Recently, Chen Shu has once again become a hot search. Not to mention her temperament and ageless beauty, her "mouth" alone is already much better than others.
She took the initiative to tear her mistress up. When she saw that the mistress was holding a brand-name bag sent by her cheating husband in her house, she calmly "borrowing the bag to describe people" .
words not only announced the main position, but also pointed out the situation of the mistress, and instantly grasped the initiative.
When the mistress asked her to go out in a panic, she calmly reminded the mistress:
This passage of is rigorous in logic, reasonable and well-founded , which made the mistress speechless, making the audience in front of the screen cheer and applaud!
I have to say that being able to speak is one of the most advanced emotional intelligence of a woman.
Language is a tool for humans to express their thoughts
If you want to use it well, you must control it
to express it. It is an art and a technology.
In life, everyone hopes to be as eloquent and express clearly like Stella, but in fact, things often go against their wishes.
×Don’t say : I was asked a question temporarily, and my mind suddenly became blank, and I felt embarrassed in front of everyone;
×Don’t say : I have ideas in my heart, but I am afraid of saying something wrong, so I dare not speak, and over time I will be regarded as a little transparent;
×I can’t say it well : I have a lot of words, but when I open my mouth, I either have to express it without any focus, and I can only recite the words at critical moments.
My friend Wang Lin has suffered losses that she would not express.
In the company, a colleague asked her: "Do you think my skirt looks good?"
She said: "The skirt looks good, but the legs are a little thicker."
Colleague immediately changed his face, but Wang Lin didn't pay any attention.
At home, my mother-in-law prepared dinner for her. She said while eating: "My mother-in-law has good skills, but I like the dishes my mother cooks more."
My husband saw her mother-in-law's face sinking and kindly reminded her, but she disagreed: "I speak so straightforwardly. If you want to, you will live, and if you don't want to!"
Now it's not just my mother-in-law, but even her husband glaring at me.
"A good word warms up in winter, and a bad word hurts people in June."
At that time, Wang Lin didn't realize: straightforwardness is not a polite word, and frankness is not a sensible choice.
When working, she did not take the initiative to take care of her, and she often had to fight the life of several people alone, fighting alone.
returned to home with a depressed mood , but the mother-in-law and husband sang a double act, and sarcasticly said to her in and out.
She couldn't stand this suffocating cold violence and quarreled with her husband.
But the husband responded coldly: "You said yourself, if you can't get through, you'll get divorced!"
Wang Lin felt that she was about to collapse and couldn't help but find her best friend to cry.
best friend comforted her and said, "Don't worry, if you really want to change, you can learn expression skills, but remember not to be too willful in the future. "
Under the recommendation of your best friend, Wang Lin signed up for the compulsory expression course. After studying the course, Wang Lin realized that there were indeed many problems with her expression before: before
speaking, should correct her mentality and learn to think from the perspective of others;
When the conversation is awkward, should learn to collect and gather and let others actively open the conversation;
When praising others, should use the 4T rule to praise others and praise others on the point.
These improvised expression methods have opened Wang Lin’s eyes and benefited a lot.
Wang Lin, who can talk, is also becoming more and more popular.
Once, a colleague's wife took her three-year-old daughter to the company to play.
This daughter likes her father very much and always sticks to her father.
Wang Lin said at the time: "This little girl has vision and has known to follow high standards since she was a child."
praised three people in one sentence, and the colleagues in the office all burst into laughter.
Wang Lin, who can talk, is becoming more and more popular among her colleagues, and her boss is also impressed by her. She was recently promoted to the team leader.
When she returned home, her mother-in-law took the initiative to care about her daily life, and her husband often had in-depth communication with Wang Lin, and the whole family was happy.
Wang Lin then realized: learn to speak, it turns out that the impact on her life is so great!
Only those who are good at expressing can control their own life. Leaders are happy to take you to meet customers, and husbands and children will be more respectful.
There is no natural winner, and the light of expression is inseparable from
. Every step of solid growth
This person who changed Wang Lin’s life, not only achieved a double harvest of career and popularity with high expression skills, but also helped countless people to achieve their "mouth" advancement in life in the past 20 years. he is - Qing Yang Jian.
He is the first PTT international professional certification trainer and TEDx speech professional coach , is also a special lecturer at Southwest University of Finance and Economics, China Carnegie, and Chinese IQ School.
He is a down-to-earth expression trainer for down-to-earth , sharing expression concepts and methods. more than 10,000 people are learning from him every day.
He is also hired as the chief trainer by , more than 2,100 top 500 companies in , such as China Telecom and Foxconn, to train the oral expression skills of corporate employees.
Seeing such results, maybe you think Teacher Qing is a genius boy with outstanding eloquence and strong expression skills since childhood, right?
actually is not the case.
When he was a child, Qing Yang Jian, not only was he not good at eloquence, but he even had some stuttering.
He still remembers that when he was 8 years old, because of "dad" , "Mom" always makes pronunciation , and for this reason he has been many rolled his eyes.
At that time, he was a silent and speechless child.
Seeing the classmates laughing and laughing, he was also very envious.
Thanks to his mother's mother's failure to give up on him.
, with his mother's encouragement, he insisted on reading aloud for at least an hour a day for many years. 3. imitates celebrity speech , and the expression books you read are all over your height.
read too many books. Qing Yang Jian found that as long as you master professional training skills and methods, any ordinary person can have good eloquence and become a "speaker" that everyone envies.
After entering the workplace, Qing Yang Jian's speech knowledge and expression skills accumulated over the years played a huge role.
After a company dinner, a colleague was turning the glass plate on the table, accidentally flipped the water cup and , which happened to sprinkle it on the boss's high-end wool suit that cost more than 5,000 yuan.
Although the boss did not have an attack, his face was gloomy and obviously very unhappy.
Seeing this, Qing Yang Jian immediately said: "Everyone says water is wealth, and there is only a glass of water on the table, why did it sprinkle it on you? It means that your boss has your own fortune! No wonder the company's performance this year is so good, it's all thanks to the boss! "
When the boss heard this, he couldn't help laughing and the atmosphere suddenly became relaxed.
If you want to talk like him, you can listen to what he has.
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this set of methods that Teacher Qing has figured out by himself Continuously share with the outside world, and guided a batch of students over 20 years.
Previous students said that——
The professional knowledge taught by Mr. Yang Jian will be like his own personality. will become a part of the body. It will not be abandoned due to learning and change of times. will only continue to improve with the increase of experience and experience.
Liu from Mianyang, Sichuan, serves as the deputy manager of the project department of a company in China Railway Group. He has excellent professionalism and outstanding work performance.
However, because he is introverted and afraid to speak in public, he has failed several times due to his abnormal performance in the company's competition.
After participating in Teacher Qing’s course study, Liu found that professionalism and down-to-earthness are the way of expression that suits him. In his subsequent competitive speech, he fully utilized his characteristics and advantages, and was successfully promoted to manager, and was appointed by the group leaders as a sharing guest at the group’s annual commendation meeting.
Classmate Xu, who graduated from a famous university, took the civil service exam three times in a row, but he could not pass the interview level, which made him feel severely anxious and afraid.
After being guided by Teacher Qing, Xu broke the halo of perfectionism and reshaped his confidence.
In the fourth interview session, the ideas were clear and the answers were answered smoothly. successfully passed the interview .
Now, Xu has become a national civil servant, and his work ability is highly recognized by his superiors and has a bright future.
If you feel yourself-
always stutters in public
Temporary speech My brain is blank
Expression ideas are often misunderstood
Important speeches cannot break through routines
don’t be afraid, Qing Yang Jian not only realizes his life transformation through expression, from a stuttering child to a gold medal lecturer, but also trains more than 10,000 people learn to express well, and can speak at the critical moment when you open your mouth!
Now, he will share his accumulated expression experience and training experience over the years.
learn to express from him, be the White Bone Demon who can speak in the eyes of his boss and colleagues! is the that can be said at the parent meeting of children is amazing mother! Be the high emotional intelligence goddess in the eyes of my husband and friends!
will take you to unlock many expressions of confusion
will let you easily deal with anyone in any occasion!
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A person who can speak shows his strength as soon as he opens his mouth.
can express people, and they can carry favorable weapons with you.
learn to express with Teacher Qing Yang Jian, makes "wise and wonderful tongue" your confidence;
learn to express with Teacher Qing Yang Jian, makes "wonderful words" your daily life;
learn to express with Teacher Qing Yang Jian, makes "eloquent words" your mark.
Effectively express yourself + self-confidence independent
Leadership appreciation + husband love + child role model
can enjoy the happiness of free expression in your life
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