There was a controversial rich man in Taiwan Province, my country. When his career was at its peak, he could earn 5.6 billion yuan a year. When he spent money, he spent as much as 2 billion yuan on women. He found hundreds of "confidants" and became the object of envy and jealousy for many people.
But the ending of this rich man was not very good. He lost all his property and died in a mess. also left his son with a debt of 2.6 billion. His hundreds of confidantes, like avoiding the plague god, distanced themselves from him early. When he passed away, no one came to see him off.
This rich man who died in a glorious half of his life was named Huang Renzhong . How did he become successful and how did he go to a down-and-out position? His life story may bring us some inspiration.
Huang Renzhong was born in 1940. His father Huang Shaogu was a cadre and had a certain amount of power. Therefore, after he was born, he lived a good life and had never worried about his survival.
Because of his father, he lived in Chongqing for a while when he was a child, and later he followed his father Huang Shaogu to Taiwan Province.
When Huang Shaogu first arrived in Taiwan Province, he suffered some impact due to changes in the situation, but he did not lose his power. Instead, he took advantage of the chaos and seized several opportunities and finally became a senior official in Taiwan Province.
As a child of a cadre, Huang Renzhong, because his father has power and power, he has been living a wealthy life for a long time, and can play wildly. When he was a child, Huang Shaogu did not have too much restraint and gave him a lot of freedom. Huang Shaogu thinks that loving to play is the nature of a child, and it is not good to suppress too much.
Huang Shaogu originally thought that his son would be able to calm down his fun and start studying hard, but Huang Renzhong had no intention of studying hard.
If Huang Renzhong has been letting play around with him, he is likely to become an ignorant playboy, which may cause much trouble to the family.
Huang Shaogu experienced many hardships during the war. finally got such a high status. He cherished everything he had and was unwilling to let his son ruin his family business. He hoped that his son could be more successful. So he did not let Huang Renzhong continue to play and changed him to 5 primary schools one after another.
Historical books say that Mencius When he was a child, he was a little playful and always imitated others. He lived next to the cemetery. Mencius learned to worship with others and lived next to the market. Mencius learned to do business and massacre things from merchants. Meng Mu felt that these places were not suitable for children to live in, so he took him to move many times and finally moved to a school.
This is the famous "Meng Mother Three Movements" in history. The visionary Meng Mother created a relatively good learning atmosphere for her children by changing her living environment, making Mencius eventually become a famous thinker in history.
Huang Shaogu asked Huang Renzhong to transfer to school many times, which was also an imitation of "Meng's mother's three migrations", but the effect was not good. Huang Renzhong has been transferred to school five times and has been slightly restrained, but his essence has not changed. He has temporarily suppressed his playfulness due to pressure from his father.
The story of Dayu controlling the flood has long told us that "it is better to be loose than to block". The more suppressed many things, the more likely they are to cause more problems. Huang Shaogu's later experience just confirms this truth.
After going to middle school, Huang Renzhong lived a little farther away from home and gradually escaped from his father's constraints. All the thoughts that he had suppressed before quickly erupted and even became even worse.
He not only became more playful, but also became more reckless. not only brings gangs in school, but also often participates in fights.
Because he always causes trouble, Huang Renzhong quickly became the focus of the local police juvenile team. Huang Shaogu knew that his son was so ridiculous in school, and he was furious and wanted to arrest him immediately and give him a hard lesson.
Huang Shaogu knew very well that his son had learned bad things from others and had to strictly discipline him while he had not made a big mistake. If he did not make up his mind to discipline him, it would be too late.
However, Huang Shaogu did not lock Huang Renzhong up at home for discipline, but sent Huang Renzhong to the juvenile group for discipline. He did this, maybe because he felt that he could not make up his mind, or he felt that his son would not be really afraid of him.
No matter what Huang Shaogu thought at the time, from the objective facts, Huang Renzhong was indeed sent to the teenager group and was disciplined with other problematic teenagers.
After Huang Renzhong entered, he was subjected to quite severe discipline. He is very smart. He didn't think it long after entering. Only by changing his previous bad habits as soon as possible can he go out as soon as possible. Therefore, he actively cooperated with management and gained freedom.
After returning to school, Huang Renzhong did not continue to cause trouble and began to study in a pretentious manner. Huang Renzhong thought his son had really changed his past and had higher expectations for him.
When Huang Renzhong graduated, in order to give him a brighter future, Huang Shaogu used his relationship to send Huang Renzhong to Purdue University in the United States to study for mechanical engineering.
2. Study in the United States and become a rich man when he comes back to do business
Huang Shaogu sent his son to the United States to study, not to make him an engineer or scientist, but to make his son's resume have an additional record of studying in the United States.
At that time, the United States had a strong overall strength and had a great influence internationally. People who went to the United States could generally get relatively good development opportunities after they came back.
Therefore, capable parents, even if they know that their children are of average ability, will find a way to send their children to the United States to "gilded".
Huang Renzhong knew his father's plan very well and knew that he was studying in the United States as a form of form. After going to , he did not plan to study seriously. He started to play indulge in fun again and fought with others whenever he had a disagreement.
Because he always causes trouble, Huang Renzhong was quickly punished by the school, but he had no intention of remorse and was eventually dismissed by the school.
The son's incompetence deeply hurt Huang Shaogu. He completely realized that his son had no ability to self-discipline at all. As long as he had a relaxed living environment, he would definitely start to make trouble.
In order to prevent Huang Renzhong from continuing to do anything randomly, Huang Shaogu asked someone to help again and found a way to send Huang Renzhong to the Pennsylvania Military University in the United States to study.
Compared with previous colleges, the education of military universities is obviously much stricter. After Huang Renzhong entered the school, he was restricted by strict regulations and had almost no chance of doing things randomly. He could only accept management honestly, so he completed his studies relatively smoothly.
After graduation, Huang Renzhong did not return to China directly, but stayed in the United States to seek development opportunities. Relying on his family's relationship, Huang Renzhong, who had a military university diploma, soon found a good opportunity to become the deputy director of the Boston Cultural Bureau.
Huang Renzhong knew that he had entered society and was an adult who should be responsible for himself. After taking office, he did not dare to do anything randomly. He did a lot of things seriously and was recognized by some Chinese compatriots.
developed in the United States for a period of time. Huang Renzhong realized that he was an outsider in the United States. No matter how hard he tried, it was difficult to enter the core level. He continued to stay in the United States and had no great future. so he found an opportunity to return to China.
Huang Shaogu never thought about letting his son develop in the United States. When he knew that his son wanted to return to China, he agreed happily. He originally wanted Huang Renzhong to go into politics like that and be a powerful person, but Huang Renzhong did not have this plan, and he would rather be a businessman.
Huang Renzhong has lived in the United States for a long time. He is very clear about the charm of money and has always wanted to be a rich person who can enjoy it freely. There was a controversial rich man in Taiwan Province, my country. When his career was at its peak, he could earn 5.6 billion yuan a year. When he spent money, he spent as much as 2 billion yuan on women. He found hundreds of "confidants" and became the object of envy and jealousy for many people. But the ending of this rich man was not very good. He lost all his property and died in a mess. also left his son with a debt of 2.6 billion. His hundreds of confidantes, like avoiding the plague god, distanced themselves from him early. When he passed away, no one came to see him off. This rich man who died in a glorious half of his life was named Huang Renzhong . How did he become successful and how did he go to a down-and-out position? His life story may bring us some inspiration.
Huang Renzhong was born in 1940. His father Huang Shaogu was a cadre and had a certain amount of power. Therefore, after he was born, he lived a good life and had never worried about his survival.
Because of his father, he lived in Chongqing for a while when he was a child, and later he followed his father Huang Shaogu to Taiwan Province.
When Huang Shaogu first arrived in Taiwan Province, he suffered some impact due to changes in the situation, but he did not lose his power. Instead, he took advantage of the chaos and seized several opportunities and finally became a senior official in Taiwan Province.
As a child of a cadre, Huang Renzhong, because his father has power and power, he has been living a wealthy life for a long time, and can play wildly. When he was a child, Huang Shaogu did not have too much restraint and gave him a lot of freedom. Huang Shaogu thinks that loving to play is the nature of a child, and it is not good to suppress too much.
Huang Shaogu originally thought that his son would be able to calm down his fun and start studying hard, but Huang Renzhong had no intention of studying hard.
If Huang Renzhong has been letting play around with him, he is likely to become an ignorant playboy, which may cause much trouble to the family.
Huang Shaogu experienced many hardships during the war. finally got such a high status. He cherished everything he had and was unwilling to let his son ruin his family business. He hoped that his son could be more successful. So he did not let Huang Renzhong continue to play and changed him to 5 primary schools one after another.
Historical books say that Mencius When he was a child, he was a little playful and always imitated others. He lived next to the cemetery. Mencius learned to worship with others and lived next to the market. Mencius learned to do business and massacre things from merchants. Meng Mu felt that these places were not suitable for children to live in, so he took him to move many times and finally moved to a school.
This is the famous "Meng Mother Three Movements" in history. The visionary Meng Mother created a relatively good learning atmosphere for her children by changing her living environment, making Mencius eventually become a famous thinker in history.
Huang Shaogu asked Huang Renzhong to transfer to school many times, which was also an imitation of "Meng's mother's three migrations", but the effect was not good. Huang Renzhong has been transferred to school five times and has been slightly restrained, but his essence has not changed. He has temporarily suppressed his playfulness due to pressure from his father.
The story of Dayu controlling the flood has long told us that "it is better to be loose than to block". The more suppressed many things, the more likely they are to cause more problems. Huang Shaogu's later experience just confirms this truth.
After going to middle school, Huang Renzhong lived a little farther away from home and gradually escaped from his father's constraints. All the thoughts that he had suppressed before quickly erupted and even became even worse.
He not only became more playful, but also became more reckless. not only brings gangs in school, but also often participates in fights.
Because he always causes trouble, Huang Renzhong quickly became the focus of the local police juvenile team. Huang Shaogu knew that his son was so ridiculous in school, and he was furious and wanted to arrest him immediately and give him a hard lesson.
Huang Shaogu knew very well that his son had learned bad things from others and had to strictly discipline him while he had not made a big mistake. If he did not make up his mind to discipline him, it would be too late.
However, Huang Shaogu did not lock Huang Renzhong up at home for discipline, but sent Huang Renzhong to the juvenile group for discipline. He did this, maybe because he felt that he could not make up his mind, or he felt that his son would not be really afraid of him.
No matter what Huang Shaogu thought at the time, from the objective facts, Huang Renzhong was indeed sent to the teenager group and was disciplined with other problematic teenagers.
After Huang Renzhong entered, he was subjected to quite severe discipline. He is very smart. He didn't think it long after entering. Only by changing his previous bad habits as soon as possible can he go out as soon as possible. Therefore, he actively cooperated with management and gained freedom.
After returning to school, Huang Renzhong did not continue to cause trouble and began to study in a pretentious manner. Huang Renzhong thought his son had really changed his past and had higher expectations for him.
When Huang Renzhong graduated, in order to give him a brighter future, Huang Shaogu used his relationship to send Huang Renzhong to Purdue University in the United States to study for mechanical engineering.
2. Study in the United States and become a rich man when he comes back to do business
Huang Shaogu sent his son to the United States to study, not to make him an engineer or scientist, but to make his son's resume have an additional record of studying in the United States.
At that time, the United States had a strong overall strength and had a great influence internationally. People who went to the United States could generally get relatively good development opportunities after they came back.
Therefore, capable parents, even if they know that their children are of average ability, will find a way to send their children to the United States to "gilded".
Huang Renzhong knew his father's plan very well and knew that he was studying in the United States as a form of form. After going to , he did not plan to study seriously. He started to play indulge in fun again and fought with others whenever he had a disagreement.
Because he always causes trouble, Huang Renzhong was quickly punished by the school, but he had no intention of remorse and was eventually dismissed by the school.
The son's incompetence deeply hurt Huang Shaogu. He completely realized that his son had no ability to self-discipline at all. As long as he had a relaxed living environment, he would definitely start to make trouble.
In order to prevent Huang Renzhong from continuing to do anything randomly, Huang Shaogu asked someone to help again and found a way to send Huang Renzhong to the Pennsylvania Military University in the United States to study.
Compared with previous colleges, the education of military universities is obviously much stricter. After Huang Renzhong entered the school, he was restricted by strict regulations and had almost no chance of doing things randomly. He could only accept management honestly, so he completed his studies relatively smoothly.
After graduation, Huang Renzhong did not return to China directly, but stayed in the United States to seek development opportunities. Relying on his family's relationship, Huang Renzhong, who had a military university diploma, soon found a good opportunity to become the deputy director of the Boston Cultural Bureau.
Huang Renzhong knew that he had entered society and was an adult who should be responsible for himself. After taking office, he did not dare to do anything randomly. He did a lot of things seriously and was recognized by some Chinese compatriots.
developed in the United States for a period of time. Huang Renzhong realized that he was an outsider in the United States. No matter how hard he tried, it was difficult to enter the core level. He continued to stay in the United States and had no great future. so he found an opportunity to return to China.
Huang Shaogu never thought about letting his son develop in the United States. When he knew that his son wanted to return to China, he agreed happily. He originally wanted Huang Renzhong to go into politics like that and be a powerful person, but Huang Renzhong did not have this plan, and he would rather be a businessman.
Huang Renzhong has lived in the United States for a long time. He is very clear about the charm of money and has always wanted to be a rich person who can enjoy it freely.Many people have such ideas, but unfortunately few people can achieve this goal.
Compared with most people, Huang Renzhong is relatively lucky. His family is relatively wealthy and can spend enough capital to support him in developing his career. He himself has experience studying in the United States and knows that many Chinese people are not familiar with the money-making methods, so he developed very smoothly after he started business.
He first obtained a large amount of loans through his father's relationship at a lower cost, and then contacted a rubber tree company in the United States and reached a cooperation with the other party.
In the next few years, Huang Renzhong used his funds and the business of American companies to make a lot of money at an extremely fast speed, and became the vice president of Pacific Region of American Rubber Tree Company.
At this time, Huang Renzhong already had wealth far more than ordinary people, but he still felt that it was not enough. In order to make more money, he invested everywhere with the capital he had accumulated before, and he would do whatever it was possible to make money.
Huang Renzhong has a wide business. He has worked in real estate, the financial industry, and has also studied antique calligraphy and painting. Others may encounter a lot of trouble when they work in these industries and may even lose money. Huang Renzhong basically suffered no losses and often made a lot of money.
Some people say that Huang Renzhong was able to go so smoothly because he had a good business acumen. Some people also say that he developed it through family relations.
No matter how others talk about it, it is an indisputable fact that Huang Renzhong makes a lot of money. When his career was at its peak, he could make 5.6 billion yuan a year. In that era of relatively backward economy, Huang Renzhong's annual income was a sky-high wealth.
With this achievement, Huang Renzhong easily became the top rich man at that time. All walks of life praised his achievements. He himself was also very excited and felt that he had reached the peak of his life.
Huang Renzhong's career has developed very smoothly, but his emotional experience is very bumpy. He has had four marriages, but the results are not very good.
His first wife was an American Jewish . The two met when they were studying in the American Military University and got along happily. After getting married, there was a sweeter time. His son Huang Ruogu was also born to his first wife.
The final divorce between the two is related to money, His American Jewish wife is a profit-oriented person and attaches great importance to money. Huang Renzhong felt very uncomfortable living with her and gradually broke off his relationship with her.
Perhaps because the first wife loved money too much, Huang Renzhong found a relatively ordinary second wife. After the two got married, they have been very low-key, and there is very little information about the second wife.
After Huang Renzhong became famous, some media reporters conducted detailed investigations on his early deeds, and almost no information was found about Huang Renzhong's second wife.
Huang Renzhong's third wife is quite famous. Her name is Qian Zhongwen, and she is a relatively capable businesswoman. She founded the once famous "Yun Xiangyi" company.
Both of them are businessmen and have certain common topics. After meeting each other, they cooperated more. Perhaps they got along well or perhaps they wanted to cooperate more deeply. The two met for a while and got married soon.
This marriage started very suddenly and ended very suddenly, which was considered a flash marriage and divorce. The outside world had many speculations about Huang Renzhong's third marriage, but only they themselves knew what happened.
Huang Renzhong's fourth marriage also caused a lot of controversy. The woman's name is Xu Guiying . She is an actress and has also been a model. She has a good figure and looks outstanding. After entering the entertainment industry, she has participated in many works, such as " in the water ", "The seagulls fly in the colorful clouds", " True Destiny Girl ", etc.
After Xu Guiying became famous, she also attracted a lot of controversy. She had been jealous with another actress and was discussed by the media and the public for a long time.
In addition, she has a controversial thing. When her father was seriously ill and ill, she took off his father's oxygen hood.
Many people think that Xu Guiying did this as unfilial, but she herself said that herself was trying to reduce her father's pain. She was in great pain at the time, and that decision was a pain that she could never erase in her life.
When Xu Guiying and Huang Renzhong had an intersection, they were only about 20 years old. They were in their youthful and beautiful years. Although Huang Renzhong was rich, he looked very average. The critic Li Ao even rated Huang Renzhong as one of the "Three Ugly Men in Taiwan Province".
Just look at the appearance, Huang Renzhong and Xu Guiying are very unmatched, so when Huang Renzhong first pursued Xu Guiying, she was soon rejected.
But Huang Renzhong did not give up and kept giving gifts to Xu Guiying, luxurious luxury cars, expensive bags, and exquisite accessories.
Many things that ordinary people are reluctant to use are taken out and given to Xu Guiying at will, just to win the beauty's smile. Under Huang Renzhong's constant pursuit, Xu Guiying quickly accepted him and also completed the marriage procedures with him.
After this, Huang Renzhong may have felt the charm of the actresses and began to take the initiative to contact other actresses, and also had a relatively close relationship with many people.
For example, Chen Baolian, who once became famous by the film, has been criticized by many people for her relatively special work and has a relatively average reputation. Huang Renzhong thinks that she is a very charming person and often takes the initiative to contact her. Like Xu Guiying, she has given Chen Baolian a lot of precious gifts.
Once, Chen Baolian was filming somewhere else. In order to meet her, Huang Renzhong used a private helicopter to pick her up. After dinner, he asked someone to send her back with a private helicopter.
When Huang Renzhong and Chen Baolian were close to each other, he had already married Xu Guiying. He continued to attract bees and butterflies outside, which could easily attract criticism.
Huang Renzhong doesn't care much about other people's opinions, but he doesn't want to be pointed at by others. In order to avoid too much gossip, he declared to the public that Chen Baolian is his "goddaughter" and treating her well is entirely the care that elders should give.
Anyone with discerning eyes knows that Huang Renzhong is doing this to find a fig leaf for himself, but at least in name, it is barely reasonable.
In addition to having a close relationship with Chen Baolian, Huang Renzhong also used the same method to have a special relationship with other famous actresses. Many of them became Huang Renzhong's nominal goddaughters, like Chen Baolian.
Someone once counted that Huang Renzhong has been enjoying himself for many years, and at least hundreds of "confidants". An insider even revealed that Huang Renzhong had placed a super big bed in his mansion that could accommodate 10 people.
If ordinary people were subjected to so many criticisms and accusations, they might have collapsed long ago, but Huang Renzhong did not take it seriously at all. He even believed that he was fickle but did not care about it. Everything was open and upright.
Once, Huang Renzhong even said: Without a woman, I can’t eat. His remarks caused a stir in society. Some say he is ridiculous, while others say he is brave enough to act.
Outside discussions were like a tide, one wave after another, but Huang Renzhong still enjoyed it as freely as before, constantly squandering money.
People often say that a thousand-mile dike is destroyed by an ant hole. Even a small thing can easily cause big problems. When Huang Renzhong was young, he spent a lot of time and energy to lay a foundation. He thought he could use this wealth to spend his whole life, but he caused him an extremely heavy disaster because of this idea.
People's time and energy are extremely limited. After Huang Renzhong succeeded and became famous, he always indulged in pleasure, inevitably ignored his own industry, and could not detect market changes in time.
If the market has been relatively calm, even if Huang Renzhong doesn’t care about anything, he can make money steadily and will not lose his own foundation.
However, the market environment has been changing, and many times it can even be described as changing rapidly. Even if you are energetic and devoted yourself to it, it is difficult to deal with market changes. Huang Renzhong, who has long relaxed his vigilance, has no way to protect himself in the turbulent market environment.
In a violent market fluctuation, Huang Renzhong not only lost billions of assets, but also suffered huge debts of 2.6 billion. Because he was unable to repay the money, Huang Renzhong was prosecuted and took on a heavier responsibility.
After losing his foundation, Huang Renzhong completely woke up. He wanted to turn the unfavorable situation around and move towards glory again.
At this time, he found that the person who had flattered him completely changed his face and no longer pleased him like before. Some people would even deliberately make things difficult for him.
The hundreds of "confidants" he had met for more than 2 billion yuan also left him completely at this time, like avoiding the plague god, for fear of having something to do with him.
During that time, Huang Renzhong thoroughly saw the warmth and coldness of human feelings in the world, and the betrayal and dislike of the people around him caused him a greater blow.
His body was not very healthy. After being hit hard, he soon developed various symptoms and often needed hospitalization.
Fortunately, Huang Renzhong has some relatives and friends who are close to each other. You don’t have to worry too much about medical expenses and can receive relatively effective treatment, but his physical condition has never improved. His body, like his foundation, looked complete, but in fact it had been hollowed out long ago.
In 2004, Huang Renzhong was hospitalized again due to severe gastrointestinal bleeding. After examination, he found that many of his organs had failed and were basically helpless. Huang Renzhong struggled desperately, but still failed to usher in a miracle. He could only leave the world in pain with great reluctance.
Huang Renzhong died at the age of 64. He had not had the opportunity to make a comeback and only left heavy debts to his son Huang Ruogu. When his family held a funeral for him, none of his former confidantes appeared and left in a very down-and-out way.
The major changes in the family also caused a huge blow to Huang Ruogu. He knew that the mess left by his father for himself must be dealt with as soon as possible, otherwise, he would bear more interest because he did not pay off his debt in time.
In order to repay the debt as soon as possible, Huang Ruogu tried his best to find opportunities to make money. Before Huang Renzhong had an accident, he gave him a good living environment and attached great importance to the cultivation of his son, so Huang Ruogu has strong personal abilities and can solve many problems.
Huang Renzhong's former partner also recognized Huang Ruogu's ability and was willing to provide him with some opportunities. Huang Ruogu is very grateful for everyone's help. He tries to strive for it as much as possible whenever he has the opportunity, and he also tries to do everything well and never let the other party down.
Huang Ruogu is very clear that Trust takes years to gradually form, but it is very simple to destroy trust. As long as you lose the promise or mess up the matter, you may completely lose the trust of your partner.
Therefore, he attaches importance to every opportunity to cooperate and always walks on thin ice when doing things, for fear of something going on. Because Huang Ruogu, who is cautious enough and has strong ability to do things, quickly won the recognition of more partners and made a lot of money.
After more than ten years of struggle, Huang Ruogu basically paid off the huge debt left by his father, and his career has also developed very well.
Many people think that it is very difficult for Huang Ruogu to get out of the predicament. Some people even think that Huang Ruogu has created a business miracle.
Huang Ruogu's success is in sharp contrast with his father Huang Renzhong's previous failure, and the contrast is quite obvious.
In fact, although Huang Renzhong lost all his assets during his lifetime and left his son with debts of up to 2.6 billion yuan, he was not useless.
He at least left a lot of connections for his son, and also taught by example, giving his son a richer business experience and lessons. These invisible things are important reasons why Huang Ruogu can turn the tables against the trend.
Someone commented that if Huang Renzhong had not had any interpersonal relationships accumulated over the years, Huang Ruogu would not have any interpersonal relationships at all. Even if he had strong personal abilities, he would not be able to achieve such great achievements.
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After Xu Guiying became famous, she also attracted a lot of controversy. She had been jealous with another actress and was discussed by the media and the public for a long time.
In addition, she has a controversial thing. When her father was seriously ill and ill, she took off his father's oxygen hood.
Many people think that Xu Guiying did this as unfilial, but she herself said that herself was trying to reduce her father's pain. She was in great pain at the time, and that decision was a pain that she could never erase in her life.
When Xu Guiying and Huang Renzhong had an intersection, they were only about 20 years old. They were in their youthful and beautiful years. Although Huang Renzhong was rich, he looked very average. The critic Li Ao even rated Huang Renzhong as one of the "Three Ugly Men in Taiwan Province".
Just look at the appearance, Huang Renzhong and Xu Guiying are very unmatched, so when Huang Renzhong first pursued Xu Guiying, she was soon rejected.
But Huang Renzhong did not give up and kept giving gifts to Xu Guiying, luxurious luxury cars, expensive bags, and exquisite accessories.
Many things that ordinary people are reluctant to use are taken out and given to Xu Guiying at will, just to win the beauty's smile. Under Huang Renzhong's constant pursuit, Xu Guiying quickly accepted him and also completed the marriage procedures with him.
After this, Huang Renzhong may have felt the charm of the actresses and began to take the initiative to contact other actresses, and also had a relatively close relationship with many people.
For example, Chen Baolian, who once became famous by the film, has been criticized by many people for her relatively special work and has a relatively average reputation. Huang Renzhong thinks that she is a very charming person and often takes the initiative to contact her. Like Xu Guiying, she has given Chen Baolian a lot of precious gifts.
Once, Chen Baolian was filming somewhere else. In order to meet her, Huang Renzhong used a private helicopter to pick her up. After dinner, he asked someone to send her back with a private helicopter.
When Huang Renzhong and Chen Baolian were close to each other, he had already married Xu Guiying. He continued to attract bees and butterflies outside, which could easily attract criticism.
Huang Renzhong doesn't care much about other people's opinions, but he doesn't want to be pointed at by others. In order to avoid too much gossip, he declared to the public that Chen Baolian is his "goddaughter" and treating her well is entirely the care that elders should give.
Anyone with discerning eyes knows that Huang Renzhong is doing this to find a fig leaf for himself, but at least in name, it is barely reasonable.
In addition to having a close relationship with Chen Baolian, Huang Renzhong also used the same method to have a special relationship with other famous actresses. Many of them became Huang Renzhong's nominal goddaughters, like Chen Baolian.
Someone once counted that Huang Renzhong has been enjoying himself for many years, and at least hundreds of "confidants". An insider even revealed that Huang Renzhong had placed a super big bed in his mansion that could accommodate 10 people.
If ordinary people were subjected to so many criticisms and accusations, they might have collapsed long ago, but Huang Renzhong did not take it seriously at all. He even believed that he was fickle but did not care about it. Everything was open and upright.
Once, Huang Renzhong even said: Without a woman, I can’t eat. His remarks caused a stir in society. Some say he is ridiculous, while others say he is brave enough to act.
Outside discussions were like a tide, one wave after another, but Huang Renzhong still enjoyed it as freely as before, constantly squandering money.
People often say that a thousand-mile dike is destroyed by an ant hole. Even a small thing can easily cause big problems. When Huang Renzhong was young, he spent a lot of time and energy to lay a foundation. He thought he could use this wealth to spend his whole life, but he caused him an extremely heavy disaster because of this idea.
People's time and energy are extremely limited. After Huang Renzhong succeeded and became famous, he always indulged in pleasure, inevitably ignored his own industry, and could not detect market changes in time.
If the market has been relatively calm, even if Huang Renzhong doesn’t care about anything, he can make money steadily and will not lose his own foundation.
However, the market environment has been changing, and many times it can even be described as changing rapidly. Even if you are energetic and devoted yourself to it, it is difficult to deal with market changes. Huang Renzhong, who has long relaxed his vigilance, has no way to protect himself in the turbulent market environment.
In a violent market fluctuation, Huang Renzhong not only lost billions of assets, but also suffered huge debts of 2.6 billion. Because he was unable to repay the money, Huang Renzhong was prosecuted and took on a heavier responsibility.
After losing his foundation, Huang Renzhong completely woke up. He wanted to turn the unfavorable situation around and move towards glory again.
At this time, he found that the person who had flattered him completely changed his face and no longer pleased him like before. Some people would even deliberately make things difficult for him.
The hundreds of "confidants" he had met for more than 2 billion yuan also left him completely at this time, like avoiding the plague god, for fear of having something to do with him.
During that time, Huang Renzhong thoroughly saw the warmth and coldness of human feelings in the world, and the betrayal and dislike of the people around him caused him a greater blow.
His body was not very healthy. After being hit hard, he soon developed various symptoms and often needed hospitalization.
Fortunately, Huang Renzhong has some relatives and friends who are close to each other. You don’t have to worry too much about medical expenses and can receive relatively effective treatment, but his physical condition has never improved. His body, like his foundation, looked complete, but in fact it had been hollowed out long ago.
In 2004, Huang Renzhong was hospitalized again due to severe gastrointestinal bleeding. After examination, he found that many of his organs had failed and were basically helpless. Huang Renzhong struggled desperately, but still failed to usher in a miracle. He could only leave the world in pain with great reluctance.
Huang Renzhong died at the age of 64. He had not had the opportunity to make a comeback and only left heavy debts to his son Huang Ruogu. When his family held a funeral for him, none of his former confidantes appeared and left in a very down-and-out way.
The major changes in the family also caused a huge blow to Huang Ruogu. He knew that the mess left by his father for himself must be dealt with as soon as possible, otherwise, he would bear more interest because he did not pay off his debt in time.
In order to repay the debt as soon as possible, Huang Ruogu tried his best to find opportunities to make money. Before Huang Renzhong had an accident, he gave him a good living environment and attached great importance to the cultivation of his son, so Huang Ruogu has strong personal abilities and can solve many problems.
Huang Renzhong's former partner also recognized Huang Ruogu's ability and was willing to provide him with some opportunities. Huang Ruogu is very grateful for everyone's help. He tries to strive for it as much as possible whenever he has the opportunity, and he also tries to do everything well and never let the other party down.
Huang Ruogu is very clear that Trust takes years to gradually form, but it is very simple to destroy trust. As long as you lose the promise or mess up the matter, you may completely lose the trust of your partner.
Therefore, he attaches importance to every opportunity to cooperate and always walks on thin ice when doing things, for fear of something going on. Because Huang Ruogu, who is cautious enough and has strong ability to do things, quickly won the recognition of more partners and made a lot of money.
After more than ten years of struggle, Huang Ruogu basically paid off the huge debt left by his father, and his career has also developed very well.
Many people think that it is very difficult for Huang Ruogu to get out of the predicament. Some people even think that Huang Ruogu has created a business miracle.
Huang Ruogu's success is in sharp contrast with his father Huang Renzhong's previous failure, and the contrast is quite obvious.
In fact, although Huang Renzhong lost all his assets during his lifetime and left his son with debts of up to 2.6 billion yuan, he was not useless.
He at least left a lot of connections for his son, and also taught by example, giving his son a richer business experience and lessons. These invisible things are important reasons why Huang Ruogu can turn the tables against the trend.
Someone commented that if Huang Renzhong had not had any interpersonal relationships accumulated over the years, Huang Ruogu would not have any interpersonal relationships at all. Even if he had strong personal abilities, he would not be able to achieve such great achievements.
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