This is a scene written by Wang Jian in "The New Married Woman". From these sentences, we can see that from ancient times to the present, our relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been filial and kind.

"In the kitchen for three days, wash your hands and make soup. If you don't know the nature of a girl, please send me a little girl to taste it first."

This is the scene written by Wang Jian in "The New Married Woman". From these sentences, we can see that from ancient times to the present, our relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been filial and kind. Only such a family can live happily, otherwise it will be in chaos. Therefore, the key to whether a family is happy is whether everyone in the family can handle the relationship well. However, since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a big problem and a challenge that every family has to face. In the entertainment industry, all every move has attracted much attention, so the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law of many celebrities is even more talked about. Especially for some female celebrities who marry into wealthy families, their mother-in-law's attitude towards them is something that ordinary people often talk about after dinner.

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heroes mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Many female celebrities in the entertainment industry have sharpened their heads and wanted to enter the wealthy family, but the rules of wealthy families are strict. For these female celebrities in the entertainment industry, many mothers-in-law actually don’t like it. After all, it is well known that the entertainment industry is a big dyeing vat, and these female celebrities are definitely more or less dirty. For example, Wang Yan gave up her acting career after marrying into a wealthy family. When she participated in " Ace vs. Ace ", anyone with discerning eyes could feel her grievance and sadness. But there are also many good people who have married and the relationship is handled well. The most typical one is Guo Jingjing . Not only has she lived a happy and sweet life, but she also brought her in-laws to live a thrifty life and changed them through her own efforts.

But today the editor is not talking about them, but the rookies in the entertainment industry who have just married into a wealthy family, and her relationship with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also handled very well, that is, goddess Guo Biting . Since Guo Biting married , Xiang Zuo, , we can clearly feel that her works are not as many as before, and it can even be said to be very few. The opportunities for Guo Biting to appear are basically her variety shows or some news about her pregnancy and having babies. The variety shows are still the type of family that she participated with her husband. In other words, after getting married, Guo Biting basically no longer has her own light. But Guo Biting was happy to accept all this. It was obvious that Guo Biting did not agree with getting married, having children and wandering around a man before. Why did she have such a big change?

All this comes from her mother-in-law Xiang Tai Chen Lan. In fact, if we count the relationship between Xiang Tai and Guo Biting, we can find that Xiang Tai is the dominant part of the relationship, partly because of Guo Biting's own personality problems, and on the other hand, it is because Xiang Tai is the one who takes the initiative to develop this relationship. Guo Biting and Xiang Zuo were finally able to get together, mainly because Guo Biting was the first to be Xiang Tai. Xiang Zuo is a man who is more mama's baby, so he must obey Xiang Tai's words. In addition, Guo Biting is indeed exquisite and beautiful, so the two of them can get together.

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Xiang Tai’s experience

So why did Xiang Tai fall in love with Guo Biting? This has a lot to do with Xiang Tai’s own experience. Although she looks too cool in the entertainment industry, she is not very good at her own background. Born in 1959, she has always lived a happy life as a child. However, when Chen Lan was 6 years old, the doctor told her that she had leukemia , which caused a lot of pain to Chen Lan at the young age. However, luckier than most people, Chen Lan has doctors at home, so they used all the resources they could use to treat Xiang Tai. God couldn't bear to take her, so a kind-hearted person donated her bone marrow to her, and Xiang Tai saved her life.

However, this time her life was at stake and made her understand how lucky she was to be able to live well. Therefore, Chen Lan is very precious to her destiny and also studies hard.Chen Lan has always been among the top students in the class since she was a child, and she has always been the first place, which makes her family worry-free. However, her good life did not affect the people around her, because Chen Lan's mother developed many bad habits at this time, the most important of which was that her mother fell in love with playing mahjong.

It is normal to just be a small pastime, but Chen Lan's mother's appetite is too big. As she gets deeper and deeper in the mahjong hall, Chen Lan's property in her family has been ruined by her mother, and she even owe a lot of debts outside. Seeing that he would be chased to pay the bill every day, Chen Lan's mother was also very upset. At this time, Chen Lan was already tall and graceful. Looking at her beautiful girl, Chen Lan's mother hit her daughter's head.

At this time, Chen Lan, who is determined to become an excellent fashion designer, would never have thought that her mother would ruin her future. Just when she returned home happily with the admission notice from her favorite university, , and wanted to share the joy with her mother, she was blown away by her mother because in 1977, she was sold to a dance hall.

The unbelievable Chen Lan was very angry at her mother's actions. Just imagine that the things she worked hard were easily ruined, or was the closest person. Who can stand it? But her mother still asked her father to kneel down to her, which made Chen Lan even more collapsed. She shouted excitedly: "It is impossible to make herself a dancer, unless she lifted herself over there!" After saying this, Chen Lan really chose the most extreme way, which was to end her life and let herself be free. According to Chen Lan's later recollection, this was the weakest moment in her life.

Later, after Chen Lan was rescued, she suddenly realized a lot of things. At a young age, she had already passed by death twice, so she took everything lightly in front of her. So after she recovered, she began to march into the modeling industry. You should know that Chen Lan was a perfect beauty when she was young. He has bright and delicate facial features and a tall figure, which is very suitable for being a model. At the peak of Chen Lan's appearance, it can be said that she was not inferior to all Hong Kong stars back then.

So Chen Lan was doing well in the modeling industry, so many people came to the door at that time to let Chen Lan take on advertisements. With the money earned by these advertisements, Chen Lan finally paid off the debt raised by her mother. Then it was at this time that Chen Lan also met her true destiny Xiang Huaqiang . Although Xiang Huaqiang was married to Ding Pei at that time, Ding Pei always had Bruce Lee in his heart, and was more grateful to Xiang Huaqiang, so Ding Pei happily withdrew from the world of three people. After

, Chen Lan and Xiang Huaqiang worked hard step by step, starting from being poor and innocent at the beginning. Xiang Tai has suffered with Xiang Huaqiang over the years, starting from the hardest things, slowly making a fortune, and later becoming a big shot in Hong Kong. It can be said that they have encountered many ups and downs along the way, but Chen Lan still has the character of a little girl. Even if she is already the name "Xiang Tai" that everyone in the entertainment industry should respect, she always retains the innocence deep in her heart. Xiang Tai likes Guo Biting so much, it is precisely because she saw this attribute in Guo Biting that made Xiang Tai see her back then.

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8 Submissive to Guo Biting

What Guo Biting is different from Xiang Tai is that Guo Biting has lived very happily since she was a child. Guo Biting has three sisters, and she is the biggest one. Although Guo Biting's family conditions were not very good when she was a child, her father opened a breakfast shop and there was no problem in supporting her family. Moreover, when she was a child, Guo Biting looked very cute and carved. Many people call her "Soymilk Xishi" because she grinds the soymilk at home by herself.

people in the family think that girls should have their own strengths, so Guo’s father sent Guo Biting to learn painting very early, hoping to make her a talented girl, but unexpectedly, Guo Biting really likes painting very much, and devotes herself to it, and even wastes her studies for painting. So in order to make her study hard, Guo’s father stopped her learning to draw. Guo Biting fell in love with football again, but Guo’s father also felt that girls should be more quiet and more ladylike, so he refused Guo Biting to continue playing football.

From this we can see that Guo Biting is actually a person who is accustomed to obedience and never fights for her true thoughts, but she does whatever others ask her to do. Therefore, it is precisely because of this kind of submissive personality that we can successfully marry into Xiang’s family. After all, Xiang Tai is a very strong person. She likes Guo Biting, but if Guo Biting is like Xiang Tai and is also a tough person, then their relationship will only be constantly rubbing, rather than being happy like now.

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Xiang Tai's Way of Way of Way

And Xiang Tai and Guo Biting get along so well, Xiang Tai also used the means in it. In fact, she also used her "Waiting" means to warm Guo Biting's heart bit by bit, so even if Xiang Tai is strong, Guo Biting will not have too much resistance. We can see these from the small details of the two people's daily life.

The first encounter between the two was on a parent-child program. At that time, Chen Lan had fallen at first sight when she saw Guo Biting. Looking at the beautiful Guo Biting, Xiang Tai has never been stingy with her praise, and she kept sighing, "It would be great if it were my own daughter." Then Xiang Tai began to match Guo Biting with her son. Such a variety show that was originally a parent-child program was made into a variety show by Xiang Tai. We also know the story behind it. Guo Biting and Xiang Zuo were indeed together. Before the show ended, they had already announced their relationship. So as the number one fan of the couple, Xiang Tai, who made up the marriage, was so happy that he couldn't stop talking about it.

The first two got along in exchange for identities. So Guo Biting, who is a daughter, got in touch with Xiang Tai and found that this influential figure was actually very amiable, and her first impression must be very good. In addition, Xiang Tai kept saying sweet words, so she became Xiang Tai's prospective daughter-in-law. This shows that Xiang Tai’s policy of care for the gentleness is successful. And which girl doesn’t want her mother-in-law to be easy to get along with? Of course, Guo Biting won’t miss her mother-in-law who is so domineering and rich.

And Xiang Tai is not only kind to Guo Biting when facing the camera. She is the one who says that she can do it even if she takes action. After Guo Biting said that she liked some pastoral life like growing vegetables and raising animals, Xiang Tai, who was not Guo Biting's mother-in-law at the time, said that she could buy a piece of land in Hong Kong so that Guo Biting could grow vegetables and raise animals. What is Hong Kong’s territory? Every inch of land is valuable, just for the smile of your daughter-in-law. Who can withstand such love?

And on the show, Xiang Tai, who has obsessive-compulsive disorder, has been fiddling with his mobile phone. The director on the show kept reminding her to look at the camera. He smiled too embarrassedly because she couldn't stand the little red dots on her phone. If so, she had to clean it up, so she fiddled with the phone. But she immediately raised her phone and showed her screensaver to the program team. It turned out that her screensaver was Guo Biting. This also shocked everyone present. This big sister in Hong Kong is not her son and husband, but her daughter-in-law. I believe that this feeling of being valued by her mother-in-law is also what many girls dream of!

Not to mention mother-in-law, it is just my own mother. I guess many people don’t know how to use their daughter’s photos as wallpapers. But it seems that Chen Lan really likes this daughter-in-law very much.Just imagine if my mother-in-law was like this, who would dare to be dissatisfied with her? It's no wonder that Guo Biting went from being unwilling to revolve around the child to becoming a good daughter-in-law who was immediately urged to give birth to a second child after giving birth. Xiang Tai's methods are indeed clever.

But Xiang Tai's desire to control Guo Biting is not something that ordinary people can bear. Like Guo Biting’s original social platforms, she would express her truest thoughts on these platforms. For example, when they were together, Guo Biting lamented that the people around her were consuming her. Seeing that her baby daughter-in-law was unhappy, Xiang Tai quickly commented and comforted her on Weibo. When I see Guo Biting changing her hairstyle and dyeing her new colors, I will also comment below on why she didn’t report to me. By all these things, we can see that Xiang Tai has a domineering desire to control Guo Biting. If these are put on ordinary girls, he would think that his mother-in-law is too much in charge.

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Summary

But we analyzed above that Guo Biting belongs to the obedience type, so she should be immune to these. Moreover, under the sugar-coated shell of my mother-in-law, I may feel that my mother-in-law cares very much. It can be said that the two of them can become mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and all aspects are complementary, and there will be no such thing as a discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter- And not only that, there is another point that Xiang Tai really loves Guo Biting, which is the most important thing. In all relationships, even if the personalities are not harmonious, as long as you have sincerity, I believe that you will understand each other. Even two polygons can be integrated in the end. This is the true meaning of getting along. Today, Guo Biting has given birth to a "little cucumber", and it has been rumored to have been pregnant with a second child recently. Although we don't know the truth or falsehood of this matter, we believe that their second child will definitely come in the near future.