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During the National Day holiday, good things happen in your circle. The first thing is that Guo Biting gave birth to a little princess on October 1, and the whole family is immersed in the joy of welcoming the arrival of a new life.
It has been a week since the child was born, but there are still small turmoils around the outside world.
First, because Guo Biting was produced in Taiwan, Taiwanese media made great efforts to report and exposed a series of details, such as a live broadcast of production.
made the "new dad" Xiang Zuo very unhappy. He was eager to protect his wife and daughter and posted a message to the media, "A certain Taiwanese media, please let us go, it's not three things." The pictures are also quite cruel.
And everyone stared at Xiang Tai's Weibo. After all, from past experience, no matter what happened to the couple, the first person to officially announce was Xiang Tai. As of today's 10th, Xiang Tai's Weibo still did not officially announce the birth of the little princess, and outsiders could not help but have some speculations.
But Fan Jie is not more concerned about these things, because a familiar word was mentioned again when Guo Biting gave birth to a daughter: reward, reward.
"Mother-in-law rewards luxury villa"
"Husband rewards 100 million cash"
really want to ask, why is this word again? What exactly is the correct way to open this word?
01 Unequal status of men and women under "fertility rewards"
I don't know if you still remember, the words "reward, reward" similar to them caused a large-scale discussion last year.
In fact, female celebrities have always been "rewarded" by their parents-in-law and husband after giving birth, especially in wealthy families.
Luoshi Liang When he gave birth, he was "rewarded" by the Li family for giving birth to a child:
Xu Ziqi After giving birth to four children, he was awarded as a "100 billion daughter-in-law":
Gigi Lai Gigi Lai Gigi Lai was "rewarded" for 430 million yuan of yachts and houses, and also increased investment in the beauty salons run by Gigi Lai to help her develop business in China and overseas.
Wu Peici also received 700 million "rewards" by giving birth:
The expression of rich people is incomparable to ordinary people, but no one in the wealthy family can't speak of "rewards" and "rewards" until a wealthy boy who graduated from MIT, that is, the son of the gambling king and Xi Mengyao's husband He Youjun , told the story that the wealthy family has been hiding.
Let’s first review the video that caused the storm. That is, after Xi Mengyao gave birth to a son, He Youjun accepted an interview with a Hong Kong reporter:
- Reporter: Do you want to reward your wife?
- He Youjun: Reward your wife? Gifts are not convenient now, but I will definitely not take it lightly.
- Reporter: Do you want to pursue one?
- He Youjun: My mother thinks about it, and I think about it too.
- Reporter: How many do you want to have?
- He Youjun: More than three. But my wife may be unhappy when she hears it. It's so hard.
- Reporter: Do you want to have a son or a daughter?
- He Youjun: There is no pressure, let it go. If it is a daughter, Ah Xin ( He Chaoxin ) may be happier because she will be less stressed. After a few words, several big mistakes (bold fonts, you can carefully savor them), which caused a large area of discomfort. The word "reward" attracted great attention from netizens. The inequality behind it made female netizens angry:
"The word reward made me dream back to the Qing Dynasty..."
"Even if you use thanks, it would be much better"
He Youjun later found that he was "routine" by reporters, and quickly posted a message to clarify: it was the reporter who asked "how to reward" first. The pit they dug was not mentioned on my own initiative. I was really "pitted".
feels stupid, like the stupid son of a landlord?
is not the case.
Although He Youjun's language environment for growth and learning is mainly Cantonese and English, his Mandarin expression ability is not poor.
He has higher expression skills than most Mandarin native stars.
On the program " Love Time Difference ", Cai Kangyong, who wrote "Emotional Intelligence Class", praised him for his good speaking skills.
Every answer is appropriate
He did not want to claim himself
and he did not want to force you
so this time it seems that the reporter "intentionally digging the pit" and He Youjun "intentionally jumping the pit" were all caused by the subconscious.
Because in my heart, this is the concept.
Look at a story about "the birth of a wealthy grandson" with the smell of "the Qing Dynasty has not yet died". Everyone tacitly acknowledged that "the birth of a eldest grandson" is a great thing, and only then did the reporter choose the word "reward" when asking questions, and He Youjun subconsciously accepted and answered. No matter how clarified
is, it is difficult to distinguish it. Because people who truly subconsciously do not agree with this concept will be sensitively aware of it and will deny it as soon as possible. For example,
is not a "reward", but more of a "thank you" and give a big gift to thank your wife.
but he didn't.
naturally continued to talk.
Isn’t the word “reward” a scenario used to complete the task?
When a husband rewards his wife for giving birth, he has begun to turn intimate relationships into superior and subordinate relationships.
Do not objectify women with too obvious characteristics.
And if both parties really feel inequality, then even if they are called "gifts", they are "rewards".
Some people also say: Women are so hard to give birth to children, shouldn’t they be “rewarded”?
or secretly said in his heart: If you give me that much money, I don’t care whether it is a gift or a reward.
There are indeed many women who take the initiative to treat themselves as "fertility tools", because unfortunately, they do not realize that although women work hard but have self-achieving parts, it is a kind of self-achievement that does not require additional "gifts" or rewards.
But more women hope to get equal love and respect from their husbands, rather than a condescending "You gave birth to a person who passed on the family line for me, I want to reward you."
Do you think your family really has inherited the throne, right?
He Youjun's crash, Fan Jie thought everyone had already discussed the word "reward" clearly, but I don't know why after Guo Biting gave birth to a daughter this time, she saw words like "reward" and "reward"?
Haven’t the Qing Dynasty been dead yet?
02 The common routine behind the "birth reward" of wealthy families
In fact, behind the word "reward" is hidden many of the little thoughts of wealthy families.
Let’s talk about Xi Mengyao giving birth. According to the rules of the He family, Xi Mengyao became the "mother of the He family's grandson" after giving birth. After giving birth, the "reward" is divided into three parts:
, nine-digit cash "reward"
, one hundred million education fund, a combined total of 500 million
, this time, giving birth to a baby directly made the two little ones worth more than 700 million.
Then let’s take a look at how much money can Xi Mengyao make as the top five supermodel in China before production?
Let’s take a rough comparison:
Fanjie found the 2017 Forbes annual "Most Money Model" ranking, among which Liu Wen is the only Asian selected, with an income of US$6,500,000 (approximately RMB 43 million).
Xi Mengyao was not on the list, so her income will not be more than Liu Wen's 43 million per year. From this point of view, it seems that she has reached an asset level that is beyond the reach of her career after giving birth, but is this the truth?
Let’s take a look at how exquisite the so-called rewards of wealthy families are?
First of all, the largest property, worth 500 million yuan, was given by Liang Anqi, , but only He Youjun's name was written.
According to the domestic interpretation (III), Article 7 "If the property rights purchased for children are registered in the name of the investor's children after marriage, the property rights may be deemed to be a gift to only one of his own children in accordance with the provisions of Article 18, Paragraph (III) of the Marriage Law. The real estate should be recognized as the personal property of one of the spouses." It is very clear that the ownership of the house belongs to He Youjun alone, but I don't know how the terms in Hong Kong, China are calculated?
Come again, the 100 million education fund is not directly given cash, but a special foundation has been established to give the children annually or monthly income to them for education expenses.
So, in fact, what Xi Mengyao and her husband can really get is the first item, nine-digit cash, that is, about 100 million yuan.
But according to the previous annual income of supermodels with tens of millions of dollars, it may not be difficult to make this money, and the money is earned by yourself. Is it more tough to spend?
And the purpose of these "rewards" for giving birth is even more pointed: the reward of
is just like when the exam is done well. When parents reward you, they will definitely say "I hope you will continue to work hard next time."
So, there was also the fourth wife who was interviewed later. When the reporter asked how many people He Youjun and Xi Mengyao wanted to have, as a mother-in-law, she said: At least three, the more the better, a football team is fine...
turned to the front again, we also knew where the number He Youjun "I hope my wife gave birth to three, although she may be unhappy when she heard it" came from, right?
After all, this is a boy who even asks his mother if he doesn't know which finger to wear the ring when he proposes:
With the "reward" as the basis, you have a KPI, and the reproductive right is likely not yours.
Whether to give birth or how many, or even when you give birth, you must follow the arrangements of your husband's family.
"Kenbian Daughter-in-law" Xu Ziqi started with a caesarean section at her first child, and she went to her fourth child. She was born in 9th and 4th child. Before giving birth, she was a good day for her father-in-law to find someone. Most wealthy families that pay attention to Feng Shui and fate care about this.
Peicci Wu took 6 years to give birth to four babies, and two of them were born in order to make a good time and auspicious time and had a caesarean section in advance. After
gets the "reward", in addition to the expressions of parents-in-law and husband, and complete the task according to the "requirements", it is also possible that the "rewards" are not given to you or yours, and you still need to bear the risk of whether the family assets are stable.
Ji Xiaobo once "rewarded" Peici Wu to have a son and bought a half-mountain sea view villa worth 330 million yuan in Hong Kong. However, due to the great impact of Ji Xiaobo's family's financial crisis, this luxury house has been mortgaged three times in a row.
Looks at it this way, "rewards" are never real. They are not only accurately calculated by various precise calculations, but also have to share risks.
If this is the daily life of a wealthy family, are there any different wealthy families?
03 Wealthy families should also respect people
, and there are still Qingliu in wealthy families.
On August 27, 2013, Guo Jingjing gave birth to a son Huo Zhongxi , which is also the so-called grandson of a wealthy family. However, the short essay of Dad Huo Qigang is written like this:
"My son and Jingjing" and "My wife gave birth to a son for me", which one is more like the words said by a good man?
On April 2, 2017, Guo Jingjing's second child came and was a daughter.
Then, father-in-law Huo Zhenting was asked: Do you want to have another grandson? He looked like "it's not your business": "You have to ask your child's parents. After all, I am a grandfather, and the matter of the child should be decided by the parents."
reporter went to ask Guo Jingjing, "Is the second child not going to give birth to a son for the Huo family. Are the Huo family disappointed?" (How dare reporters in Hong Kong ask so much). Before she could answer, Huo Qigang rushed to help his wife answer: "Bomen and women are good, health is the most important thing. My family does not have the idea of having more children, grandchildren and blessings."
father-in-law did not overstep his authority, and her husband helped to help the rescue, and they all maintained one person, Guo Jingjing.
On January 1, 2019, Guo Jingjing gave birth to another daughter, and a reporter asked her mother-in-law Zhu Lingling, whether she would continue to give birth. The answer she got was also:
and listened to the couple. They would give birth if they liked it, but three were enough.
"three are enough" and the other family's "at least three" are more like what a good mother-in-law said?
Of course, the Huo family could not avoid giving a "reward" to Guo Jingjing's third child:
gave a 200 million mansion + an education fund of 100 million yuan when he gave birth to his eldest son;
gave him a big luxury house worth 100 million yuan when he gave birth to his eldest daughter;
gave him a famous watch worth 300,000 yuan.
was discovered again. Isn’t this a little too big?
mother-in-law Zhu Lingling has another golden sentence to help, " family is very good to Jingjing. They are all family members, and giving rewards will make you look particularly unfamiliar. "
was convinced by your family again.
Indeed, it was a long time before Guo Jingjing gave birth to her third child before she announced the good news. The Huo family has always hoped to protect her daughter-in-law and not be labeled as a "birth machine" so that she can have children and live according to her wishes.
She has long become a member of the Huo family and is unanimously protected and respected.
After giving birth to the second child, she said she wanted to have another child, and then she had another child; after the third child, she said that the family was "lively lively". If there is no accident, she should have been closed from now on.
Don’t give birth to a child for rewards, wealthy tasks, and struggle for childbirth, but you want to give birth to it before you give birth.
When there is no fertility KPI that must be completed and there is no condescending "requirements", in fact, even the "rewards" seem to have changed. Those money and houses are more like the support and care of a capable big family for a small family that is slowly getting bigger.
This may be the correct way for wealthy families to open the "fertility reward".
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Author: Yuer
Editor: Wusu
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