We cannot stop our youth from aging, but we have the ability to make our youth reappear

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In Wukong Q&A, a friend asked: "When others say you are old, how do you refute it?" I replied: Don't refute it. It’s too late to be happy, and finally no one talks about me, a yellow-haired girl, we are also an "old man".

has faded the childishness of youth and counting the fine lines at the corners of your eyes. They are all gifts of time, and every line has the years I have passed through. If you can see a little bit of ambition in my face, it is also a story in time.

All past is the prologue, and all futures can be looked forward to. Old, he is so free and easy, so transparent, so open-minded. It is because of this step by step that many roads have accumulated rich life experience. Only by experiencing the tempering of life can you not be afraid of any form of old age.

Because of innocence, I look so cute when I am old

Watch the Agricultural Economics program, and the host asked the turtle breeder how to identify the age of the turtle. It turns out that turtles have annual rings like trees. The more annual rings, the higher the age, the smoother the shell, while young turtles have clear edges.

Seeing this, I couldn't help but laugh. It turns out that everything in the world is connected. When I was young, I always had a clear edge and a bit of aggressive sharpness. One was a newborn calf, fearless, and the other was a shallow understanding of the world and did not understand the worldly principles. As the age grows, the sharpness gradually fades away, and knows how to advance and retreat, knows how to be kind to others and leave room for yourself, life will gradually become more and more complete. In fact, old age is not that scary. Compared to innocence, sophistication and sleekness can make people feel warm and thick. It’s just that different stages of life are all the same.

Only having youth was a pity

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British writer Xiao Baina said: "It is a pity that having youth was a pity." Grandma Tasha said: "For me, as I grow older, my life is more fulfilling, and I know how to enjoy the fun of life. Now is the best time."

Grandma Tasha is one of the most prestigious illustration masters in the United States. That year, she was 57 years old and moved to Vermont alone, where she had been dreaming of for most of her life, and built a 19th-century-style farm in the nearly 10 square kilometers of wilderness. She opened up gardens, orchards, vegetable fields and ponds in the dense and deep woods. She raises chickens, ducks, geese, sheep, and the pet Corgi that always accompanys her. She spins and weaves flowers and arranges flowers to paint, and she changes a brightly colored turban every day...

Xue Xiaochan said: "Because of innocence, old age looks so cute." This sentence is most appropriate to use it on Grandma Tasha. Grandma Tasha has lived in the countryside at the age of 57 to her death at the age of 92. In the past 30 years, Grandma Tasha has learned to enjoy the fun of things with her childlike innocence. At the same time, she is a wise person who knows how to live in harmony with nature, enjoy the sweetness of work, and taste the beauty of life. She lived like a girl, with clear eyes and sweet smile. Everyone who had seen her said that her condition was not like a taller old man.

Never feared the age of time, Grandma Tasha elegantly walked through her life. How great if it could grow old as elegantly as Grandma Tasha! Grandma Tasha's pastoral countryside is also the dream that many people have been thinking about.

Cute Grandma Tasha, poetic and picturesque Grandma Tasha

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No one can stop the pace of time, but as long as we can maintain a young mindset on the road to getting old, then what can time do to us?

Xue Xiaochan said: "More often, I would like to be like a dogwood branch, full of charm when I was young, with fresh and crisp luster and face. I have a strong character after middle age, and still have such charm and posture when I was dry after old age - I will refuse any down-and-out."

Look at this old lady with silver hair on the catwalk. Although she is already 70 years old this year, she easily crushed the American national supermodel who was pk with her at the 2017 New York International Fashion Week and won the National Tier Championship.

She is grandma Han Bin, an ivory engraver from a craft factory. After retirement, she began to learn to walk the catwalk. Although time has carved indelible marks on her face, it cannot stop her radiance. Every move is full of oriental classical charm, and Grandma Zhou attracts everyone's attention with her unique temperament. At that moment, on the runway, her beauty shocked the world and stunned the entire New York Fashion Week!

The old horse is in the stable, with ambitions for thousands of miles, and the martyrs are in their old age and have ambitions.

Old man is full of aura, old man is so gorgeous, who can say that such an old man is not worth looking forward to? !

Lao Ye is full of aura, Lao Ye is so gorgeous, Grandma Zhou's beauty amazed the New York Fashion Week runway

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"Three Character Classic" says: "Su Laoquan, twenty-seven, starts to work hard." When my son recited this sentence when he was a child, he asked me puzzledly: "Mom, how old is twenty-seven? Are you very old? How did he start to go to school?"

In the eyes of a six or seven-year-old child, he started to study at the age of twenty-seven, which is indeed old enough. Not only did the child think he was old, but even his friends at that time found it incredible. He was so old, so why are you trying to do it? !

However, this Su Laoquan is a master who is not afraid of old age or trouble. Before he was twenty-seven years old, he wandered around the world and enjoyed the mountains and rivers. After he was twenty-seven years old, he suddenly realized and began to study hard.

Because I know I started late, I have to work harder and sweat more than others. After 5 or 6 years of hard study, he not only had a profound understanding and unique insights into the Five Classics and the theories of various schools of thought, but also conducted an in-depth and detailed comparison and analysis of the right and wrong, success and failure from ancient times to the present. During this period, his talent and wisdom were qualitatively sublimated.

He is one of the three Sus of the Eight Great Masters of the Tang and Song Dynasties, Su Shi and Su Zhe's father Su Xun . He has written twenty volumes of "Jiayou Collection" and three volumes of "Post-Labor Fa", both of which are passed down to the world with "Biographies of History of the Song Dynasty".

Su Xun is good at writing prose, especially at political and argumentative, with clear and vigorous styles. Ouyang Xiu once praised Su Xun's writing style like this: "outstanding and magnificent", "vertical and horizontal, up and down, and sudden and rapid, you must be created in deep and subtle before you stop."

It turns out that this is the late bloomer, and talent will not be destroyed by the late awakening. Old age is not a reason for decadence, because old age is a little older and has a deeper understanding of the world, so you will have a more direction when working hard.

As long as you bear your fruit in autumn, why be shy in front of spring flowers?

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In fact, in my opinion, people are most afraid of only a few years when they grow old. I just walked out of school, lost in my career, the rush when I entered a new position, and the uneasiness when I faced new personnel and relationships... It was a chaotic day, both physically and mentally exhausted, worried about gains and losses, and even dared not look in the mirror, just because I was afraid that I would waste my time and get old before I learned how to live.

But as all this is on the right track and life experience gradually becomes richer, there will be a sense of confidence in your heart, and a calm and gentle breeze in your eyes, and you will not care so much about age. After all, young and vigor are young and old, and every stage is a life experience that must be taken. It is the same good, just face it calmly.

No one can stop the pace of time, we are all on the road to age.

said the poet Guo Xiaochuan. As long as you bear your fruits in autumn, why be shy in front of spring flowers? Since autumn is not behind spring, why should we worry about our age?

It is not scary to be old, what is important is that we have a young mindset. We cannot stop our youth from aging, but we have the ability to make our youth reappear.

There is no autumn behind spring, so why worry about age?

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