Nowadays, most girls are proficient in all kinds of martial arts, the top students in the class, the strong women at work, and the ever-changing superman in life. Not only are they as beautiful as flowers, but they are also regarded as essential skills by girls. Then these girls are turned into a special group: "women".
However, there are always people asking these tomboys who are working hard to live one by one:
"You are a girl, why do you have to work so hard?"
When these girls who are working hard to live go abroad to study, the problem becomes:
"You are a girl, why do you have to study abroad alone?"
Every time you encounter this kind of problem, I really want to reply: Do you have to care? ! Is this kind of problem very funny? !
Shouldn’t girls study hard and live seriously?
Girls can’t have goals? Have a pursuit?
Girls can live a life and wait for marriage to change their destiny? Oh, and you have to pack your parents?
People who often ask this kind of question, should you keep a little distance from me? I'm afraid you will affect my mood of hard work!
We work so hard because: in many cases, only ourselves are our greatest backer.
is like the "slightly fat" supermodel Gigi.
After the show, she left the scene under the escort of a bodyguard as usual, but was suddenly rushed up from behind and hugged by a man! Everyone around was confused, and even the bodyguards didn't react for a while. Do you know what Gigi reacted at this time?
The backhand is just one elbow! Handsome! Look, even if other people are full-time "protecting" your bodyguards, they may be negligent or unable to react for a moment. Just like Gigi in this incident, it was herself who helped her escape from danger. It was her efforts to practice boxing that enabled her to have the ability to protect herself.
Many times, society is still full of injustice to women, and you will encounter these situations from time to time: during interviews, what HR pays most attention to is not your work ability, but whether you have a boyfriend, when to get married, when to have a child...
This world is injustice, and this world will not be gentle because of your weakness, so you can only become strong, so you can defend yourself and win respect.
We work so hard not only to deserve the love we yearn for, but also to be able to marry only love.
There is a particularly popular single talk show on Netflix, and the host is called Ali Wong and Ali Huang. In addition to the fact that the jokes are really dirty and the words are really good, Ali's handsome husband, like the Harvard version of the male god Daniel Wu, also helped her earn the envy of girls (jealousy).
But when Ali and her husband got married, she helped her husband pay back tens of thousands of dollars in student loans. If Ali is not a UCLA student, she has a poor scholarship and has not become a screenwriter after graduation (she is also one of the screenwriters of American dramas "newcomers"), and does not have a certain financial strength, wouldn't Ali really worry that their love will go to the path of "poor couples and humble couples are sad"?
We work hard and live seriously, just to give ourselves the confidence to reject people we don’t love, and we don’t need to rely on marriage to save our lives. Only by understanding your own life can you be qualified to be responsible for your partner's life.
We work hard in order to one day when we stand by the person I love, no matter whether he is rich or has nothing, I can hug him with my hands. I don’t have to feel that he is rich, and we won’t be overwhelmed by his poverty.
We work so hard, just hope that we will not panic with our own efforts.
At the best age, every woman wants to live beautifully. Lipsticks, bags, high heels, beautiful skirts, perfumes of various colors... If you want to live in a beautiful house and drive a cool car, and more importantly, you want to take good care of your older parents! At least, parents don’t have to “dare not to get sick” because they are worried about medical expenses…and if you don’t work hard, who will achieve these for you?
The feeling of palm upward is no worse.No one will support you for the rest of his life, even his parents cannot. If you want to live a better life, you have to work hard. Even if a person can have the life he wants, he can gain the sense of security that women desire most. A sense of security is not something that others can give, but something that you give to yourself.
Whether it is Shu Qi or Ruby Lin, it is not because they work hard enough and earn enough that they can only marry love. I can earn
money myself, I can change the light bulb myself, and I take good care of myself. That is why we can wait for the right person to appear with confidence.
In fact, there is no tomboy, but girls who turn tears into armor one by one.
In the past few years, I have gone from a kitchen novices who can do nothing but boil water to steam, fried, fried, fried, fried, and pasta. I can show off everything. I have been scalded by hot oil for countless times.
I am alone in the countryside of the United States. It is almost the same as not being able to drive. I can't drive and have no legs. I force myself to deal with the professors at the same time. Reading, while spending four or five hours practicing driving every day, you can't even tell the difference between the south and north, and force yourself to become an old driver within a month;
As for being called a tomboy in China, only "hehe" is left after going abroad. What is a tomboy? When changing buckets of water by yourself, you will praise yourself, "It's such a good tomboy." After going abroad, you can survive even if you are thrown on Mars. When you are sick, you have to get up and take medicine by yourself, and you have to go to work after class, tomboy? You have become the Queen!
No matter how sad it was in the previous second, the next second, as soon as the facetime was connected, he immediately smiled like a flower. "I've had a meal!" "I've had a good sleep!" "I'm all very good at teachers and classmates!" "I like this place!" "Don't worry, I don't miss home at all!" Apart thousands of miles apart, the distance will also amplify worries and anxiety, so we can only be good actors to make our parents think that everything is fine.
Friends in the circle of friends to post their marriage certificates and weddings, and the classmates around you date, and you just want to work hard to get better, waiting for the person you love the most to appear...
"The clothes you like at first glance are often unaffordable, and the people who are moved at first glance often will not like you. Nothing you really want can be easily obtained."
Many times, girls choose to live as tomboys who don't know how to show weakness in others' words, because they have dreams that must be realized, the life that they yearn for the most, and the people they want to love.
I hope all girls can have invincible armor and meet shoulders that can shed tears. May every word you say: I'm fine. is really good.
And we also sincerely want to offer a big gift to girls who plan to go abroad. If you have any need to study abroad, if you have any confusion about studying abroad, come here, the 38th New Oriental International Education Exhibition-Wenzhou Station, we just want to solve some problems for you!
7-22 at 13:30 pm Jinxiu Hall on the fourth floor of the Sheraton Hotel in Wenzhou, we are waiting for you
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