You are so beautiful, like a Barbie doll.
If these words are used to praise others, they will be more or less exaggerated. But if it is used on Angelica, it will definitely be a heartfelt emotion.
After all, Angelica has a concave figure, and her waist circumference is only 51 cm; in addition, her weight remains at around 41 kg all year round. She dressed up a little bit like
, and then matched it with an innocent expression, and looked like a real Barbie!
Relying on such a look and figure, Angelica is also a big internet celebrity in Russia. Whenever I walk outside, someone will invite her to take photos with her.
However, Angelica said in the interview: Some people praise her for her beauty in public, but secretly scold her, saying that she looks like a "fool".
Why is this?
In the 1960s, Barbie dolls were popular with many women.
Girls as young as four or five years old, aunts and grandmas in their sixties or seventies all like to have toys like Barbie dolls. Even female stars want to have their own customized doll.
Angelica's mother is a heavy obsessive lover of Barbie dolls.
When she was young, she also walked through the " Barbie style". However, she was not delicate enough, and she always felt an indescribable sense of incongruity when she dressed up as a Barbie doll.
She regretted this, but she had no choice but to do anything about it. Until, she gave birth to Angelica.
Like many Russian beauties, Angelica, born in 1988, has delicate facial features. In addition, her facial features look soft and lack a "fighting look".
Looking at such a daughter, Angelica's mother had new plans.
She bought her daughter's princess clothes and crowns, and dressed her daughter like a little princess. In order to make Angelica have this awareness, her parents and brother also called her at home "Princess" .
After Angelica was six or seven years old, her mother started to put on makeup and dress her up beautifully.
It is common to say that this approach is common. After all, which mother doesn’t want to make her daughter a beautiful little princess? However, this mother's behavior was a bit extreme.
It turns out that in order to give Angelica the consciousness of being a princess, her mother rarely let her go of freedom.
The same is true for my mother even when she is in school. She either hired a tutor for her daughter or arranged for her to go to a noble school with very private nature.
Angelica's father also objected to this, but he did not get his wife's approval.
Just like that, Angelica walked all the way, like a "captive" little princess.
After adolescence, Angelica began to develop rapidly like many of her peers. Seeing that his daughter was about to "not Barbie", the mother was anxious again.
So, she began to use external forces to help her daughter stabilize her appearance.
When I was in middle school, other students were studying hard, but Angelica was addicted to exercise.
Personal trainer arranged her an intensive exercise plan. Exercise 5 days a week, two to three hours a day. For Angelica, who has grown up, this exercise is too intense.
She also cried to her mother, saying that she was too tired.
But my mother said: If you don’t do this, your figure may be distorted and you don’t look like Barbie.
As a child, Angelica, who was determined to be a Barbie doll, heard such a "threat", so she had to grit her teeth and continue to persevere.
And what's even more tragic is that even though she is obviously hungry, Angelica still has to eat a "fitness meal". A rice like
is nutritious, but it is not very suitable for Angelica's appetite. After all, which child doesn’t like “junk foods like hamburgers, fried foods, and milk tea?
However, Angelica not only can’t eat these, but she even rarely eats sugar.
Not to mention a child, even an adult, she cannot refuse the temptation of delicious food!
Especially, Angelica felt even more painful when she watched her family feast. But what could she do?
As a daughter, she could only obey her mother unconditionally. What's more, her mother has instilled the idea of "being a Barbie doll" into Angelica's heart.
I force my daughter to complete the dream that I cannot complete. Is this love or special treatment?
However, the mother's arrangement seems to have brought Angelica the benefits that her peers do not have.
Wavy curly hair, concave and convex figure, and a delicate face, Angelica became a Russian internet celebrity at such a young age.
If you have relatives coming to your house, they always look for Angelica to take photos; walking on the street, there are many people who chat with Angelica. With this, Angelica began to take advertisements and endorsements.
So, the age when the students were still looking for their parents to ask for money, Angelica realized their wealth. Rich in freedom.
However, while gaining fame and fortune, Angelica also paid a considerable price.
For example, in order to maintain her waistline of 51 cm, Angelica has been wearing a waist since middle school.
And, in order to cater to Angelica cannot laugh out loud and her expression becomes very stiff.
Looking at Angelica like this, some people are really envious, but some people think: Angelica is too "silly". Because she gave up her life in order to realize her mother's wish.
Regarding this Angelica herself knew it, but she had no choice at all.
Not to mention dressing, even when she went out, Angelica had to get her mother's permission. Especially after graduating from college, her mother's discipline was even tighter.
, like classmate reunions, traveling with friends, etc., Angelica did not. She had to be with her mother's company. Can be active.
After the urge to discipline, Angelica also had doubts.
"My mother doesn't allow me to have a boyfriend, but she indulges me in the photo."
"After having a job, I wanted to move out, but my mother disagreed. She always says that I am a little princess, just be as good as a Barbie doll. ". A life like
. A life like this looks glamorous, but Angelica has no freedom and seems to be unable to live independently.
After all, she is like a canary raised by her parents. While staying away from secular disputes, she also loses a happiness that belongs to her peers.
. l2Watching the people around her fall in love and get married, Angelica also fantasized about her future life.
She thought that one day she would find her own Ken. In the world of Barbie dolls, Ken is the other half of her life with her.
However, Angelica was also very worried. Because she found that she could not handle these problems after leaving her mother.
Is this like that shark experiment?
Put the shark and some small fish in a fish tank, and then erect a piece of glass in the middle. Initially, sharks would constantly bump into the fish tank to forage. But after several hits, the shark stopped resisting.
Finally, when the experimenter took the glass away, even if the fish kept swimming around, the shark would not eat them.
Because the shark at this time already had a fixed mindset, it was worried that it would be hurt.
is just like Angelica. In an interview seven years ago, Angelica also said that will live independently one day. However, seven years have passed, and at the age of 34, she still lives under the protection of her family.
She has no social activities and no boyfriend. Angelica like
is happy, but also lonely.
Perhaps, when one day my mother is willing to let go, it is when Angelica really grows up. At that time, she would have a partner who really likes and is willing to take care of her and live a happy life with her.
I just don’t know when Angelica will wait for this day?