Hsu Weining, one of the goddesses in Taiwan, turned out to be rejected when she was a child because she was born into a single-parent family and was too beautiful? She had unhappy experiences in her childhood. When she grew up, her love journey was not smooth, but she still did not stop looking for happiness! She had been cheated at least 4 times and broke off her 8-year relationship with Ruan Jingtian and finally married Qiu Ze : "The quiet years have already included all the sweetness"
I was rejected in my childhood
Taiwan goddess Xu Weining. After her debut in 2003, she has participated in many popular dramas, including "The Kiss of a Prank", "Next Stop, Happiness", " Deciding to Fall in Love with You after Drunk ", etc. It is a work that even Hong Kong people are familiar with! Xu Weining's mixed-race child has a pretty and elegant appearance, but he has a less happy childhood because of this? !
Xu Weining is a mixed-race child of China and the United States, but her father left her and her mother before she was born. She had never seen her father before, she had only seen photos, and her mother raised her alone. When I was in elementary school, the teacher asked who was a single-parent family. At that time, Xu Weining, who was still young, raised her hand naively: "Then she was constantly being teased about not having a father. Because of my appearance (mixed-race children), they would laugh at me with ugly words." Until she grew up, she didn't want to think about those ugly words again.
Exclusion of childhood
From the moment she raised her hand, she had been rejected and ridiculed in school. She was in great pain and asked her mother: "Why am I a mixed-race child? Why do I have no father?" Xu Weining's mother cried sadly, so she never asked these questions again since she knew that these questions had caused great harm to her mother.
Strong view of love
Xu Weining no longer has any persistence for his father he has never met: "I know that he (father) is still in this world and has his own family. But we don't know where he is. If one day I know where he is, maybe I will go and look at him secretly and will not let him discover it. I just want to prove that there is really a "dad"." It was not until I met friends such as Rainie Yang , Huang Hongsheng ( Little Devil ) in high school that I felt the warmth of my friends for the first time. However, she once emphasized that the marriage experience of the previous generation did not affect her view on marriage, and she was still strongly looking for happiness.
and Ruan Jingtian’s 8-year love
Hou Weining’s love journey was very bumpy after entering the industry. When it comes to the goddess’s predecessor, we have to mention Ruan Jingtian. Back then, Xu Weining and Ruan Jingtian were artists from the same company. In 2007, they were first photographed on the beach of Kenting . Ruan Jingtian helped Xu Weining apply sunscreen oil. After the two of them generously admitted their love, they became more and more high-profile. They even supported their boyfriends when Ruan Jingtian competed for the Best Actor in the Golden Horse Awards: "If you win the award, I will give you whatever you want!" It was once rumored that the two had reached the stage of talking about marriage and started living together.
But unexpectedly, the two of them had been in love for 8 years, but Ruan Jingtian's scandal never stopped. There were even rumors that the other party cheated on him four times, and the rumored parties included Zhou Dongyu , Taichung Girl and others, but Xu Weining also chose to forgive him. At that time, many people felt that it was not worth it for Xu Weining, but she never spoke. It was just silently staying with Ruan Jingtian. It was not until Ruan Jingtian finally got into a married actress that Xu Weining completely broke up. He was confirmed to be separated and broke up in 2015.
8 years of love
Even though she was hurt, Xu Weining did not stop looking for happiness, because she still firmly believes in the existence of true love: "In love, the other half I want is a person with the same values, outlook on life, and outlook on the future, because this is a person who wants to follow you for the rest of his life, so you must agree with everything about him. No matter how long it takes to find it, I believe I can find it, and finding it is a very beautiful thing."
Clear yourself to find new possibilities
Hou Weining chooses to spend more time reading and improving himself. He takes a month every year to go to a place where no one knows him and travels everywhere. She once said that she did this because she wanted to find more possibilities for herself: "Empty yourself first, put yourself in a stable state, and then fill yourself up." Even though her acting work is very hard, she never complained about her, but would thank the hard work that made her feel happy: "The words "hard and happiness are actually two sides."
again looking for happiness
In 2018, Xu Weining was rumored to be dating mainland advertising director Liu Younian , and even the news of her marriage was rumored. Although the two denied the marriage news, many people still believe that Xu Weining had been secretly married for two years. It is reported that due to the impact of the epidemic, the two people living in two places for a long time, causing their relationship to change. In 2021, Xu Weining told the media that they had returned to being single: "We both want to go on that road, but we have not succeeded. Thank you for your concern. It's great now." Xu Weining, who returned to the road to finding happiness, still firmly believes in finding true love. She once said: "Don't let those who love you wait for you because of unimportant people."
and Qiu Ze were married
until the end of 2021, Xu Weining finally made public marriage news. The marriage partner was Qiu Ze, one of the male gods in Taiwan. Although Qiu Ze is known as the "prodigal son in love" because of his rich love history, many fans at that time were worried that Xu Weining would love again, but the two have always been very sweet after marriage, which has changed many people. A media interviewed her after marriage, and she only used the four words "The years are quiet and good" to describe it: "Actually, we are both relatively low-key people, quietly enjoying the feeling of "The years are quiet and good." This is also the plain and sweet love that Xu Weining has always wanted.
personally feel the state of love
Some media asked Xu Weining whether the two were already in the state of "old husband and wife", but Xu Weining denied: "I will not use the word "old husband and wife" to describe the state of marriage. Because I think the state of love is felt step by step by step. I will not just decide whether to say whether we are going to the old husband and wife or which part of the old husband and wife we are now, because I believe that we will always be so sweet!" Such an answer is not only generous and decent, but also shows that the two of them have a very loving life after marriage!
makes the love prodigal son turn back
Qiu Ze has a rich love history and has a lot of pre-marital scandals, and there is also the legend of "changing a girlfriend for each movie", and even becomes a recognized "scumbag". Rainie Yang, Chen Qiaoen , Tang Yan , and Li Yufang are all ex-girlfriends. Just when everyone was worried about whether Xu Weining was happy after marriage, Qiu Ze had no scandals since the beginning of marriage, and was so low-key that there was almost no news, which made everyone sigh that Xu Weining had really successfully made the "prodigal son come back"~
Hou Weining also revealed that the two of them trusted and respected each other after marriage. She would never look through Qiu Ze's wardrobe and other personal belongings.Even though they didn't meet each other for more than ten days because they were filming their own movies, they were still very at ease with each other and lived a unique rhythm of life between the couple. From the various post-marriage visits Xu Weining mentioned marriage, a happy smile always flowed out on her face, and she knew that the goddess had finally found her true love and got happiness! I also hope that the two of them can continue to be so happy!
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