Work is not the only choice for women, but work is the only way for women to find dignity!
Women must be rich; mistresses will also lose to you. I forgot which book I read, but the content is very impressive. The author is a woman whose father once taught her how to be a woman. She was taken to a senior club by her father to see how those women get along with her father. Later, she got married, and his other half had no mistress, she was the only woman. What did she learn? She learned how to play golf and how to evaluate fine wine; she learned to listen gently; she learned to express her opinions; she learned to photography; she learned to dance; she learned to make herself noble and beautiful; she learned to run her own career. She doesn't please men, but men like her. She is not a mistress, but she is unforgettable.
Women, they must know how to manage themselves. "Growing up together" is about to become a myth in modern society. The probability of a woman having a long-term meal ticket is getting lower and lower. When the marriage is broken, money disputes can easily lead to both men and women talking badly, and the victim is often a woman. Even women with a happy marriage have the opportunity to face the real life alone, because women generally live eight to ten years longer than men, and there are often reports of young widowed things. In the workplace, women are generally at a disadvantage than men, women generally have lower incomes than men, even the same job is different, and women change jobs more frequently than men. Most of the companies lay off employees first. Obviously, it is difficult for women to receive pensions, and even if they receive pensions, they are pitifully small, because men always distribute low-quality work to women.
When young, women felt that this day would never come, and they were always optimistic that "the boat would naturally be straight when it reaches the bridge." Women always escape reality, lack the concept of being prepared for danger in times of peace, and are unwilling to think about unlucky things. They only burn incense and worship Buddha when the problem occurs, pray for God's favor and help to reduce blessings and improve fortunes. In fact, if women learn to manage their finances as soon as possible and prepare for days without dependence, their destiny can be in their own hands.
Some time ago, the book "Women need to be rich" was sold out of stock. Not only women are reading it, but also very popular among male readers. The author is American housewife Judy Resnick. She emphasized: "Women should be young, beautiful, meet good men, and be rich to be happy." It is very dangerous for women to never plan for their future life. The author repeatedly brainwashed women in the book: "Smart women are looking for a warm and caring partner, not a long-term meal ticket." She said: Women must realize that the prince charming disappeared as early as the 1950s, and the workplace is not a fair competition. If women rely entirely on others, it may lead to losses in personal health and wealth.
Judy said: Women start investing and saving. The earlier they start, the greater the chance of success. The younger they are, the more beneficial they start to enrich common sense in this area. Sacrifice material enjoyment within their ability, learn to be careful and prepare for the future. Don’t be willing to be poor, so that they can have true freedom. Of course, you must never do anything for money.
Taiwan famous woman who graduated from higher vocational college He Liling once said in an interview: "I understood at a very young age that beauty and financial management are the most important things in a woman's life." She mentioned that her grandmother told her: "It doesn't matter if a woman's grades are poor, but she must know how to manage finances." When she was eight years old, her grandmother began to train her financial management concept, throwing her a book of accounts, and teaching her how to keep accounts. There are more than 200 lists of mutual aid associations in the account book. This second-year junior high school girl began to take the first step in financial management. He Liling also said a thought-provoking saying: "How long can a woman be young? How long can she be carefree? As a woman who is dependent on her habits, sometimes we should think about whether I have the ability to be self-sufficient if one day an unexpected situation occurs? One day we must find a way to live on ourselves, and only ourselves can protect our future." Therefore, women need to have money not to pursue pleasure, but the dignity of life.She said: "If a woman knows how to manage finances and knows independence, life is yours. Women cannot demand independence in the kitchen. Learning to manage finances is the basis for pursuing independence." He Liling's success in the workplace and love field is not unreasonable.
Some women think that financial management is a man's business and are too lazy to worry about their brains. Some women are afraid that they are too capable and cannot get the love of men. However, in real life, we have seen many examples. Couples who know financial planning have a happier marriage and wives who know how to manage finances are more happy. As ordinary women's father, brother or teacher, why can't they guide women to learn the concept of money as soon as possible, just like educating them to act like ladies.
"Women must be rich" No matter how poor they are, they must travel! The head determines your pocket, the freedom in your pocket, the happiness of your life, and the smile on your face.
Yes, I don’t deny my own changes, because I have seen many facts that I once didn’t understand, many fundamental things in men and women, and even said that I cannot change the rules personally. I believe that what I am doing now is right. No matter what others say, I will persist because opportunities are given to those who are prepared, not those who are compromised.
1: Never let any man be the whole of your life. You must know the principle that the more you invest, the more you lose.
2: Don’t give up your personality for any man. In fact, it’s not that you accommodate him, you can make him think how good you are. On the contrary, men prefer women with their own personality.
3: Never give up your career for love. It’s very simple. Choose love. Once love is gone, you will have nothing. Choose a career. Even if love is gone, you still have the ability to make money to support yourself and your own life.
4: Don’t try to rely on men to live, no one will keep you eternal enthusiasm for parasites.
5: Don't over-seek. If you love him, then for your future, you should cherish his gains and plan for your future; if you don't love him, you will leave him sooner or later, then don't give him the opportunity to say in front of others after breaking up.
6: Don't compromise and forgive when your love encounters a third party. You must know that some things can be forgiven, but some things are scars for a lifetime.
7: Don't care so much about the details of life. You must know that most men are children and need your care.
8: Don't discover it. When your love is gone, you still stubbornly persist. Sometimes, letting go is not only to give him freedom, but also to give yourself a way out.
9: Don’t think that anyone can’t live if you leave. You must know that your life comes from your parents. Apart from them, no one deserves the price of your life, and your parents will only hope you are happy and safe.
10: Don’t spend all your money on him, women should be nice to themselves.
11: Don’t dress yourself up for anyone or make yourself unkempt. Make yourself clean every day, beautiful, beautiful, just for yourself.
12: Don’t give up your friends for anyone, Ignore your family, you should know that if one day love is gone, what really supports you is not the vows of the past, but these people.
13: Don’t take things too seriously. We live in this world, we are all actors, performers on stage, and watch them off stage, so, act seriously when acting seriously, and watch them too seriously.
14: Don’t always use tears to keep them. Sometimes your tears backfire. Smile, you must face everything with confidence!
15: Don’t look down on yourself, everyone has their own excellence. If he doesn’t know how to cherish, just look for those who know how to cherish you, he won’t appreciate it, just look for those who appreciate you! Miss this stop just because the best one is waiting for you at the next stop.
16. Women ~ Who can they rely on? Single parents, rely on their partner after marriage! Or maybe no one is reliable! Because people's hearts will change with time! So women should understand: if you rely on mountains and mountains, you will flow, and it is better to rely on yourself than rely on others!
Pay for your youth and pay for your happiness! Come on!
Life is a practice, and making a living is also a love. Don't care about the purpose, what you care about is the scenery along the way and the mood of encounter. In practice, meet the unknown self and meet the future you. From then on, being single is priceless and having no regrets in marriage.