Xiena, something happened again! After the suspension of the broadcast of
" Kuaiben " was greatly reduced, and even news of "unemployment" was reported.
Unexpectedly, Xie Na, who was frustrated in the workplace, even had health problems.
self-exposed to be sick, vomiting, gestational diabetes ......
When she faced this trough in her life, Zhang Jie attracted heated discussions across the Internet.
What exactly happened to? Has to be exposed!
Some time ago, Xie Na's new book "Na Let's Go" was released. The book reveals the secrets of her pregnancy.
It turned out that when Xie Na was pregnant with her second child, she was told by the doctor that she had gestational diabetes, and her condition was not optimistic, and the value was far beyond the normal value range.
This made her suffer a lot.
During pregnancy, Xie Na often vomited continuously and needed to pass strict diet control and real-time monitoring to ensure safety.
Even during the caesarean section, Xie Na suddenly felt unwell and nauseated. The doctor immediately took medicine to control the situation, so she was able to give birth smoothly.
Fortunately, Zhang Jie accompanied him throughout the entire production process and helped him cut the umbilical cord, which gave Xie Na a lot of comfort.
This questioned couple still lives very sweet after 11 years together.
Some time ago, Xie Na announced her new identity as "Ride the Wind and Waves" on Weibo.
Zhang Jie knew very well that this was the first time Xie Na took the lead after the suspension of "Quick Book" and immediately posted a message to call her.
When the live broadcast was broadcast, Zhang Jie mentioned that Xie Na was unable to go home for the time being because of recording the program, and immediately sighed.
Unexpectedly, Xie Na immediately sent a WeChat message and told him that she was watching his live broadcast as well.
Zhang Jie was instantly happy. He not only gave a crazily kiss to the screen, but also said proudly, "Then let's broadcast it live and sing the song " Lover ". "
But do you know?
Zhang Jie used to be, that's not the case.
Xie Na once admitted in the show that in this relationship, she was the first to take the initiative.
In order to confess, he even flew to Hangzhou alone, just to ask Zhang Jie, "Do we want to try it?"
But it was not until the next day that Zhang Jie hesitated and agreed.
Is he not loves?
is not.
But at that time, Xie Na had already been at its peak, and Zhang Jie was just a fledgling talent show singer.
The huge gap made him feel stressed.
After the relationship between the two was exposed, the entire network questioned and despised the relationship, and even labeled Zhang Jie as a "soft man".
career dissatisfaction, emotional setbacks, and public opinion pressure have caused Zhang Jie to suffer from severe depression .
During that time, he often stayed at home, staring at the clock on the wall, and looked at it for four hours. "I don't know what I should do. I stood on the balcony on the 25th floor and wanted to jump down."
crypt, he had nowhere to vent, and he could only record sleepless nights in the Weibo small account.
Fortunately, Xie Na has always been by his side.
Zhang Jie was not confident, so Xie Na invited a group of big names to send blessings to his concert and also made the awards he had won into a banner to encourage him.
Netizen attacked Zhang Jie, and Xie Na immediately responded strongly, "It is okay to attack me, but I will never be allowed to involve my family."
Everyone thought that Xie Na was Zhang Jie's redemption.
but not.
They are mutual redemption.
Xie Na once suffered from severe anxiety disorder and could only rely on sleeping pills to fall asleep.
When Zhang Jie learned about it, he said to her, "Don't throw the medicine, I will definitely let you fall asleep."
And Zhang Jie's sleeping pills are love and company.
Every day before going to bed, he would tell Xie Na a short story. Even if the two of them were in different places, they would accompany her to sleep through video.
During Xie Na's pregnancy, Zhang Jie even turned down his work, accompanied her to give birth, and made her love breakfast.
On the tenth anniversary of the marriage, Zhang Jie wrote a song "Love" to Xie Na. The lyrics in
, just like the relationship between the two of them for many years:
"If the mountains and rivers have an end, even if the man of time stays, holding your hand and white hair all night, I am the richest."
"Love" MV
Yishhu once said,
"Why do people get married? It's not because life is not easy, and they need to find someone to work together."
At the lowest point in their respective lives, Xie Na and Zhang Jie always stayed hand in hand.
Even though they are in a hurry, they love each other year after year.
The love between Xie Na and Zhang Jie is undoubtedly happy.
But not everyone is so lucky.
Some time ago, a private video of female poet Yu Xiuhua caused heated discussion among netizens.
In the video, Yang Chuce, a boyfriend 14 years younger than Yu Xiuhua, hid behind the camera and accused her of all kinds of "crimes": "You wet your pants, you scold my daughter."
while Yu Xiuhua was unkempt and shouted to the camera without any image, "Whoever quarreled and started a live broadcast? Why don't you broadcast live when you hit me?"
After the video was exposed, it was completely uproar.
Yu Xiuhua responded to this on Weibo. It turned out that as early as 520, she discovered that a woman sent ambiguous red envelopes such as 520 and 1314 to Yang Chu Ce.
She couldn't help but question, but she angered Yang Chuce and even "almost strangled to death".
Because Yang Chuce called his son a "silly", Yu Xiuhua fought back, but was "slapped hundreds of times in the face."
More ironic thing, Yang Chuce did not shy away from his family violence against .
In an interview with reporters, Yang Chuce admitted openly, "I did hit her. But it was not that exaggerated, and only slapped a dozen times."
even, he emphasized with a little pride that he "feels very appropriate" when he started.
After all, Yu Xiuhua was slapped more than a dozen times in the face and was able to continue posting on Weibo. When asked why he wanted to do something, Yang Chuce asked in a shocking way, "Is it really my fault to force someone who loves her to hit someone?"
The implication is that "because I love her, it is not my fault to hit her alone."
Such logic completely angered netizens:
"It's too much to beat my wife." "This man not only seeks money, but also domestic violence and beating people."
After all, Xu Xiuhua is the only phenomenon-level female poet in China whose poetry collection has sold more than 100,000 copies since the 1990s.
But because of meeting Yang Chuce, her self-esteem and decency were ruthlessly shattered in front of hundreds of thousands of netizens.
There is a saying that love, if it is not heaven, it is hell.
encountered a wrong partner and could not even break up with a decent breakup.
and start a unfortunate relationship is even more a disaster in life.
This reminds the lady of Taiwanese artist Zhang Aiya .
When the media photographed her falling in love with a Taiwanese male host, her boyfriend not only immediately denied it, but also mocked Zhang Aiya's appearance afterwards, "She is just a buck-toothed horse-faced girl."
Zhang Aiya, who was hit hard, began to develop self-doubt.
When he met his second boyfriend Xu, Zhang Aiya was even more devoted to her, trying to exchange for the other party's sincerity.
But the man finally insisted on breaking up, because "I can't give you a time to get married, and I don't want to tie her to myself selfishly."
seems touching, but what is the truth?
Just 4 months after breaking up, Xu quickly lived with his new girlfriend, and all the content related to Zhang Aiya was deleted on his social account.
What's even more outrageous is that when they live with their new girlfriend for 5 months, the two got married after getting married, and the child was born 7 months after marriage.
And Zhang Aiya not only believed Xu's lies, but also cried bitterly during interviews many times, saying, "I am not good enough and have not done enough, so the fate has ended."
In fact, Zhang Aiya's conditions are not bad.
The family is well-off, loved by parents, and appearance has been certified in " Kangxi is Coming " many times.
But one failed relationship after another ruthlessly destroyed her confidence and took away her light.
Writer Suhe once said,
"In love, don't exhaust your energy for others."
In fact, how can a truly high-quality relationship make you exhausted?
For the rest of your life, stay away from those who don’t cherish you!
The quality of a relationship often depends on whether the partner you choose is reliable.
Some time ago, Tony Leung celebrated his 60th birthday, Carina Lau posted on Weibo to send him birthday wishes.
Netizens were surprised that this incompatible couple had unknowingly passed 33 years.
Carina Lau once said in an interview that once the home needed decoration, Tony Leung did not like the noisy sound during decoration, so she left with a small box.
It was not until Carina Lau finished the decoration alone that he came back with the box.
And whenever two people are in the same frame, Carina Lau is always enthusiastic and cheerful, while Tony Leung is shy and introverted.
In this relationship, Carina Lau seems to be tolerant and giving, while Tony Leung seems to be enjoying forever.
However, Tony Leung gave Carina Lau a great sense of security.
When Carina Lau was 25 years old, she was kidnapped by a gang and forced to take nude photos.
Tony Leung always accompanied her in the trough of her life, and even made a promise, "This circle is so complicated. If you want to leave, let's leave together."
More than a year later, Carina Lau was still very grateful when talking about this matter, "He has experienced many ups and downs with me, and has given me a firm strength like a mountain."
A good relationship is whether it is the focus of everyone's attention or it may fall to the bottom.
He is always by your side, supporting each other and achieving each other.
Lady remembered a video I had watched.
Snowflakes wet a grandmother's clothes, and the grandfather next to her carefully patted the snowflakes on her shoulder.
And grandma also gently helped grandpa tidy up his clothes.
In another video, a grandfather bought delicious food, but gave it to his grandmother for the first bite.
Seeing that my grandmother had only taken a small bite, she didn't forget to let her eat more.
"I must be a kapok near you, standing with you as the image of the tree.
We respect each other and become our support for each other. "
In fact, the most romantic thing in love is never the thrilling separation of life and death.
But seeing the prosperity, the beauty is still by my side.
Click Like, May you and I have something to love.
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