Sorry, I missed my fortune last week for about a week, just because I suddenly remembered what happened a year ago on Sunday afternoon, and then took my parents out for a few days temporarily.
A friend recommended me. I went to Tengchong on the border of Yunnan to see the yellow leaves of ginkgo. I lived under the Yunfeng Mountain Taoist Temple. I lived in the stone story of Japanese designer Kengo Kuma . In the hot spring courtyard, everything is silent and there are flashing stars in the sky. But no matter how beautiful the hot spring water passes across my shoulders, I have to get up to do other things. During the gap between day after day, when I think of these beauty, I feel that all the work and expectations are meaningful.
I chatted with my friend at that time, and I said I understood a truth: Don’t have good things in anytime and anywhere. You should let yourself occasionally have . If you have too many, you will actually destroy your good feelings for these good things. Just like eating Chinese food and eating Thai food in the next meal, if you have it all, it is like giving you a borderless buffet anytime and anywhere 365 days a year, you will lose the freshness, fun, and willingness to pursue it.
There is an old American friend who we all call him: stone. He is handsome, interesting, full of friends, outstanding children and a happy family. He has almost all the good things in the world. He has medical research projects in the United States, doing tumor optical research, etc. (sorry, I haven't asked him in detail), and then signed a contract with National Geographic Magazine. He can go to all over the world for free every year. As long as he is happy to report a topic, he can go from the source of Rhine to the end, from the source of the Mississippi River to the end. There was an event that had been traveling around the world for 88 days a year, so he must participate. He said, can I not go to South Africa, I went too many times...
Of course, he has always been very diligent, serving as a visiting professor in China, flying back two to three times a year, taking his graduate students, and each time, he lives in an old teacher dormitory. The conditions are bad, but it is still as sweet as honey milk. And recently, he finally played everything, whether it was Arctic Ocean and polar bear , or whether he put down his assault boat in Antarctica to land on the island to see new species.
Last month, he chose to be a seafarer in Antarctica for a month. He forgot that he had a camera and a mobile phone, but he was just a seafarer, wandering around the wind and waves again and again, just remembering to move forward. One day, I saw him poaching a handwritten Heart Sutra picture, and then said: Farewell dinner, all kinds of lively and sentimental. Arrive at Ushuaia tomorrow morning, and a group of people disembark and a group of people boarded. When I was looking at the slideshow, I seemed to be looking at unrelated photos, north of the Antarctic and south of the North Pole, is there any difference?
I left him a message: You must have it occasionally, you have too much, so you will be born. Unexpectedly, nearly a month later, I actually saw him write this sentence on his notebook that day.
(All pictures in this article belong to @redrocks)
is actually, whether it is work or relationship, why do we pick on what we have been silently liking for a long time before we arrived, and we are thinking about what we have not yet obtained. It’s just because we are greedy for new things, but greed for new things does not mean that we all have to have them. Even if we have the first place, we cannot stay alone on that mountain forever. If you conquer the mountain, it is not that the mountain will disappear, but that the mountain will still be there, and you will go down the mountain and grow old, or, to conquer the next goal you want to achieve.
When I was young, I always wanted to have more, better and more beautiful. But after I reached the age of 30, I would actually slowly make myself more stable, and then I would have a mentality of "having occasionally after working" for some beautiful things, and I no longer think that anything belongs to me. I will understand that anything belongs to me will change. Only in this way can we really cherish the spring and go to the journey of seeing cherry blossoms, and we will also miss our friends we haven't seen for a long time, and then offer an appointment for a lunch, and add more sincerity and sincerity to the current efforts.After returning from
, he saw an old friend who had been exploring the footprints of dinosaurs for many years. He found the first dinosaur specimen of human beings in amber. He watched him happily display the amber. No one recorded his process of eating and exploring in the mountains of Sichuan, the ice fields in Canada, and the mud in Myanmar. He would not stay at this glorious moment and would then devote himself to daily research.
Before writing this WeChat, I saw an old WeChat that I wrote, mentioning the Weibo of my old friend Cai Yinshan. She said that she would go back to see her grandmother and reluctantly say goodbye. "Grandma is an excellent tailor. When I was very young, she taught me to learn to appreciate ordinary life. It's almost okay, but don't think that this is really good and beautiful. You should have a distinction in your heart, but don't be bound by your own persistence. The real happiness is true. How wise she is." - A netizen @Zimo Zisu gave an explanation: You can live an ordinary life and be happy, but you should know in your heart what is a vast world. When pursuing the vast world, you should stop at the right time and not put the cart before the horse and let yourself lose happiness.
Yes, you must have a great world in your heart, but you should also live in the present, with the happiness and struggle of the present, the greed for the present, the temporary inseparability of the present, and the most important thing is the current labor.
After working, let yourself have something good occasionally, and then, after the next work, you will have something new, okay.
Good night.
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