There is a saying that "It is the same for boys and girls, and daughters are also descendants of future generations." can be seen in the eyes of the parents of actress Xu Ting and , but is the kingly way to give birth to a son.
In this extremely boyish family, Xu Ting has always played the good image of her good daughter. never cares about her life or not, readily accepts her parents' blind requests.
On September 7, 2016, Xu Ting, who had been sucked by her parents, left the world sadly.
From the last article she posted, it can be seen that she was really relieved, Age All her body was ulcerated and died in the hospital bed in the hospital, Xu Ting's life was really too tragic, And what did she experience?
On October 3, 1990, the third girl in the Xu family was born. After was born, her parents named her Xu Ting.
The parents did not feel any joy at the arrival of the third daughter, and even sighed and said that they did not give birth to a son again.
The lost parents did not give up. In order to continue the incense at home, will not give up until they have a boy.
Parents are struggling, The fourth daughter, the fifth daughter, and the sixth daughter were born one after another.
At this point, the Xu family already has six daughters. The former family of five suddenly became a family of eight, but Xu Ting's parents did not give up the awareness of having a son.
Perhaps God can't stand it anymore. The seventh child was born, and finally the boy who was born to his parents regardless of their lives.
This is the seventh child of the Xu family. In an instant, the nine-member family finally came to an end.
In that era, the couple had to raise seven children. you can imagine how huge the pressure was.
Moreover, Xu Ting's parents were in the tea business and did not make a lot of money at that time. Even the family had a problem with food and clothing for nine people at one time.
The son is the baby in the family and he should give him the most extreme love.
Daughters can be given away at will. In the end, in order to reduce the burden on the family, Xu Ting's parents gave their two daughters to someone else's family.
Xu Ting felt that she was very lucky at that time and was not abandoned by her parents.
But Xu Ting didn't know that her future life was full of thorns, and she would even ruin her life.
When he was a child, Xu Ting was very well-behaved at home. She always looked like a gentle little white rabbit in front of her parents.
never dares to make parents angry. Xu Ting rushes to do housework at home . When other people's children were having fun in the playground , Xu Ting could already cook, wash clothes, and pick tea at home.
In order to please your parents, Xu Ting forced herself to continue to grow up.
In her eyes, as long as she can do things for her family and make her parents happy, it doesn’t matter how hard or tired she is.
Fortunately, in this humble life, there was a turnaround in Xu Ting's senior year of high school.
Originally, Xu Ting's father wanted her to go out to work and earn money to subsidize her family after graduating from high school, but Xu Ting refused to give up her chance to go to school. repeatedly begged for her parents to give her a chance to go to college, but her parents agreed.
But the premise is that if fails to get into college, Xu Ting must go out to work obediently to reduce the overhead pressure of the family of nine.
In 2009, Xu Ting, who knew nothing, could be said to have no foundation in acting, but she still bravely chose the film and television performance school for the exam.
did not have any teacher teaching, nor did he join any art exam training classes. Xu Ting thought about it alone before the exam with her own understanding of performance.
Xu Ting was so lucky. With zero foundation, successfully entered the performance department of Sichuan Media College, , with the first place in Anhui Province.
I was admitted to university and had an extra way out. Xu Ting was very happy.
You can think of the four years of university tuition and living expenses, and Xu Ting was a little hesitant.
She knew clearly that it was impossible for parents to donate generously to themselves for this expensive tuition fee in art colleges.
But seeing that the future is just under your feet, it is impossible to give up like this. gritted his teeth, and Xu Ting chose to work and study half-time.
From the moment I stepped into the school gate, Xu Ting's life was destined to run around for life.
In the freshman year, Xu Ting attracted much attention because of her pure appearance, so the crew often invited Xu Ting to play some supporting roles.
You can get in touch with work in the industry at the beginning. Xu Ting cherishes every opportunity very much. No matter how insignificant the role it is, Xu Ting works diligently and does not slackew.
This also led to Xu Ting being very popular among the crew when she was playing a supporting role. Soon in 2010, Xu Ting participated in the "Chinese Daughter Red Overseas Chinese Beauty Model Competition" and successfully entered the top 50 in the Chengdu competition area.
Look at this trend and continues to develop, Xu Ting’s days of making her mark in the entertainment industry are not far away.
But fate rewards Xu Ting and tortures her.
At that time, Xu Ting was already a sophomore, and Xu Ting's mother called : "The tea business at home is seriously losing money, and I owe others a lot of money. You should not go to college anymore. Let's help your family work to pay off their debts first."
When I heard this news, Xu Ting felt a little broken.
Originally, seven people in the family had to eat, which was a big problem. Now the tea business is in a loss, and several younger brothers and sisters are going to school again.
Parents look left and right, both Xu Ting is the most suitable for making money for her family.
The sensible Xu Ting certainly did not refuse. She left school decisively and took the train to Beijing with the remaining 300 yuan in her hand.
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Except for going back to bed at night, Xu Ting is looking for ways to make money outside. She has done dishwasher in restaurant, tutors in various disciplines, waiters in various KTV bars, and Xu Ting.
After get off work, return to the basement, eat a bucket of instant noodles or buy some junk food, and fills your croaking stomach.
should have studied in school, ate, drank and have fun while resting, and lived a carefree life.
But Xu Ting had no choice. Looking at the basement where there was no trace of light, Xu Ting thought that this was her life.
It seems that working and earning money to subsidize your family, but for Xu Ting, it is the thing to realize her own value.
Relying on his experience as a supporting actor in college, Xu Ting began to find work related to performance.
At that time, the movie "House of the King of " directed by Lu Chuan was held nationwide. At that time, the casting event was held by the actor Yu Ji .
Seeing this, Xu Ting also applied for the job with a try mentality, but she failed in the end, but she also won the top 20 in the Chengdu Division of .
Slowly, Xu Ting began to receive more people, and naturally her acting career became wider.
Soon in the same year, the TV series " Xi Shi Secret History " directed by You Xiaogang in the same year was being selected for actors, and Xu Ting was fortunate to reach the top 30 in the country.
Although he still failed to participate in the TV series, more people care about Xu Ting.
With her gentle appearance, Xu Ting got the opportunity to star in a TV series for the first time in 2012.
In the family emotional drama " Dad Going Home ", Xu Ting plays with actors such as Liu Wei , Yang Zi , Zhang Yishan and other actors.
It can be said that as a new generation of actors, the role of Li Yao played by Xu Ting brings a brand new visual enjoyment to the audience.
After my parents in my hometown learned that Xu Ting made money by filming, started to keep calling her daughter to ask for money.
Seeing that his daughter is becoming more and more promising, Xu Ting's parents are not proud, just try every means to find her daughter to get hard-earned money.
I am already very tired from filming. Xu Ting often has a meal but no more, and she has to take care of other people at home all the time.
Every day Xu Ting is afraid of receiving calls from her parents, because she has never felt the concern of her family, so she can only send money to her account coldly.
But Xu Ting had no way to resist. In order to make her parents happy, she still started to take on the role without saying a word.
But in such a huge entertainment industry, there are many young and beautiful actors. Xu Ting has no advantage in the ranking.
However, Xu Ting treats people gently, works hard, always looks peaceful and quiet, and even the people around her are willing to get along with her.
Over time, Xu Ting's particularly popular sense of intimacy has won many roles for herself.
2013 comedy movie "The Little God is Coming", also has the emotional drama "Second Uncle" co-starring with Shi Ke, , Yu Xiaoguang , and the urban emotional drama "Hanger Home" starring with Yu Haoming , Shen Mengchen , , three dramas a year, Xu Ting began to make her mark in the entertainment industry.
Although the revenue has increased a lot compared to before, Xu Ting still dared not spend it at will.
Because the other side of the parents will ask for money at any time.
saved enough 50,000 yuan, and Xu Ting went to the bank as soon as possible. transferred the front to her parents' account, and turned around to a hot pot, but Xu Ting couldn't bear to eat it. Xu Ting doesn't even have a decent bottle of perfume carried by female celebrities, and often needs to borrow other girls from the crew for their use.
Xu Ting treats herself like this and gives back to her parents with everything, The parents only treat her as a money tree. As long as her daughter sends money to her home, she is filial.
Once, Xu Ting received a call from her mother while filming, and was scolded because Xu Ting did not send money to her family in time.
is busy filming, and Xu Ting has no time to mess around. hurriedly asked someone to borrow money to send it, and 's mother's side stopped.
365 days a year, Xu Ting didn't dare to rest. runs on various sets every day, waiting for the crew to start filming.
Even if you have a high fever, you dare not take leave to go to the hospital, because once the person leaves, Xu Ting's role will be replaced.
So even if you cry so hard that you are soaking, Xu Ting endured it. The cold winter has the scene of soaking in water, and Xu Ting is determined not to use a substitute.
endured the biting river water alone. I often filmed several photos but couldn't pass the director's level, so I stayed in the water for longer.
In addition to being prone to illness, Xu Ting also has to run several venues a day to film. often gets up at four or five in the morning, so she dare not delay any delay.
Countless times stayed up late to get on the scene, Xu Ting suffered from lumbar disc herniation in her twenties.
In those years of acting, Xu Ting has filmed more than 50 movies. Compared with many popular actors, Xu Ting’s professionalism is not inferior at all.
I have to say that the machine has rest, but Xu Ting’s life is even more tiring than the machine.
But for the requests from my family, Xu Ting did not seem to feel that it was a bottomless pit.
bluntly said that every time I get a pay to pay to my family, I feel a sense of accomplishment. just wants to realize my value at home and make my parents proud of myself.
By 2015, Xu Ting received several dramas at once, including the magic web drama " Backlight Love " , the light comedy " Hou Tianming's Dream " , the movie " Australian Empress " and the unit drama " Chai Biyun , and the light comedy " Hou Tianming's Dream " , as well as the movie " Australian Empress " and the unit drama " Can Pain 17-Year-Old ".
So as soon as the end of the year was approaching, Xu Ting transferred 100,000 yuan to her parents, and the lines were full of gratitude to her parents.
Perhaps outsiders think that Xu Ting is a kind and innocent girl.
After several years of hard work, finally paid off the debt for his parents, and Xu Ting still subsidized the fees for his younger brother and sister to go to school.
Even Xu Ting helped prepare the dowry for her sister to get married.
But the most hateful thing is that when the family saw Xu Ting making money, simply stopped working, and the whole family was counting on Xu Ting to make money and go home.
Because my younger brother has no career, Xu Ting also transferred the cake shop she opened to her younger brother's name and gave her many shares.
When Xu Ting learned that her father was going to buy a house for her younger brother, gave out all her savings. After the money was transferred, Xu Ting's card was less than a thousand yuan left.
In 2015, my brother bought his new house. Soon on New Year's Day 2016, the family of moved into the new house.
Xu Ting originally thought that a new life was about to begin, but However, cancer came to Xu Ting.
After buying a new house, in order to save money, Xu Ting's parents bought many of the decoration materials that bought were unqualified. In addition, the new house has been decorating for less than three months, which led to the family formaldehyde poisoning .
But because other people have strong physical resistance, there is no big problem. , Xu Ting, who has weak physical resistance due to filming, was most eroded by the toxins in formaldehyde .
At that time, Xu Ting felt like her body was overdrawn, so she went to the hospital for a check-up.
But none of the family accompanied Xu Ting, and even their parents felt that it was nothing.
It was not until Xu Ting got the test form that learned that she had lymphoma. Xu Ting was still so young, and it was really unfair to be plagued by such a disease.
When fans learned about such news, they would send messages to Xu Ting as soon as possible, encouraging her to be able to overcome the disease.
, but a long article posted by Xu Ting is shocking.
Xu Ting's long article says that after seeing that she suffered from cancer, feels that she will not be so tired in her life because she can be free, let go of everything, and be herself.
In the article with nearly a thousand words, you can't feel Xu Ting's fear of cancer. is actually a kind of relief, an unprecedented relaxation.
Maybe everyone will wonder why Xu Ting does not have a strong desire to survive in such a beautiful youth, but just wants to be free.
The reason is also in the article posted by Xu Ting. Xu Ting tells the story of her from the moment she was born to the time she suffered from cancer, and she did not have a chance to live for herself.
After more than twenty years of life, I have been working hard for my parents to pay off my debts, buy a house, paying tuition for my younger brother, and paying rent. I feel so stressed that I can't breathe.
It is the real rest until you lie on the cold hospital bed.
At the countdown of life, Xu Ting was still saving money for her parents. She knew that chemotherapy was painful and that not only had to endure torture but also could accelerate death.
Xu Ting was afraid that she would spend the money in the end and the disease was not cured, so she chose traditional Chinese medicine treatment.
After that, my mother took Xu Ting to search for old Chinese medicine doctors everywhere, looking for various folk remedies, but she did not receive scientific treatments. is just to save money.
Under the treatment of traditional Chinese medicine, Xu Ting has to undergo a lot of cupping, acupuncture, scraping, every day. After a series of operations of
, Xu Ting looked very painful. once lost to 78 kilograms because she couldn't eat anything.
But this so-called traditional Chinese medicine treatment method did not bring hope to Xu Ting's condition, and instead increased the burden on the body.
under cupping, blood circulation and acupuncture, Xu Ting suffered severe bacterial infection, and eventually her skin and lungs were all affected.
As the condition became increasingly uncontrollable, his parents took Xu Ting back to the hospital for chemotherapy.
After traditional Chinese medicine treatment, Xu Ting has long missed the best time for chemotherapy.
Xu Ting was in pain during that time, but she still encouraged patients like herself and advised them to live strongly.
Even to the last moment of her life, Xu Ting was still feeling that she had found out the cause of the disease first, so that her family could escape the disaster, and used her life to exchange for the safety of the whole family. She was very happy.
In the last few days, Xu Ting's body began to have abnormalities, The arms gradually began to appear as burnt black, and the skin was slowly ulcerating.
On September 7, 2016, Xu Ting said goodbye to the world completely. She did not leave beautifully on the bed of , but died of festering.
Xu Ting's life stopped at the beautiful 26 years old, it was so pitiful and sad.
After Xu Ting left, the family's operations were too hateful. did not send her daughter away, but immediately applied to the court to deal with Xu Ting's inheritance.
can be checked, but found that Xu Ting's account only has a few thousand yuan.
When facing the media, Xu Ting's parents also wanted to use the influence of their deceased daughter to push their son and send him to the entertainment industry.
My parents have not yet awakened to this point. Xu Ting has really suffered too much in such a family.
In contrast, Xu Ting's sister did not post a message to mourn her own sister on September 7th, but instead posted a delicious meal.
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I have to say that I have such an excellent daughter, and I am in the entertainment industry. If my parents don’t ask for it like a blood-sucking G, maybe Xu Ting doesn’t have to work if she is better. She may have better days in the future.
However, the road I have walked cannot be turned back. Xu Ting, so kind, turned into an angel and went to another place.
I hope Xu Ting can have a good rest there, and I hope no one will ever go through such a life.
Bravely follow your heart and protect everyone around you.
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