stay at home to make a movie, and then I met social beginning .
National middle school student Ahe was bullied and pulled his good brothers to vent their anger.
One person takes the mahogany knife and the other person takes the watermelon knife.
originally thought, "Just scare".
But the irritable brothers passed the line.
fights have become criminal cases.
Let there be an extra broken hand in the hot soup.
broken hands were flooded with hot soup, all the tendons were shrinking, and they could no longer be held.
bloody beginning, but it is an ordinary family ordinary story .
Haven't experienced it, you must have heard it -
"Sunshine" (2019)
tortuous family stories are indispensable.
Ahe (played by Wu Jianhe), this is the rebellious son of . The one who started with
is brother Caitou (played by Liu Guanting).
But the one who refused to recognize his brothers at the trial was himself.
From calling each other brothers to shirking each other's guilt.
escaped the greatest legal responsibility, but did not escape 's fatal fatherly love .
father Awen (played by Chen Yiwen), a driving school master, has no social status and is not very gentle.
passes a message to the judge, hoping that he will be locked up until death. There is a reason why you dare not recognize your own son so much.
Because there is an overly excellent "other people's children" .
Big brother Chen Jianhao (played by Xu Guanghan).
Ah He is fighting and killing, a gangster in the world.
and top student , just because he did not apply for the first choice, he had to repeat the year.
is a halo and a bright future.
In front of outsiders, Awen was not shy about it at all.
The eldest son is the biological son and the second son, but the tenant .
is quite hateful, but there is no reason to scold him.
Because no matter how you look at it, this is a clever choice for .
disobedient, loves to fight, and causes trouble everywhere.
is a backward manual transmission car, and all it can bring is trouble.
For example, Underage daughter-in-law, grandson who fell from the sky.
or, an manure maker .
and the creditor who stood next to him, who asked for 1 million yuan.
Such an unlucky son, even Pai Ye, can't afford it.
In comparison, he is so good at learning that he is famous. As a volunteer student in Medical College, Ahao.
is an automatic transmission equipped with in place. With a little fuel, you can win all the way.
Awen, life can be as simple as taking the driver's license.
Once you reach the destination, you can achieve your wish and your life will be perfect.
seems to be fine, but there is a fatal contradiction of , which is also a problem that 99% of parents have made.
thinks "work hard" is too simple.
But in reality, if you have to work hard, you have heard enough of it.
As a famous top student, Ahao was caught in in a daze in class and was caught in .
can attract insults from teachers in class.
What he needs is Someone patted his shoulder and advised him to take a break .
How did the good father Awen do it? It was only after the semester was over that time that he came to the cram school to see his son.
encouragement method is more fatal than the teacher who assigns homework.
gives a booklet engraved with "Grasp time and grasp direction" . What does
What does it mean?
to send a warning, don’t stop, victory will be fleeting .
Then, he left with ease on the grounds of "not disturbing you".
, who can bear such heavy pressure?
In Ah Hao's imagination, he is Sima Guang , but he does not have the ability to smash the jar.
instead there is a shadow of clone , is hidden in the water tank, waiting for someone to discover .
Seeing this, did you understand Ahe in an instant?
"family rules" held by Awen is the cruel social rule of . It only considers the results and does not talk about human nature.
But what is the essence of home? Isn’t it just after you get tired of exploring in society.
A place to settle in ?
Ahe doesn't want to be controlled and lives as if is completely contrary to the rules of the family .
adheres to family rules and is regarded as the eldest son of "light of family" .
cannot bear the heavy pressure, so I chose to jump off the building and commit suicide .
was controlled, and in order to get rid of control, it was derailed.
is idle and becomes a real "child".
At the funeral of his eldest son, Awen and this nearly broken-out father and son.
has appeared in the whole film for the first time, and is embarrassingly looking at .
loses an overly excellent comparison.
Ahe, who works steadily, seems to have become a son of 's duty .
Awen is no longer a picky father .
Two people have changed from enemies to father and son.
But the impact of "family rules" still exists.
Awen is still obsessed with the idea that "grasp time and grasp direction" that killed his eldest son is regarded as life creed .
I think Ahe is still, is not solid enough . This concern is also completely true.
After all, until the end of the film, he still had the problem of stealing the car .
If the story continues, it is hard to say that will not go astray again .
But Awen's worries are really hard for people to sympathize with .
Ahe's depravity is half the responsibility for it.
But he, what else did do besides giving orders?
After all, the pressure on the sons is just the last struggle of an incompetent father .
Similar to parents' hypocritical was even cleaned up.
is manifested as -
"Good child", held in your hand.
refuses to admit the possibility or behavior of becoming a "bad child".
The most distinctive example is Ahe's underage wife, Xiaoyu.
adoptive mother treats Xiaoyu as a "good child" who needs protection.
But I forgot, she needs to grow even more.
Therefore, even though Xiaoyu is already in a state of affairs, she is pregnant.
is still ignorant about sex.
Seeing a nightclub girl wearing sexy underwear, she is still as dull as a child.
in the name of protection conceals education , is it respect or harm?
The real nominal parents, Awen and Sister Qin, are also overly biased. You can see the two family photos of
.
Awen and Ahao stood on the side.
gets more like , , rather than dad's favor for his children.
Sister Qin always holds Ah He and smiles brightly.
What’s even more heartbreaking is that what Ah He got is also an immature maternal love of .
is based on "whether you are obedient" and "whether you rely on me".
When asked what kind of person is Ah.
Sister Qin recalled that he was "a child who likes to ride a bicycle."
and then, "turned into another person" .
is exactly the same as Xiaoyu's adoptive mother.
miss them as good kids , but they selectively ignore changes and rebellion.
When one day suddenly one day, he did unexpected behavior, he could only condone .
And for example, Ah He stole the car in the end, and was a damn one, not only did he not stop it.
instead helped him to release , and got on the car timidly.
As parents, they have not grown up, releases the fly parenting .
Children can only walk by touching the wall and count wherever they go.
When your child becomes more and more bearish, the "correct rules" that meet social standards appear.
For example, be obedient, polite, good at learning, and sociable. What is more in line with
is a good child, and vice versa, it is a bad child .
also set up a wall between his brother Ahao and Ahe.
seems to be clear.
But this kind of has one-size-fits-all , and can only force rebellious people to become as monsters , such as Ah.
turns obedient into puppet . Like Ah Hao, he can only show off his strength and dare not show weakness. Instead, he loses the opportunity to be cared for and becomes the person who is isolated by family affection in .
Ahao visited Ahe alone before committing suicide.
asked him why he came, and he said, "just come to see you" .
And Awen also dreamed of Ah Hao in his dream and mentioned the same sentence.
What Ahao wants to see is his family.
But Awen and Ah, both are not like his family .
Mother, she pays more attention to her younger brother who looks "special".
From beginning to end, Ah Hao is completely isolated from family .
is overly favored by social rules and is completely abandoned by the warmth of the family.
clearly stands in the sun, but what you feel is not the warmth bathed in the sun.
is a fear directed by the sun.
What's even more terrifying is that no one can see for fear of .
What is terrifying to think about is that there are only two heartwarming fragments of in the whole film, and it has nothing to do with the family.
One place is Ahe's release from prison, and his inmates sang "Flower Heart" and gave away.
One place is Guo Xiaozhen, who likes Ah Hao, who takes the initiative to hold hands with .
One occurs in prison, where is excluded by social rules .
One is the teenager's heart, and it is a relationship that is not allowed by the tense college entrance examination atmosphere.
is a kind of fragment that seems that doesn't make much sense, but can remember for a long time.
Ahao Ahe, I have never obtained it from my family.
? What family members need to do is not a requirement.
Sometimes, it's just that is a little more gentle than strangers .
Ahao, who was ignored by family affection, is one person, but even more of a group of people.
is the group of people who comply with social rules and seem to be "everything is good", but have long collapsed in secret.
Identity, appearance, and achievements are all fine.
, but was quietly 's perfect "good kid" image frame column.
suppresses excessive because of fear of being criticized.
rebellious Ah, just like broken arm .
looks like it is coming out of the shadows and embracing a bright future.
But "black history" is like broken tendons buried under the skin.
can't tell when it will hurt him.
No matter whether it is good or bad, don’t tie your hands, and don’t let go of your hands .
is disobedient and hold hands.
is much more effective than poking your forehead with your finger.
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