"Family is the smallest country". Our country has always paid attention to the construction of "home". General Secretary Xi also said that "a harmonious family means a stable society, a happy family means a peaceful society, and a civilized family means a civilized society". Only when a harmonious family means a prosperous life.
There is such a gold medal mediator Gao Jin in Beilin District, Xi'an. As a family lawyer, she compared herself to a "professional craftsman in marriage and family legal affairs", and her commitment to mediation is the "adhesive" used by Gao Jin to make up for the "small family".
Vice President of the Marriage and Family Research Association of Shaanxi Law Society, Director of the Marriage and Family Professional Committee of Shaanxi Lawyers Association, "Excellent Lawyer in the Province", "The Most Beautiful Women in Xi'an"... With many titles and honors, Gao Jin is more willing to claim to the public: "I am a people's mediator."
Focus on "family affairs"
Keeping his original intention with craftsmanship
The so-called craftsmanship sentiment is to focus on doing one thing and do it to the extreme. It is precisely with such ingenuity that Gao Jin has been deeply engaged in the field of family affairs for twenty years.
For many years, Gao Jin has focused on the professional handling of litigation and non-litigation cases in the field of marriage and family, as well as the special rights protection practices of vulnerable groups such as women and minors. He is good at using a legal perspective and unique feasible way to deal with matters to help the parties solve their problems. He has successively published practical papers such as "Flexible Application of Family Case Mediation Skills - Analysis of Family Mediation from 5 Typical Cases", and has effectively mediated many difficult and complicated cases in his professional activities, gradually forming a set of distinctive professional rights protection concepts and work processes, and "mediation" is a key link.
"It is precisely because of the deposition in the field of family affairs that I have the confidence to mediate cases as a people's mediator. All the lawyers in our lawyer mediation room are also senior lawyers who focus on the field of marriage and family. We will adhere to the professional basis and start from the objective and actual needs of grassroots people for the legal services of marriage and family , and actively integrate into the diversified family conflict mediation practice involving various social entities. Through public welfare efforts, promote the positive energy of the industry, realize the social value of legal professionalism, and provide action direction and professional guidance for the healthy and rational life of the people and protect the legal rights. We hope to submit professional answers unique to family lawyers to social harmony and stability in the future people's mediation work, and then contribute to the happiness of the people's lives." After the Beilin District Judicial Bureau approved the establishment of a lawyer mediation room of Shaanxi Gaojin Law Firm, Gao Jin's statement on behalf of the mediation room attracted applause from the audience.
full-time "fire extinguishing" to promote harmony through mediation
"Okay, don't stick around, let's talk about the demands of both parties!" In Gao Jin's family mediation room, a middle-aged couple who had a long-term cold war and even had a divorce due to property dominance issues sat on a chair and looked at each other coldly. Gao Jin, who was in charge of mediation, spoke.
The focus of mediation is whether to divorce or not, how should the property in marriage be controlled. But before the topic was reached, the woman Ms. Zhang expressed her indignation indignation. Gao Jin is not an agent of either party, but serves as a lawyer to mediate the family conflicts between the middle-aged couple.
Looking at the scene in front of her, Gao Jin was not in a hurry, nor did he interrupt, but just listened patiently. She understood that what Ms. Zhang was most worried about was that she was in poor health and if an accident happened one day, her elderly mother would be left unsupported. So she used the inheritance left by her mother-in-law to buy herself a high-insurance insurance. The beneficiary wrote the name of her mother. At the same time, she also paid the down payment for her new house to her son and daughter-in-law, and wrote the names of her son and daughter-in-law on the house book.Before doing these things, Ms. Zhang hid it from her husband Mr. Zhang. After Mr. Zhang discovered it, she believed that the two expenses totaled 450,000 yuan were the inheritance left by her mother to both the couple, which belonged to the common property of the couple, and Ms. Zhang dealt with them privately. Therefore, the two had a very unhappy relationship and even had fierce conflicts. So they were in a cold war for the next two or three years, and the couple also considered going to court to sue for divorce to resolve the problem.
After many persuasions from children, Mr. Zhang and his wife decided to try to find someone to mediate first. So they came to Gao Jin's family mediation room early in the morning. After listening to the demands of both parties, Gao Jin began to use his years of experience to "break down". In less than 20 minutes, the mediation work made great progress. The couple who were originally in the Cold War were finally able to face each other and reveal their true thoughts. Finally, they calmly accepted the opinions given by the on-site lawyer and decided to go back to negotiate and handle the matter. Such scenes are already commonplace for Gao Jin. Her daily job is to "extinguish the fire".
"Our lawyer mediation room has a wide range of cases. Marriage, inheritance, property analysis, family wealth inheritance, domestic violence, extramarital affairs, sexual harassment and new types of family disputes can all come to mediate. We are like a group of special 'firefighters' to 'extinguish the fire' for everyone." Gao Jin said so.
specializes in "Popularization of Law" and use the law to understand the truth
"Hello everyone, I am a family lawyer and a lawyer mediator. Today I will teach you civil dispute mediation. Civil disputes include neighborhood relations disputes, inheritance disputes, marriage disputes, etc...." This is the scene where Gao Jin taught civil dispute mediation to the mediation backbones of Beilin District . The in-depth and easy-to-understand explanation made the mediators on the scene refreshed and benefited a lot.
As a lawyer mediator, in addition to daily case handling, Gao Jin is also keen on public welfare legal publicity activities, because she always hopes to spread her professional insights and skills accumulated over the years to everyone, and use the thinking and actions of a lawyer and mediator to influence everyone, so as to absorb the necessary legal nutrients in life in reality and enable everyone to eventually live a stable and happy life.
Since March 2009, Lawyer Gao Jin has jointly established the "Lawyer Gao Jin Marriage Law Lecture Hall" with the Marriage and Family Law Research Association of Shaanxi Law Society, Shaanxi Women's Law Workers Association and other relevant organizations. It regularly teaches legal knowledge about marriage and family for free to the people from all over the province, and provides free on-site consultation and mediation assistance to the audience. So far, more than 10,000 people have been directly listened to the lectures and received more than 100,000 people.
In the training and exchange activities organized by Ministry of Justice , National Law Association , Chinese Law Society and other institutions, lawyer Gao Jin was invited to teach many special lectures on new ideas for family rights protection and new mediation measures. Lawyer Gao Jin also taught family dispute rights protection measures at Shaanxi Women's Compulsory Isolation and Drug Rehabilitation Center and Shaanxi Chang'an Compulsory Isolation and Drug Rehabilitation Center. He also provided assistance and education for a long time and provided special customized legal popularization and practical assistance and education services for special groups so that they could return to society as soon as possible.
There is a harvest when you work hard. Gao Jin, who is over the halo of Shaanxi Province's "Top Ten Legal Models" and is still on the road to popularization of law. "Thanks to our Justice Bureau for the trust of our Justice Bureau, we will continue to provide free mediation services in the field of marriage and family to the society. At the same time, we will not forget to sow the seeds of the rule of law, and contribute the public welfare love of lawyers on the big platform of people's mediation, and sing the song of justice and righteousness of lawyers in society." Gao Jin said this when he was having a discussion with Jiang Yiqu, deputy director of the Beilin District Justice Bureau.
"As the saying goes, it is difficult for a clean official to break down family affairs. The ethics and privacy of family disputes often make cases uninterrupted and chaotic. Family disputes are related to the happiness of thousands of households. Over the years, I have found that mediation is the best way to resolve family disputes. There is no small matter in family matters, and mediation promotes harmony.Convincing people with reason, moving people with emotions, and educating people with law is where as a lawyer and mediator realizes one's own social value, and I will always insist on it in the future. "Recalling the decades of family mediation, Gao Jin was filled with emotion.
adjusts thousands of family affairs and solves thousands of family sorrows. As a family "craftsman", lawyer Gao Jin uses superb skills, delicate emotions, rational thinking, and legal perspective to share the worries and problems of the parties, and uses tenderness to resolve marriage and family conflicts, spread the sunshine of the rule of law in the hearts of the people, fully demonstrating the female style of lawyer mediators in the new era.
In recent years, the Beilin District Judicial Bureau has deeply implemented the "Fengqiao Experience" and created the "365" mediation model with the characteristics of Beilin , and a large number of unique characteristics have emerged. The people's mediator, Lawyer Gao Jin, is one of them. They walk around the streets and pay attention to the life of every resident in the jurisdiction; they never get tired of it to resolve the discord between all residents in the jurisdiction; they work hard to let legal knowledge penetrate into the hearts of every resident... They are the guardians of the "Safe Stele Forest" and the practitioners of the "Rule of Law Stele Forest". They have played the role of the "first line of defense" in maintaining social stability and made indelible contributions to building a harmonious society.
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