The actor of the gangster boss in the movie " Kill Bill " is a Chinese. She is less than 160 meters tall, but she gives people a 1.7 meters aura.
Many people commented that she has a different oriental charm. Her face is not beautiful in the conventional sense, her eyes are not big enough, her cheekbones are a bit prominent, and her nose bridge is not straight enough.
But as soon as she appears, she can attract the attention of people around her and become a very popular existence among the opposite sex.
Her appearance tells us that beauty can indeed be liked by the opposite sex, but it is definitely not the only standard. Compared to the external icing on the cake, the inner mainstay is also indispensable, and even more than even.
The premise of being liked does not necessarily have to be impeccable. As long as we are charming and know how to exude our own charm, even if we are not so beautiful on the outside, we can still gain the attraction of the opposite sex.
In a gender relationship, women who are loved by men may not be very beautiful, but there must be three "special features".
often have a strong heart
The 1960s and 1970s were a special era, and many literati and poets could not escape persecution, and Yang Jiang Mr. Yang Jiang was not spared.
was suppressed by the revolutionary masses, classified as a "monster and demon", shaved into "yin and yang head", cursed and criticized, and his hand who once wrote articles is now sent to wash the toilet.
If ordinary people suffer such a thing, they will either complain and accept it, or give up on themselves and die, but Mr. Yang Jiang does not.
No matter how others torture her, she can maintain a positive heart.
is shaved into a yin-yang head, so you can make a wig and be sent to wash the toilet. Then you are meticulous and clean the toilet spotlessly. When you have nothing to do, you can sit down and read a few books.
Just like that, adversity did not defeat Mr. Yang Jiang, but instead allowed her to develop a strong heart.
Writer Ha Jin once said: "In fact, the final difference between people is these hurdles. Can you survive it? If you pass it, you will be different."
Everyone will experience difficulties, and life is not smooth sailing. People with strong hearts will not be depressed because of a setback. They are as tough as grass on a cliff.
Even if you are still strong after thousands of blows, you still have to be able to wind around east, west, south and north. How can such a tough vitality not win the favor of others?
Know how to concentrate on magnifying your own advantages
The internet celebrity blogger in variety shows Song Zhiya is not a beauty in the traditional sense, but she attracted all the attention of all the guests present as soon as she appeared.
Unlike other guests' restraint, Song Zhiya is always dignified and elegant, no matter who she talks to, with gentle and firm eyes and never dodges.
In addition, Song Zhiya also pays great attention to her outfits, floral dress , sweet perfume flavor, and cute earrings, these are the keys to help her show her femininity.
: Song Zhiya is not outstanding in terms of appearance alone, but her careful efforts have released her charm to the greatest extent, allowing her to have an atmosphere that is incomparable to others.
It can be seen from this that appearance is not the only way to attract the opposite sex. Some external modifications of the atmosphere can also help us gain the favor of the opposite sex.
Lin Huiyin said: "Every woman is a book carefully decorated by God. It's just that some women are patient and some women should read it patiently."
Don't complain about yourself, and you don't deserve to be liked by others if you don't have enough appearance.
There are thousands of beauty in the world, and women’s beauty will not be limited to one. As long as we work hard, learn to wear out, care for our skin, and learn to be light in our body, we can also exude our own charm.
has a ruler in speaking, plays well, and does things more than anything else
In this world, if you have to pick out a different attraction, the first thing you think of is those who have a sense of proportion.
Some people can’t control their mouths, joke about other people’s physiological defects, and think they are very humorous and others can’t afford to play with them.
This is the manifestation of lack of cultivation. A well-educated woman will never let her words become a sharp sword to hurt others.
In addition to this, they also do things in moderation.
will not leave room for others, nor will it leave a way out for themselves. They have foresight and know how to prepare for the future no matter what they are doing.
A woman like this is quiet, and a quiet woman can make men dream of her the most.
Because they know how to maintain themselves, their inner world is rich. Everyone who has been with them will be surprised at their behavior and the fun of their souls.
Writer Su Cen once said: "A person's attraction is formed by three things: appearance, spirit and soul. The more superficial a person, the more he pays attention to appearance; the deeper a person pays attention to soul."
exterior can determine whether a person is interested in understanding our inner self, while the inner self determines whether others will deny our outer self with one vote. So, don't be discouraged, we still have our own light.
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