The first month of the start of the university, major universities will arrange freshmen for military training, which has become a regular admission welcome ceremony.
Every freshman comes to the university with a beautiful yearning for future university life. After ending the long summer vacation of , in order to help students get back their state as soon as possible and to train students, there is an unwritten rule on military training.
During the military training, the instructors were the ones who came into contact with college students most frequently. They were wearing military uniforms and were energetic, becoming the focus of students' attention.
Many people think that college instructors are all Active-duty military personnel , and are sent to various universities by the army. In fact, this is not the case. Many instructors can conduct military training for students as long as their instructor certificates.
and Instructors also need to train before taking up their posts. One of them is to explicitly prohibit instructors from having any form of contact with students, including the instructors and students cannot add students' contact information.
However, some female college students inevitably fell in love with the instructor. The two privately confirmed their relationship, . The instructor, who is experienced, said that college students are not recommended to fall in love with military training instructors.
College students avoid pitfalls in military training, why is it not recommended to fall in love with instructors?
Logically speaking, college students are already adults and can fall in love freely after going to college. Why should we avoid falling in love with instructors?
First of all, College students are simple-minded and . They develop a good impression of the other party through only a few days of contact and do not understand the other party at all. At this time, they are easily taken advantage of. You think you have found someone who has true love, but in fact they are not even considered fish in the other party’s fish pond.
Secondly, College students should avoid falling in love. When they see some handsome instructors, will rush to ask for contact information, and the other party may just treat you as a backup tire, and I don’t know how many girls’ WeChat has been added.
Finally, the instructor's responsibility is to train students well. upholds professional ethics and cannot fall in love with students. What's more, some people have impure motivations, and the college students themselves are injured in the end.
Of course, everything is not absolute. This is also a reminder for the majority of freshmen to not fall in love with instructors easily. After all, some instructors do have such problems. Students should learn to protect themselves and establish a correct view of love.
Most instructors are still very responsible. Of course, if the two really have a good impression of each other, it is possible to have a good relationship after the military training, but the probability is very small.
College students should not have a love brain, especially girls are more likely to be injured
Before college, if students were in love, they were collectively called early love. We all know that early love is very harmful, so parents and teachers are both forbidden students from early love.
It’s different after going to college. If the child is in love, parents will not say much. For college students who have no love experience, they begin to yearn for a passionate love relationship themselves.
College students will fall into it, devote themselves to love , especially girls are emotional animals, they are prone to love brains and are more likely to be hurt in love.
College students should be clear about their main tasks. They should go to college to further their studies and learn professional knowledge and skills, not to fall in love.
Everything should be focused on learning and live up to parents’ efforts and expectations for themselves.
University can fully train students. In the face of challenges and difficulties, students should not retreat
University is a small society. Unlike high schools, College students' learning depends entirely on their own . University teachers are more Buddhist and will not manage and supervise students' learning too much.
After the child goes to college, it is not easy for parents to ask students to study hard because they know that their children are under a lot of pressure in high school. Now that their children are growing up in college, they are not good to make more requirements.
However, students cannot let themselves go because of this. must maintain their original intentions and plan their college life well.
Therefore, students should develop good study habits from their freshman year, attach importance to the study of professional courses, and use their free time to sign up for some clubs of interest.
University gives students a lot of room for development, As long as you have ideas and abilities, you will definitely shine.
In college, students learn not only cultural knowledge, but also various abilities such as specialty development and interpersonal communication. Students can receive comprehensive training. In this process, challenges and difficulties cannot be avoided. Students should not be afraid or retreat. They should face difficulties and become the best self.
written at the end
College life is something that students strive for hard study, so I hope every college student will cherish it. College students can indeed fall in love, but don’t delay their studies because of falling in love.
College students are also students, and the most important task is still academic, so students should have priorities and should not waste their studies just because they are in love, otherwise they will regret it sooner or later.
The competition among college students can be said to be getting more and more intense every year. Unlike before, college students can easily find jobs. Now the talent market is oversupply, so if you don’t study hard in college and improve your abilities, it will be difficult to find the job you like in the future.
Topic Discussion: How do you view college students and instructors in love?
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