some people didn't even chase Liu Genghong in order to see him sell goods (teaching)...
Dong Yuhui reminded everyone to shop rationally, but as a result, netizens were furious:
"Do not care about fairies."
"Do not care about fairies."
html l0 "I place not orders, but gifts for buying classes.""You speak from Chinese to English, from the sunshine in midsummer to Shakespeare , from the mother's teachings to childhood dreams, from history to philosophy, just to sell me a corn, what reason do I have not to buy it?"
"I just want to buy a corn, but you make me cry."
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does not blame the customer for being "willful". Who made Dong Yuhui's live broadcast room fun and crying?
Selling steak is like an English lecture hall;
Selling iron pots, he said that it was the mother's hand, and his father's sad face was the heart of the old man looking forward to the wanderer's return home;
Selling books talked about "ten years of life and death are in vain", what he thought of was whether Su Shi would dream of his handsome wife in the crowd on countless nights when he was in a young man in a bright clothes and angry horse.
Bilingual live broadcast, pro-ancient discussion on the present, after becoming popular, Ma Tianyu also airborne the live broadcast room to swipe rockets, but Dong Yuhui advised the other party to save money to buy rice.
And when "complained" the boss Yu Minhong , he was not inferior.
It is obvious that worshiping the other person behind his back is like a surging river, but on the surface he insists on calling him "old man".
However, although he is stubborn, he feels honored to receive the boss’ congratulatory letter!
However, no matter how jokes are, he has seen through the truth about his popularity:
"Everyone sees a child from an ordinary family who has achieved some results through reading and struggle, and it is like seeing a little bit of hardship, understands a little truth, and is very firm in the parallel time and space. They like that self."
However, from a farmer's child to New Oriental teachers to Internet celebrities is accidental and inevitable.
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was born in a farmer family. His parents used love to "hold an umbrella" for him
I have seen this evaluation:
Dong Yuhui's literary style is easy to embarrass himself, but he makes people feel real.
Because he sells his own life.
I remember that during the live broadcast, he said that a few years ago, he went out early and came back late every day, and often missed meetings with his mother who went to visit him.
One night, he was very hungry when he returned home. When he opened the refrigerator to find food, he found that there were a lot of dumplings frozen inside, so neatly that he looked like soldiers standing in line.
He was thinking that when my mother made dumplings, she must have carefully chopped the filling into a very delicate way.
also thought of putting it neatly so that the child can feel happy and nutritious after seeing it.
can outline maternal love from a plate of dumplings. Such people are probably nourished by love and are delicate and sensitive inside.
In 1993, Dong Yuhui was born in Tongguan, Shaanxi Province. He has an older sister and a younger brother. Although both parents are farmers, they have always told their children: Reading changes destiny.
Especially Dong Yuhui's father likes reading books. Whenever he can't find him, he must hide in the bathroom to read books.
Not only do I love reading, my father is also keen on excerpting golden sentences.
Under the influence of his father, Dong Yuhui also loved reading since he was a child. At that time, he often played outside for a day, but he couldn't sleep in bed, and his mind was full of magnificent waves.
However, rural educational resources are scarce, and he never learned English in elementary school.
When I was in junior high school, the teacher asked everyone to memorize 26 English letters. He said, "Ah, wave, s, get", and the teacher thought he was here to make trouble.
Later, he took the English exam and got the last place in the class.
Although he also felt inferior, he was stubborn and swallowed his inferiority complex and exuded his self-improvement.
At that time, the only materials he could access were textbooks and test papers, and he memorized these two things thoroughly.
Finally, I took one year to win English, from the last place in the class to the first in the grade, and I also dreamed of taking the English major.
When he was in his second year of high school, he was forced to recuperate at home due to an ankle fracture. In his first mock exam in his third year of high school, he only scored 320 points.
When he was depressed, he remembered a sentence in the book: can't kill me, and it will eventually make me stronger .
He once again exerted his "passer-to-passer" spirit and was admitted to Xi'an Foreign Studies University in one fell swoop.
Starting from the first semester of the year, he began to serve as a tour guide for foreigners.
Once, he earned 400 yuan as a tour guide in one day. The taxi originally agreed to cost 100 yuan, but the other party temporarily raised the price. He didn't want to do it all in vain, so he walked all the way back to school.
But when a netizen asked him if he was resentful, he shook his head and said that he only remembered the bright stars that night.
No matter what his background or experience, he never complained at all, and regarded setbacks as experience.
Only by experiencing the hardships of life alone can we understand more about understanding and struggle.
When he graduated from university, Dong Yuhui originally received three offers with an annual salary of 200,000 yuan, but his father said: "You are so young, you should create real value."
22-year-old Dong Yuhui doesn't understand what value is. His father said: "Man is the scale of all things."
Influencing people's work must be the most valuable.
Dong Yuhui was shocked as he watched his father say such words while carrying a hoe!
Although he later knew that this was from Kant, the original version was recorded in his father's small notebook, and that moment still became a node on his growth path.
So what if parents are farmers? This does not prevent them from loving their children and becoming the guiding light for their children.
The umbrella held up with love is the bag for children to run.
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With interest and value, they entered the "Peach Blossom Land"
Under the guidance of their father, Dong Yuhui entered New Oriental and became an English lecturer.
He was particularly satisfied with this identity.
Because English is his interest, lecturers can influence thousands of students. Isn’t this the value in the father’s mouth?
Facts have proved that when interests and values collide together, they can inspire a person's "growth needs" and burst out with infinite energy.
In countless late nights, Dong Yuhui fought at night and was not tired at all.
And with his efforts, the reward came unexpectedly.
The second year he joined the company, he was promoted to the youngest high school English teaching and research team leader in New Oriental's history.
Dong Yuhui was deeply impressed by a Xi'an girl.
That was a few years ago. In his open class, there was a girl listening with relish. But what was surprising was that when she came to register the next day, her handkerchief turned out to be 100 yuan, 50 yuan, 20 yuan, and a few cents left.
And those sporadic banknotes are all pieced together, and they are still a drop in the bucket.
Perhaps it was the girl's bright eyes that reminded Dong Yuhui of her past self who longed for knowledge.
He couldn't bear the girl's disappointment, so he lied to her that New Oriental waived her tuition fees.
In fact, he applied for employee benefits for the girl, and he secretly made up for the insufficient parts himself.
He also often asks girls questions in class.
What made Dong Yuhui happy was that the girl hesitated from the beginning and became more and more cheerful and generous.
Later, Dong Yuhui learned about the girl's family background. It turned out that the little girl's parents were divorced, her mother left, and her father died in a car accident. She and her elderly grandmother depended on each other at home.
And Dong Yuhui's kindness also made him gain a sense of sincerity.
One year on the first day of the Lunar New Year, it was snowing heavily. After class, he found that the girl's grandmother was braved by the wind and snow, and brought him steaming dumplings, and kept saying thank you for her.
Dong Yuhui said that at that moment, he felt mixed feelings: "I feel the weight behind the word "teacher" like never before."
In addition to Xi'an, Dong Yuhui has also visited middle schools in Shanxi, Anhui, Henan, Guizhou, Inner Mongolia and other places.
Once after class, a boy came over and asked him, "I have never left this town since I was so old. Do you think I can go out?"
He said, "I believe you can. Because when I was so old, I never left the place where I live. At that time, I longed for a bigger world like you. So, I believe you will not give up easily."
Just like that, Dong Yuhui found his own "peach blossom land" in his identity as an English lecturer, where he has his love and his value.
Unexpectedly, the great changes in the times are like sudden waves, which caught people off guard.
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After a sudden change, after the Dawn, there will always be
" double reduction " policy, New Oriental transformed and established "Oriental Selection" to sell agricultural products live.
Can you still play your value as an anchor?
Before deciding to join the Oriental Selection, Dong Yuhui also thought about it repeatedly.
After all, being a teacher and being an anchor have nothing to do with it.
Later, he went back to his hometown and asked his grandmother: "If one day I become a vegetable seller, what do you think?"
Grandma told him: "As long as you eat full, sleep soundly, and be healthy."
Grandma's words suddenly dispelled Dong Yuhui's anxiety.
Without mental pressure, he decided to take out his strength as a teacher and open the door to live broadcast.
Who knew that even though he tried his best to pry open a crack in the door, before he could show his strength, the storm outside rushed in.
For a long time, there were only a few people in the "Oriental Selection" live broadcast room, two of whom were Dong Yuhui's parents and two were the parents of colleagues.
Orders that can be counted with one hand are also placed by them.
When he had a little more fans, he was mocked by "black fans".
They said that the male anchor of New Oriental is too cold to watch.
Dong Yuhui began to seriously doubt his value and suffered from insomnia all night. When he couldn't sleep, he went to Peking University and asked himself over and over again:
Have you tried your best to do your best in this matter? Do you have no regrets?
He knew clearly that he didn't want to give up.
Instead of intra-spiritual confusion, it is better to try again.
One day after the broadcast was over, Dong Yuhui looked in the mirror for a long time and found that what the audience said was right. He was indeed not good-looking. Since they were not lying, why should he be angry?
Gradually, he began to accept his imperfection and kept reflecting on himself.
Late at night, he chatted with everyone and found that everyone has a sleepless story.
Some of them are anxious about not being able to find a job; some have just changed their children's diapers and can't sleep; some elderly people are looking forward to their children going home to accompany them...
When people are middle-aged, who is easier than who?
He used his experience to inspire everyone. In his words,
Once you wait, the night will pass and dawn will always come.
Just like that, the live broadcast room became a pressure room and a classroom, and finally, it became popular without warning. After becoming popular with
, Dong Yuhui also found the value of live broadcast.
If farmers can sell tens of thousands of boxes of apples in one night, then will they have the money for taking medicine and children to go to school?
He always remembers that he also grew apples at home.
One year, just as Apple was about to mature, a hailstorm ruined everything.
Looking at the apples scattered on the ground, my grandmother felt very distressed and picked up all the fruits home, partly given to her neighbors to feed poultry, and partly made into apple cider vinegar. He still remembers the sweet and sour taste of
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was born in the countryside and endorsed farmers. Isn’t this a meaningful thing in itself?
As Dong Yuhui said:
"Be a teacher, I will quote a lot on the podium to enrich my soul; be an anchor, introduce information in front of the camera to enrich the value of the dining table. There are similarities behind the two: either bringing everyone a rich mind or a healthy body, both a better life, this is our yearning for a better life."
What is even more commendable is that after the popularity, Dong Yuhui's original intention remains the same and always adheres to the cross-proverb of "optimism, diligence, smartness, down-to-earth, and self-reflection".
Facing controversy, he also saw through: "If criticism is not free, praise is meaningless."
From the three-foot podium to the live broadcast room, he may teach in the future. In fact, human value should be diverse.
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Ordinary people can also walk out of their own "circle"
What Dong Yuhui is more transparent about is that he saw through the truth about his popularity:
"Everyone sees a child from an ordinary family who has achieved some results through reading and struggle, just like seeing a little hardship, understands a little truth, and is very firm in parallel time and space. They like the self."
People often say that reading changes destiny, and struggle makes people strive for progress.
In "Ordinary World" highly recommended by Dong Yuhui, there is a sentence:
Life seems to have gone through an incredible circle, but life will not end in the form of a circle.
The charm of Dong Yuhui may be because he made us believe:
Ordinary as you and me, you can also use your rich spirit as the core to break out your own "circle" in the external world.
And whether that "circle" is big or small depends on the radius of our feet.
especially like a sentence Dong Yuhui said:
When bad luck comes, there will be no luck, and one day, good luck will be full of you.
May everyone use knowledge and experience to fill themselves with their own knowledge before good luck comes.
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