Tonight I watched Shu Qi and Peng Yuyan's movie "The Leftovers Are Kings" starring Shu Qi and Peng Yuyan. After watching it, I didn't understand much.
First talk about this leftover woman. Shu Qi plays Ru Xi in the film, she is only thirty years old, thirty years old, what a good age, why do you think so much, your days are dim and your life is boring, I wonder what year it will be? Think about it in reality, Shanghai locals have their own apartment, cars, careers, good looks and tall figures. Does God love you too much? It’s just that I don’t have a boyfriend, it’s just that I don’t have a boyfriend. I’ve said important things three times. Are you as for this pain? How do you let countless ordinary women who work hard in Shanghai without a house, car, and appearance live? It's simply pretentious! Besides, even if you are single, so what? Thirty years old is the best age for a woman. The blooming rose is the time when you are full of motivation for everything. Your career is the moment to reach the peak. You have experience, resilience, physical strength, and endless things to be busy every day. Are you always in pain? Love is just a part of life. When there is no such thing, you still have a lot to do, seven nights a week, two nights in the gym, two nights to meet friends, one night with your parents, one night for socializing, and the last night to study, daydream, take a bath, watch movies, drink red wine... I feel so comfortable, not to mention, in our actual life, there is always one night to work overtime, the room always needs to be cleaned, the beauty always needs to be done, and a meal with friends always has to be waited. In terms of time, there is really not so much time so painful, and life is so dark!
Let’s talk about her relationship again. In the film, there are two men, a mature and steady Doctor Bai, and a young and handsome Marseille. The screenwriter may mean that he wants Dr. Bai to represent real marriage and Marseille to represent love. But as a thirty-year-old woman, how can you make your emotional experience blank? What have you done in the past ten years between the ages of eighteen and thirty? These ten years are the age when you are frightened by fearlessness about love, quarrel, reunion, elope, cohabitation, abortion, crying, and laughing. These stupid love affairs have been given to everyone for more than ten years. At the age when you should be crazy and when you should be experiencing scum, what use do you do for your beautiful youth? I have studied, taken the postgraduate entrance examination, studied for a doctorate, and been a good girl of parents, or...? But this is no longer a conflict. Study, work, love, friendship, and family are all like daily meals. But for me, love in adolescence, love in adolescence, all kinds of love are like spring, grass should be green, flowers should bloom, cats should be chirping, and dogs should be in heat, which cannot be stopped. Is it true that life has been delayed, love has been passive, dragging the little girl's mind to thirty years old? If this is true, it is really as everyone usually says, material things lose their spirits, body pulls their souls, and age throws their minds halfway! When I was thirty, I was thirty years old and I was taking the 25th Marseille to make up for the puberty class I took down? It’s not that Marseille cannot be chosen, it’s not that we can’t let go of love, but a thirty-year-old woman must have a thirty-year-old self-responsibility that matches her thirty-year-old. I will love her with all my heart. One day, the little man is leaving, I cry and beat the wall myself, but I can still move forward. Don’t be the little girl’s sleep, and you will have a lifelong dream. When he stands at thirty, I’m afraid you will not be the one who carries you in the red sedan chair. I am as fragile as a willow in the wind, and I am swaying in front of reality. I play a good handful of cards into a mess. My glamorous life is a long time, I want love and marriage. I hope this is not reliable for a fresh man of twenty-five years. In the end, I am afraid that it is not the leftovers are kings, but the leftovers are kings. A detail in the
film is that when she learned that her mother was sick, she found Dr. Bai. In the car, he tried to shake her hand. She held it with him. I don’t know how she was in her mood. With that grip, the heaviness, warmth, safety and protection of a mature man are all inside.
He didn't speak much from beginning to end, but he appeared at a critical moment, and gave very practical help, introduced the doctor and arranged for hospitalization.He is down-to-earth and sincere, and he is a good husband. The important thing is that he can also receive express delivery, haha! What does a thirty-year-old woman need? Have you really asked about your own mental needs? Even if it represents the reality in universal values, a thirty-year-old woman generally wants to be stable, get married, have children, and start to inherit family responsibilities. In the film, Shu Qi longs for love, she also expresses her true voice and wants a stable marriage, but the fresh meat cannot give her. It’s not that he doesn’t want it, but that he has no ability, material and psychological ability. Doctor Bai, who is completely in line with her thirty-year-old, doesn’t choose, it may be that she does not know herself correctly and does not know what she really wants.
So back to one sentence, there is no one outside the door, only oneself, only one can truly understand oneself and accept oneself, a thirty-year-old woman can advance or retreat, very cute!
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RITA REN
Fashion expert, senior fashion buyer
"SMODA Fashion Street Photography" Editor-in-chief
Former "Hong Kong Fashion Buyer Academy" tutor
Italian SMODACHENBUYING OFFICE Manager
Italian Maranooni Master
Now settled in Milan
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