1. Apart from love, many people naturally put love first when they are in love, but if the focus of life is placed on love, then you should pay attention!

1. There is nothing else except love

Many people naturally put love first when they are in love, but if the focus of life is placed on love, then you should pay attention! Because such beliefs will slowly swallow the other person's personal space and their possessiveness will gradually become stronger. Once there is a problem with their relationship, such people are likely to commit the same destruction

Everyone is an independent individual. Although they have connections and relationships with someone because of falling in love, they cannot lose themselves because of it. They feel that life is living for others, and once they lose love, they become nothing.

2. Control whereabouts at any time

The characteristic of many terrifying lovers is [control freak]. They want to know where you are, who you meet, when you go home... Once you accidentally fail to receive a call or forget to reply to messages, there may be a series of fatal calls or hundreds of thousands of messages. If your partner does not even have the patience to wait for your reply and is unwilling to give you a private space, then one day when you want to end this relationship, the other party's reaction may be more intense and terrifying.

3. There is a tendency to self-harm

Some people are used to using ways to hurt themselves to relieve and relieve when they are angry or emotionally unstable. Don’t think that this is a way for them to relieve stress. Today the wound is scratched on him, and one day may be on you... Similarly, if your lover will take action on the big wall when he is angry, don’t naively think that he knows how to control himself, and that fist will hit you one day.

4. Stop breaking up by any means

Horror lovers may stop breaking up through various threats, such as [If you dare to leave me, I will die to show you] or [If you dare to break up, I will publish these photos to the world] Once you are caught, you may be used as a tool to threaten, or you will catch your weakness and bite them. Moreover, these threats are almost nothing more than words, and horror lovers may really do these crazy behaviors.

5. Alcohol addicts

If you are used to using alcohol to numb yourself, it is usually accompanied by emotional instability, and the behavior after drinking is not controlled by yourself, but after drinking it, it is revealed that it is usually his own nature. It turns out that good behaviors are also revealed after drinking. Emotional instability may cause disarray after drinking. If it is not discovered early, the person who is hurt will be the lover.

Love should be a beautiful thing, but when this matter changes qualitatively and many things change, you should also be alert to whether you should come out of this relationship. If a person loves you with the intensity of his entire life, it means that he can give up anything except love, including his life. This is actually not romantic at all. Instead, he should worry that this person may collapse his time because of losing love at any time.