I don’t know if anyone still remembers how hard we lived ten years ago in 2008. All 19 provincial administrative regions were affected by disasters, and the bad weather paralyzed traffic and countless people were stranded on the way home.

Time flies so fast, and in a blink of an eye, the first month of 2018 has also passed.

I don’t know if anyone still remembers how hard we lived ten years ago in 008 .

2008 Spring Festival, a rare southern heavy snow disaster occurred.

19 provincial administrative regions were affected by disasters. The bad weather paralyzed traffic and countless people were stranded on the way home.

In April 2008, the Jiaoji Railway fire vehicle collided with , killing at least 72 people and injuring 416 people.

Next, Sichuan Wenchuan 8-magnitude earthquake , 69,227 people were killed, 374,643 were injured, and 17,923 were missing.

In the second half of the year, there were also Shanxi Xiangfen dam collapse accidents and Sanlu milk powder incidents . . . Everything touched the hearts of hundreds of millions of Chinese people at that time.

However, after the cold numbers, as time passes day by day, people gradually forget it.

It has been ten years since the people in the incident, how are they doing now?

is like Feng Xiaogang's "Tangshan Earthquake". The day the disaster happened was actually just the beginning of the disaster.

Some pain, and those who have experienced it will bear it for the rest of their lives.

The new drama I want to introduce today, Koreans have helped us film it first.

tells the life of ordinary people who survived after the disaster.

is just a relationship of love

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The background of this drama comes from a real event in South Korea .

1995, the collapse of Sanfeng Department Store occurred in the that shocked the world.

502 people were killed and 937 were injured.

This is the largest casualty accident in when a building collapses on its own in the world. It is also the most serious casualty accident in Korean history of in peacetime. The reason is not natural disasters, but man-made disasters.

heroine He Wenxiu originally lived in a happy family of four.

She has a younger sister, Yanxiu, who is also a child star.

On the day of the disaster, the heroine took her child star sister to the mall to attend the event.

In order to date a boy she liked, she threw her sister alone and went upstairs by herself.

So, this scene became a nightmare that she could not escape from in her life.

My sister waved at her in the collapsed building.

In fact, due to the traumatic sequelae, the heroine has no idea how the incident happened at all.

But the result of the matter was that she survived and her sister died in a collapse accident.

So this dream was conceived by her.

No matter how she does it, the dream ends exactly the same. After more than 0 years, her life seems to be calm, but the shadow always envelopes her.

is like this nightmare that always accompanied her.

The death of my sister completely changed her life.

Since then, she no longer dared to take the elevator and climbed up the floor by herself no matter how high it was.

Her job is to to make models for architecture , not a designer. But when she encounters design drawings with safety hazards, she is extremely serious.

If the other party does not change the design, she will definitely not make a model.

and even angrily criticized the boss in person for this.

Back then, the heroine's mother asked her to accompany her sister to the mall.

Mom herself threw down her daughter and went to have dinner with the director.

Therefore, she almost collapsed when she knew her youngest daughter died in the accident.

even asked my sister why you were the only one who survived , didn’t I let you look forward to your sister?

When the mother questioned her sister, the father also questioned her mother,

Put down the children, where have you gone.

Mother asked his father in turn,

Is all this my fault? runs outside all day long, who is the person who throws the kids at me? When I went to find Yanxiu, where are you in ?

Since then, grief has completely defeated this family .

This couple who have experienced the pain of losing their daughter quarrels every day and finally separates, just the last step of divorce.

Mother spends every day in pain and regret .

Why, when something happened to her daughter, she was not by her side. Why, I live but my daughter dies. From then on, she spent her days drunk and became an alcoholic.

both lose family members, and the mood of the sister and mother is different.

How could her pain of losing her sister be better than a mother who lost her own child? No one can say that he empathizes with this kind of pain in the skin.

Outsiders don’t understand their mother even more.

Every time I get drunk, the heroine's mother will cause trouble. I quarrel with my neighbor's aunt at any time.

People say that

Is it worth showing off to let my daughter leave first? should be quiet and live days, and know how to be ashamed. sold her daughter’s money and opened a bathhouse, so she should lower her head and work hard to live. I really have no conscience to drink all day.

Every time, the heroine must accompany her smiling face to clean up for her mother.

Mother said that only in this way can you not forget .

I have to be pointed at the nose and scolded a few times, so I will not forget the fact that Yanxiu left first. Otherwise I will forget it occasionally.

She does not allow herself to get out of the pain and does not allow herself to be forgiven.

and forgetting means forgiveness.

The heroine comforts her mother and says, if you can forget, forget. I don't remember it either.

Although we know, the heroine is lying.

But my mother said, you are different from your mother, mom must remember it, is all my fault .

She said that parents who send their children away first are sinners.

If I live well, I will be criticized for saying that I live well. If I live poorly, I will say that I am dead and my daughter is not yet awake. . Some people should always be pointed at.

Faced with his mother who is drunk every day, the heroine is also unable to tolerate her. Because she is really afraid of at , she is afraid of losing her mother.

Although the heroine survived that accident, she had actually died in that accident before.

The father said at the time that she could survive was also the "luckyness in misfortune" ,

, but the heroine didn't think so.

There is no blessing in the world in the world.

Unfortunately, it is just misfortune.

male protagonist Li Kangdou, also experienced this disaster when he was a child.

His father was a member of the construction team at that time. On the day of the accident, my father had to get off work early because it was the birthday of his baby daughter.

The male protagonist is waiting for his father downstairs to celebrate his sister's birthday in order to go home together.

However, my father was helplessly called back by the boss to continue working and died at the scene.

and the male protagonist was also pressed under the building. Although finally saved his life , his legs were injured that could not be healed.

The physical pain is second, and the mental injury he suffered will never heal .

He often has hallucinations , as if he is back to the scene being pressed down the building.

Hometimes, taking the drug can suppress this hallucination.

Father died. As his brother, he must shoulder the burden of the family. He also needs to protect his sister .

So, he, a good child, started to to survive in society. After struggling for a few years, he no longer had the youthful appearance of the past on his face, and he became a gangster .

In order to make money, does any work.

Fighting every day, and your face is often green and purple.

also colluded with the nightclub owner and blackmailed the rich people in .

Recently, at the original site of the accident, will start to rebuild .

Design Institute built , memorial monuments before the start of construction, commemorating the deceased.

In the tea room, the heroine heard her colleagues talking about this, and their tone was extremely relaxed.

said that only killed 48 people in such a big accident , which is a blessing.

Another said, in such a big accident, did die so many people?

Their tone makes the heroine angry.

She said seriously, not only 48 people died, but 48 people died.

In fact, 49 people died in this accident .

was determined to be a design calculation error because of this accident. Therefore, at that time, the set planner committed suicide. The 49th person who died in

is the second male father of , , the designer at that time.

The life of the second male lead also changed since then.

When the male protagonist learned the news that the rebuilding here was about to be restored, in the middle of the night, the memorial monument erected by the developer was smashed.

He smashed it hard at this tombstone-like thing.

The monument says:

Commemorate the Heroes who died in an accident, soothe them and re-enforce the pain at that time. Please continue with the life that has not been completed in this life, and hope you can rest in peace.

These words are said incredibly beautifully . But can everything caused by this accident be re-carved with just one stone?

What kind of pain is this for the families of these people?

Because the mall is about to be rebuilt, heroine, male protagonist, and second male participated in in different ways, and they "reunited".

In fact, when the accident happened, the heroine and the hero met. But the heroine forgot that memory. The male protagonist did not expose it either.

But fate brought them back again, but it was because of this mall that we met.

They are all victims of the accident that year, and they are always afraid of the past, but they still join in this reconstruction.

Tragedy cannot be repeated in , they must determine this personally.

The story of this drama develops very slowly, and there are no climaxes one after another. Each episode is interspersed with little memories of the accident that year, thereby pieced together the original appearance of the accident that year.

Therefore, the audience may be unable to bear to watch.

Although the love line in the play has some tricks , because the background is laid, it still makes people feel that traumatized keeps each other warm, which is very healing .

After the disaster, the pain begins.

And for witnesses, this will not fade with the passage of time, but will be like wine, the longer the time becomes stronger.

This point of hits , which is why everyone calls Douban .8 points .

So, when you easily say the string of casualties, don’t forget how many real life is behind , which is the hurdle that others can’t overcome for decades.

Always Don’t underestimate the pain and suffering that others have experienced.