Yang Mi Liu Kaiwei Divorce!
Just yesterday, Jiaxing Media, which is to Yang Mi and Liu Kaiwei, issued an announcement on Weibo:
"The two have signed an agreement this year to break up peacefully and end their marriage."
In the statement, the two said: Although no longer lives together as a husband and wife, they will also take care of and raise their children as relatives in the future.
has no fight, no bloody plot, and has not turned against the child for the custody of his child. Instead, he will continue to accompany his child as a relative.
I have to say that this statement is very "Yang Mi". Even when facing the big event of divorce, her handling result is relatively perfect.
A brief review of the emotional experiences of the two:
In 2011, Yang Mi and Liu Kaiwei fell in love because of the drama and began to have emotional intersections with each other.
The two announced their relationship on Weibo in 2012.
In January 2014, the two held a wedding ceremony in Bali, and their sixth daughter "Little Nuomi" was born in the same year.
On December 22, 2018, the divorce was officially announced.
In just 5 years, from getting to know each other and falling in love, it really corresponds to the saying: The good things in the world are not firm, and the colorful clouds are easy to disperse and the glass is crisp.
, love marriage has always been like this.
Even if you have money and beauty, some feelings will still be as light as you say, and you will be as thin as you say you want.
Moreover, the relationship between celebrities in the entertainment industry has never been clear and it is difficult to tell whether it is true or false.
Whether it is Liu Kaiwei's "Light-Light script" incident or Yang Mi's "too busy and care about family", we may never know the truth about their divorce.
However, in the face of Yang Mi's move to announce the divorce information, I have to say some things.
A powerful enough person, no matter how you choose, it is the right one.
Before Yang Mi divorced, to be honest, she didn't really like her.
, especially her monthly "divorce post" with Liu Kaiwei, has become a hot topic that is more punctual than her aunt.
creates a perfect traffic actress who relies on marriage rumors to maintain the number of topics and popularity.
But after the official announcement of the divorce, it added a little favor to her. Why
?
Because, she is finally independent enough.
1. Economic independence:
Yang Mi is a well-known model worker in the entertainment industry, and her annual workload is amazing. Even after getting married in Bali, I immediately flew back to China to continue working on the same day after attending the wedding.
After the birth of her daughter, Yang Mi not only recovered her figure, but her workload also increased without decreasing.
may be luck or hard work enough, and Yang Mi's career has been cheating.
From a traffic star to a first-line celebrity, from setting up a personal studio to making a hit like Di Lieba , Yang Mi's ranking on the Forbes ranking has also soared.
It is rumored that Yang Mi's company Jiaxing Media makes more than 300 million yuan in profits every year. And Yang Mi herself has already worth over 100 million yuan.
Remember, in an interview, the host asked her: If you want to buy a house for your parents, would you discuss it with your husband Liu Kaiwei?
Yang Mi shook her head, no. The host of
asked, why?
Yang Mi smiled faintly and returned: Because I can afford it myself.
For Yang Mi, getting married and having children is just a part of her life. She never intends to change or give up her career plan for this, and she will not feel that she has support behind her, so she gives up her efforts and enjoys the fruits.
For her, working hard to make money is not to love money, but to always maintain her independent capital.
What you want to buy for your children and what you want to buy for your parents, just go and buy it yourself, without any need to ask, and no need for other people's consent.
2. Emotional independence:
Many people say that Yang Mi and Liu Kaiwei are the couples who are the least like couples in the entertainment industry.
implied that the two interact too little.
But adult love never lies in the amount of superficial interaction, but in the fact that while each other is doing their best to do their own work, they are also willing to make time for each other and give care and care.
, for example, birthday wishes every year, such as two people meeting at a short airport;
, for example, after the "Light-Light script" incident, Yang Mi forwarded the blog with a heart of love to show support and trust.
When she was together, she insisted on announcing to the whole world regardless of the gap in fame and age; when she was separated, she was rational and free and easy, without saying hurtful words or doing hurtful actions, so as to get together and part.
dares to get married at the most popular time, and it becomes more and more popular after getting married. Her husband is generous in cheating and she is not afraid of divorce.
can be seen that in this relationship, no matter what state it is, Yang Mi maintains independence and rationality.
And this independence and rationality seem so precious in the bloody plot of celebrities fighting each other after marriage.
A woman, who has both financial and emotional independence, will not be wrong to some extent any choice or decision.
Because a person who is strong enough is the right choice.
The meaning of independence lies in having the right to choose
Now, Yang Mi’s divorce has become a foregone conclusion.
Some people congratulate Yang Mi on being single; some people feel sorry for their daughter Xiao Nuomi;
Some people lament that there are so many suitable things in marriage, and you must know how to "have and cherish it";
also talk about it, marriage is not a lifelong system, so don't make do if you are not happy, divorce is no big deal.
...
In fact, in my opinion, the greatest significance of divorce is to regain the right to choose.
What kind of life to choose to live, what kind of path to take in the future, or choose to go out to earn money or stay at home full time, these are the free choices given to you by independent means.
Just like in the American drama "The Great Mrs. Maisel", Mickey, who is at home full-time, encounters her husband cheating and demands a divorce.
However, what is even more tragic is that after the divorce, the mansion originally under the name of his father-in-law was taken back and sold.
In just a few days, Mickey encountered her husband's cheating and her luxury house being taken away. She had no job but had to support her two children's life changes dramatically.
The night when her husband left home, she gave up on herself, put on a casual coat, and rushed into the heavy rain with wine.
Fortunately, Mickey, who suffered a huge change in marriage, quickly cheered up after experiencing a brief period of sorrow, pain and confusion.
She still carefully dresses herself up every day, and unexpectedly discovers her talent as an actor in the comedy talk show .
On the way to becoming a talk show actor, Mickey made mistakes, experienced setbacks, and even thought about giving up, but after stumbled all the way, she finally became a popular talk show actor.
After Miqi's independence and self-glow, the cheating husband regretted it and came to her to get back together. Miqi said "No".
She finally relied on herself and had the right to choose in the game of marriage.
Although before that, Mickey's only goal in life was to be a mother who was just a delicate housewife who did nothing, relying on her own beauty and elegance to firmly tie her husband's heart, take care of her children, cook dinner, and hold a lively and successful party.
However, the husband's cheating and betrayal was like a slap on the face. Although it hurts, it also woke up Mickey who was sleeping in his heart.
She is no longer the housewife who revolves around her husband and children in marriage. She lives out of herself and the brilliance of an independent woman.
The more independent the more powerful
In fact, women's independence is an eternal topic, without the boundaries of time and the distinction between regions.
Whether it is to remain independent in love or in marriage, this is a compulsory course that every woman should complete throughout her life.
Yang Mi is like this, Mickey is like this, and millions of women are like this.
If someone asks, as an ordinary woman, what is the key to independence?
I want to say that the key to women's independence is not whether you insist on being single or getting married, nor whether you want to forgive your cheating husband, but whether you have the right to choose and be able to bear the possible consequences of each choice.
You can choose to get married or be single, you can choose to work or rest, you can choose to choose to be refined or be unrestrained.
obeys the heart and is not afraid of choices. This is true independence.
Finally, regarding Yang Mi’s divorce, I would like to wish every independent woman who dares to break through the siege of marriage for the rest of her life:
will not be confused, not trapped in love, not remember the past, and not fear the future.
Jiaoma
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