Introduction On June 4, Chen Songling, who had been missing for a long time, appeared on the Beijing TV TV's "Crossover King of Singers" music program. The selected song was "Love is Eternal" in the musical "Snow Wolf Lake" collaborated with Jacky Cheung.

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2025-05-01

Introduction

On June 4, Chen Songling, who had been missing for a long time, appeared on the Beijing Satellite TV's "Crossover King of Singers" music program. The selected song was "Love is Eternal" in the musical "Snow Wolf Lake" collaborated with Jacky Cheung. As the heroine of "Snow Wolf Lake", Chen Songling has participated in more than 50 tours. This drama has a different meaning for Chen Songling. Chen Songling once said that the first half of her life seemed to end there, and she sang again and believed that she could stand up again.

Chen Songling performed barefootly in the program, devoted herself to present a singer's most sincere performance. The program judge Gao Xiaosong commented, "This is the best age for a female singer, and it is the same all over the world. Because of experience, there is no need to ask others what the lyrics have."

In 2016, Chen Songling starred in the TVB new drama "Full-time No Girls". We look forward to Chen Songling's more wonderful works appearing, and we also wish Chen Songling a prosperous second half after surviving all kinds of difficulties.

In the 1980s, there were no formal entertainment magazines in the mainland, but only a kind of sixteen-published magazine collected by booksellers. It was published between books and magazines from time to time, and was specially reprinted for entertainment news in Hong Kong weekly and newspapers. One day, in that kind of magazine, I saw a news that a girl who had just entered the entertainment industry took her textbook to the set because she didn't want to delay her homework and took out a review of the book during the filming. As a result, she was ridiculed by the actresses in the same crew as pretending to be innocent. She never brought her textbooks to those places again.

This girl was named Chen Songling at the time.

Even if it is so far away, you can imagine the dilemma she faces. She is still young and thinks that even if there are people, there will be some kindness, but she doesn't know that the entertainment industry is a place that is very different from everything in the world. Apart from vanity, there is still only vanity. For those who are not in tune with this environment, every minute is a torment.

And her torment started too early. She was born in 1971 and her parents are both overseas Chinese in Indonesia. She is the eldest and has a younger brother and sister. This family has a strange atmosphere, "when you speak, you often have severe corporal punishment." Perhaps in order to save money and trouble, her parents found her adoptive mother for her. She was fostered at her adoptive mother's house since she was a child and had a deep relationship with her adoptive mother's family. Growing up a little, her parents saw her potential and kept forcing her to enter the entertainment industry. She thus determined that her parents just used her as a money tree. So, at the age of fourteen and had not graduated from the third year of the year, she sought help from the school and social workers, broke off from her biological parents, and ran away from home and completely defected to her adopted mother's daughter Guan Yongmei (Abao).

In 1986, when she was fifteen years old, she participated in the "Shane Yeh Singing Competition" held by TVB and won the championship with "Zero Hour Ten". Since then, she has been involved in the entertainment industry and has become a TV star. "The Singer of the World", "Marriage Story" and "Smiling at the Storm" starring her are all high-rated works, and she is called the "highest ratings queen". In 1994, she had a conflict with the signed Starlight Company. The famous Taiwanese actor Zhen Zhen became her manager. In order to make her lucky, Zhen Zhen’s husband Liu Jiachang suggested that she change her stage name to Chen Songling. The famous TV series "The Queen of Dumplings" in 1995 was her first series after her name was changed.

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She is famous for being kind. Ekin Cheng had been helped by her and always regarded her as her benefactor. Not long after he entered the industry, he hosted the wireless children's program "430 Shuttle Machine", but was kicked out. His financial problems immediately occurred. This situation even lasted for a year. Just when he was in the most embarrassing, Chen Songling, who didn't know him well, recommended him to producer Xiao Sheng, and he became the male lead in the TV series "The Moon'er Shining the Celestial State" and partnered with Chen Songling. From then on, career began another scene. But she had never asked him for anything, and her personal relationship with him was just a general one. She recommended him, purely out of appreciation and public interest. The biggest flaw of a kind person is that he uses himself to judge others and does not have enough speculation on "evil". Even if that was the one who almost grew up with her.

Introduction

This girl was named Chen Songling at the time.

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In 1993, Guan Yongmei and her founded "Songsong Family Co., Ltd." and brought her "another sister" Ah An. They lived together since then and used money together. The reason for using money together is very simple for Chen Songling. She regards them as family members, and it is not natural to use money together? All her remuneration was directly paid to Guan Yongmei. Her former agent Chen Shufen later proved this, and her property was not under her name.

Anyone who is a little scheming can know that she lives on a wire rope, but she doesn't know that she is just making money outside happily, playing a career woman in the TV series, and still has a lot of vicissitudes of life and still has an optimistic and cheerful entrepreneurial model. It is said that she is very good at speculating about the character's personality and often creates many details for the character to increase the fullness of the character, but she is obviously not good at speculating about the people around her and her real situation.

——There is no such thing in the world. Insight and awareness often lie in the distance. The infectious diseases of strangers in the distance are dirty diseases. The same disease among people around us is somewhat cute. It is written in the social news column. The victim's danger is obvious. We patted our thighs and hated him for not being aware of it, but we are often deeply trapped in the emotional extortion of people around us, and are damaged like a frog boiled in warm water, and are unaware of it, and even over-reflected, looking for the reasons for being depleted in ourselves. Everything mixed with emotions is closer, the more chaotic it is, and the more difficult it is to see clearly.

What happened later was that in 2006, after the most important turning point in her life came, she said it on Cha Xiaoxin's radio program. Cha Xiaoxin once wrote four columns entitled "Chen Songling's Nightmare" in a row to analyze the entire incident.

Chen Songling was obviously completely controlled by the two "sisters": "At home, I have no personality at all. Because working outside requires personality, so at home I don't care about my own preferences. If they like it, I like it. Things that will make them unhappy, I won't do it."

I want to get rid of this control and make my own decisions, and something happened: "The three sisters have six very good girlfriends together. One of them is twins, so I asked the twin sister to be my assistant to handle the trivial matters at work. Let the two sisters be easier, so I talked to the assistant less than the other girlfriends. One of them, whether out of jealousy or unintentional mistakes, went to tell Abao that I should not use this assistant anymore, because the relationship between the two girls is so good, it will make people think that we are homosexual and will damage my image."

After she explained to the two "sisters", she continued to use this assistant, which angered them. They warned her to fire the assistant and kept complaining to all acquaintances, asking them to persuade Chen Songling to "stop the cliff." The news about Chen Songling's "broken back" quickly appeared in newspapers and became the most sensational news of the year. At the same time, she discovered that "her computer was hacked, and the two sisters knew the content of her conversation with friends online. She reorganized the computer, but the situation was still the same. Even when she went out to have a conversation with friends in the chat room, the two sisters not only knew everything, but also called and scolded these friends before she finished work and returned home.

She finally couldn't bear it anymore and fought, but she was kicked out. "Before leaving, her luggage must be inspected by her two sisters, and she must not take away any valuable items, such as precious watches, gold coins and cash." After she was expelled from the house, "both sisters paid me the rent and paid my basic living expenses, but only half a year." Previously, she opened a column "Lingyan Collection" in "Southern Metropolis Daily". Guan Yongmei also notified the editor, saying that she would not write anymore, and that her life was cut off one by one - in fact, in that column, there were many "interesting stories about my sisters", which mentioned the two "sisters" many times: "Among my family members, there is a lovely Feijiajie. If I tell you about her daily life and what I do, you will definitely not be able to laugh until you finish it for three days and three nights. ...I also have a Wenjing Shoujie, who was forced to be the "Minister of Chen Songling's Food Department" by Feijiajie.After she was named an official, she must have a name. As a result, this poor Shoujiajie was busy handling my affairs, and she also had to make food and drink for her to enjoy. How unfair the world is! "She (Fatty sister Guan Yongmei) used her cell phone and digital phone to take photos with her hands and feet, and her eyes were as stupid as Garfield. Some friends thought it was a group photo, and sat between her and Sister Baozhu. Sister Fei glared at her and peeked at Sister Baozhu next to her. As a result, every photo was taken with her weird eyes and eyebrows."

0 The ovarian tumor that she had exploded when she was eighteen also relapsed at this time. When she was discovered, it was as big as ten centimeters. She was still worried about medical expenses in Cha Xiaoxin's program.

Later, she was interviewed by a newspaper and talked about this matter: "The details are not to be described as darker. I can only say that in the end, my sister has gone, my home has disappeared, and the property and household registration have not written my name, and I have no money last year. I have only less than 1,000 yuan left. After twenty years of working in this industry, I was really tired. A few years ago, I had some money and started to want to be more leisurely. I applied for many courses in gardening, nutrition, painting, and pottery. I wanted to take work as an interest, and truly enjoy singing, acting and life... If I didn't make money, I could have been very happy in this industry, but the overall plan was disrupted, just like a built castle that was the best, and I had to build it again from the beginning. I never thought that at the age of thirty-five, my work and burden today were actually more than when I was filming "The Singing Girl in the World" in 1990! This lesson tells me this lesson! , I will all keep my name in my name. Even if I give it to the church, do good deeds, or even give it to others, as long as I can make the decision. "

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Of course, when everyone hears her story, they will definitely feel suspicious. There are too many people who are unreasonable in the matter. For example, she actually believes in the two "sisters", and for example, these three people have been like the common life of communist society for twenty years, and for example, the breakdown of the female utopia is actually due to the intervention of the fourth party. No reasonable explanation is found in any case, but the world is so big, there are all kinds of forms of relationship arrangement and combination between people, and I am afraid there are always billions of forms, which cannot be completely covered by one or two normal states.

Perhaps, what glued them together is probably not the kind of relationship that the outside world asserted, but more because Chen Songling was in a 15-year-old and fell into harmony with her family since then. From then on, no matter how brilliant his career is, he is probably very eager for family affection. After all, "family" is the most basic item of everyone's emotional needs, and the two "sisters" gave her an illusion of family, allowing her to devote her feelings to her. From then on, she is willing to not distinguish between true and false and not ask about cause and effect. As long as this "family" can continue, everything will be good. She happily played the role of a woman in a normal family, put down her figure and washed the pots and dishes. Her "sister" liked to play mahjong, and she happily called people to serve tea and water, not because she liked labor, but because she was probably very nostalgic for the atmosphere, because it looked too much like a "home". She has been in this circle of flowers and willows and willows and swallows dancing for twenty years, but she has not yet found a relationship. Perhaps because she has a "home" that looks very much like home.

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Miyuki Miyuki's mystery novel "Reason", there are similar situations. A family massacre occurred in a building, and all the elderly and young were killed. After investigation, the police found that the few people who seemed to be family members were not related at all. They were hired by the underworld to occupy the houses that were auctioned after the real estate bubble broke out. Among them were young men and women who ran away from home, middle-aged people who suddenly ran away from home and elderly people who died of Alzheimer's disease.

In fact, they originally had their own homes, but they were very close to each other. In order to resist their relatives, they would rather "play house" with some strangers in order to resist their relatives and leave their environments that were so familiar that they suffocate themselves. This kind of home is more like home than a real home, because it is carefully established according to people's expectations of "home". Those relatives also seem to be more like relatives than blood relatives, because they respect each other like guests and whisper softly. But like a home does not mean home, and treating it as a relative does not mean a relative. This road to "home" and "family" was ultimately proved to be a pure illusion. They lived and worked in a paper-patterned house, wasting the easiest happiness in life.

Chen Songling has always been peaceful. Even after the accident, the blog she wrote was very calm and optimistic, and she refused to mention the most unhappy past in her life. Her fans spontaneously acted and wanted to donate to her. She also smiled and declined, but raised donations for a public welfare fund on her official website. However, not mentioning or saying it does not mean that there is no need for heart. How can she deal with it on her own in the night when there are many lights? What she is looking for is a person and thing that is beyond the reach of manpower. How can she calm this regret?

Transfer came like the most bloody TV series. One day, she knelt in front of the cross and cried, "Mom, save me!" As a result, the next day, when she was filming "Flying Short and Long Father and Son Soldiers" near Land Plaza, a woman came over and talked to her: "Do you recognize me? I am your sister." Of course she didn't know her. When she left home, her sister was 9 years old and now she was 29 years old.

After going around for a night, she reunited with her family the next day. Her father was 73 years old, her mother was 61 years old, and her younger brother was 30 years old. She sat at the dinner table with her parents, younger brother and sister, eating Indonesian hometown dishes cooked by her biological mother. Her mother kept her school uniform that she had been to school, as well as her pencil case and pencil. The warehousing room was filled with newspaper clippings and video tapes related to her. Her mother said, "I want to know if you are happy." She was very satisfied when she knew it, so she never disturbed her.

In her opinion, they have become older, changed, and become peaceful, and know how to cherish, but it may be that she has changed. Looking at them naturally different from the past, those past events may not be that serious, but they have been exaggerated by the overly sensitive emotions of youth, or they have changed at the same time.

Later, Chen Shufen asked her and Jacky Cheung to perform in the mainland for "Snow Wolf Lake". Not only did she earn living expenses, but she also paid the down payment and bought a house to live with her family. At the end of that year, when attending the concert of teacher Liu Jiachang's works, Chen Songling sang "I Find Myself": "Where can I go to find myself? The past has become a memory, I am lost in pain. Where can I go? I can find myself. The past lets him go, I will no longer be lost here, I will no longer be confused, I will no longer be depressed, I will find the lost past..."

That year, her father Chen Hengliang passed away peacefully in his sleep. The one who brought Chen Songling and his mother to the mourning hall was Guan Yongmei. There was also a white rose wreath in the mourning hall that she gave in the name of "Guan Yongmei's family". The media determined that they had already settled their past grudges.

OK, I understand that it may not be an exaggeration to add all the guesses people make about the relationship between them, and it may not be wrong - this is really like the housework between men and women, but it may also be that all the guesses are wrong. The result of frustration in family relationships is that she is often in a state of emotional hunger. She does not seek to understand, does not distinguish between true and false, does not know the true and illusion, and does not want to subdivide into categories. All feelings can be a kind of emotion, and a kind of emotion can also replace all feelings - as long as it can be obtained by her and can be grasped by her, a relationship can be regarded by her as all the relationships in the world, all the relationships can also be transformed into some kind of relationship and accepted by her completely - as long as it can be warmed by her.

So, do you know how happy you are when you have a family, who grow up in a normal family that makes you impatient, those who are old and have no illness or disaster, and children run around your knees.

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After she was named an official, she must have a name. As a result, this poor Shoujiajie was busy handling my affairs, and she also had to make food and drink for her to enjoy. How unfair the world is! "She (Fatty sister Guan Yongmei) used her cell phone and digital phone to take photos with her hands and feet, and her eyes were as stupid as Garfield. Some friends thought it was a group photo, and sat between her and Sister Baozhu. Sister Fei glared at her and peeked at Sister Baozhu next to her. As a result, every photo was taken with her weird eyes and eyebrows."

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